Big problem?

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ok i have a problem and im only 14 so there isnt much i can do..... well my mom has been drinking for some time now and its starting to get bad i mean to where she drinks every day. It never used to bother me b4 but its got to the point where she picked me and the neighbor up from school buzzed. and it really makes me mad b/c i am starting to have parties and she drinks during them and comes out and starts to be really anoying........ we can all clearly tell she is drinking to...... and its really tearing my family apart my dad almost went up to our cottage one time b/c he could take it anymore idk what to do most nights i cry myself to sleep b/c shes not doing anything to stop and when shes sober and we confront her she denies it or blams it on us..... also we tried to dump her liquore and whisky but she buys it and hides it..... then she promised if we stopped dumping it she would slow down but again she lied..... i really need help my dad and brother dont know what to do!! :'( plz

well i mean its not like a party party it just some of my friends over and none of us drink. i am totaly against it, b/c its stupid and ruins peoples lives.

Answer 1

Hun i know how u feel if u cry show her...... if u ask how when she starts and Ur about to cry go up to Ur mom grab her hand look i her eyes if she starts pulling away hold her if u can look at her and say " Ur my mother do u like making me cry mom , mom do u even care about me mom" and grab a photo of the family before she started drinking then have Ur bro and dad come in show her the picture and say "mom were are you mom because then mom i this picture is not u " if she starts yelling say OK mom if this is what u want OK have u and Ur bro and dad leave and go t like a hotel or a friends house....OK i know this is going to be hard Hun but it will work ....then before u leave rip the photo and just leave the part with her in it then leave it in a spot were she would see it when she gets sober and leave a note with its saying" mom if u want u family back then be the mom u were choose Ur family or Ur drinks and mom think because if u make the wrong choice well then u never see us again"....i know this sound hard and mean but if she see she will lose something she might shape up then get her some help if she choose u if she doesn't u have to bring her to a rehab place and leave her there its for the best OK good luck

Answer 2

Your mom is an alcoholic and needs help with her addiction. There is an organization called Alcoholics Anonymous, they have a toll-free number your dad can call. He really needs to get her help before she gets behind the wheel and kills herself, or someone else. One of the first signs that someone is an alcoholic is to deny they have a problem drinking. An alcoholic always blames others for why they drink too. Also, tell your dad there is an organization called Al-Anon, which also has a toll-free number he can call. This organization is for family members and friends of alcoholics, and they can give you good advice on what to do. God bless you and your family, I pray she gets the help she needs.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

It sounds like your in a bad situation but maybe your mom doesn't know what else to do to calm her self down ..so maybe if you get her into a new hobbie she will stop and concentrate on her new hobbie.

P.S. i really hope your mom stops drinking ..wish your dad god luck!!

Answer 5

She needs to get help. I agree that you should try talking with her when she's sober. Let her know how it impacts you. You may even want to record her when she's drunk then play it back when she's sober. This may be an eye-opener to her. Pray about it. This will help more than anything.

Answer 6

Well honey the fact that you are partying means you may very well end up like your mom one day.She gets drunk to hide from her feelings and problems.Video tape her while she is drunk,and take the tape to the school counselor and they may be able to help.

Answer 7

okay,first watch your language!eventhough you're in a hurry!people could barely understand what you're saying!okay,i'm 14 too and maybe you could just go and talk to her face 2 face.tell her that she really annoys you and tell everything you want to.she maybe would understand.