2007-11-20 12:57:14 · 8 answers · asked by lei 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My dad is abroad since 1982, I am the eldest of all his children - from different relationships he has gotten into. I do understand that he has his personal needs to attend to but what hurts me most is him allowing this girl to control everything. They both even called my mother and my other siblings to say bad things about me. I am hurt and depression sinks into my system.
2007-11-20 13:46:10 · update #1
Tell her how it is, don't be afraid of her or your father.
Take care of your business.
2007-11-20 13:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by boer84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation happened to my daughter...This is a horrible thing...I asked my daughter to have a talk with her dad...she did and he called her a liar that his girl friend would never do this...so don't know if you can talk to your father about this...It was a very lucky thing that this relation ship didn't last long...I would not let my daughter answer the phone....I took her every where she was either with me or her bf....If at all possible do not go anywhere alone...Take care of you
2007-11-20 13:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by wilma s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your father has a g/f of your age I guess she is at least 20 It will be much easier for you to move out than to be harassed everyday
2007-11-20 13:43:53 · answer #3 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad had re-married, and my stepmom is 30+ years old. Quite older than me. She's not harassing me. We always get along just fine. ;)
Coz if that happens and she DOES harasses me,.... I'll ask my dad if he can file a divorce or annulment. :D
Or if my dad still loves her and she keeps on harassing me, then I'm moving to another location and I don't wanna tell them where I live. Coz I'm a very peaceful man. :)
2007-11-22 22:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know you hate her. Give your dad subtle hints. And if she's harrassing you, you have a good enough reason to get between them.
2007-11-20 13:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time tell him that you can only see him without the "girlfreind". he can either take it or leave it. it's up to him.
2007-11-20 13:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have your friends come over and hit on her... keep her so busy that she cant mess with you...
2007-11-20 13:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by westsideslider1979 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her butt
2007-11-20 13:03:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋