In my school, a boy I just see i the hallways, died of a disease a few days ago. The teachers and counselors told our class today that he died. I never knew him or talked to him. But I was crying, from hearing this and it hurts. Now Im very worried if a loved one (mom,dad,siblings) dies, how much more will it hurt?
2007-11-20 14:03:11 · 9 answers · asked by AC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Death is a scary issue to face. We all worry about what we would do when a loved one passes on. Well as for me when I lost my mom 6 years ago it was the most life changing moment for me. At first I couldn't believe what was happening and then I was angry about it. I guess you feel all the emotions like a roller coaster ride. It hurts very much in the beginning, and I don't think the hurt ever goes away, but you eventually learn to live with whats happened and the pain becomes less. Try not to worry yourself right now sweetie, enjoy every moment and love them the best you can so when the day does come you will never live with any regret. God Bless and Good luck
2007-11-20 14:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about the boy at your school.
Unfortunately losing a loved one will hurt very badly when that time comes, but hopefully, realizing that will help you appreciate them so much more every day they're with you now. Focus on loving them in your life now instead of spending time worrying about possibly losing them.
Best wishes and peace.
2007-11-20 14:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by addressing_you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone will be affected by this.
Friends, family, everyone he knew no matter who they were. Even enemies and childhood friends.
No matter how un aquainted you guys were he may have been one of those kids from elementry school that made life funner for all.
For someone to be close to him, they must feel depressed and sulken. The worst part is they have to struggle to live without him and remembering him will be joyous and painful. Its pretty complex. Having a family member die will cause an internal battle that will last for years.
2007-11-20 14:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts much more than words can describe...especially when they take that last breath, even though you know they are dying...you realize that this moment is the last moment you will ever be able to touch them, hold them, hug them, kiss them again...until you see them in heaven....but in the end, it makes you want to live a better life so that you can see them again some day. But you never stop missing them.
2007-11-20 14:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by swtserenity43 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-09-05 10:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt alot !!! This boy was just an acquaintance , and hearing that he died, gave you the "reality jolt" that we are ALL going to die. No one lives forever. Just tell those you love that you DO love them Every chance you get!!!
2007-11-20 14:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts a lot and even older people when they lose a parent they still grieve like I do for my mum.They say time is a great healer.
2007-11-20 14:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts alot but by dwelling on it it's like you're living for death and that's not what life is about.
2007-11-20 14:09:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts
a lot
its a part of life
2007-11-20 14:06:27 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋