Family - September 2007

2007-09-08 14:22:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found this purse yesterday at the mall.
it is $65.
i asked my mom for it and she said no.
i asked her if she could buy it for me now and take away my allowence to earn that money for it.
she said no.
i dont know what to do. i love this purse and i know it is a lot of money but there were only two left and i dont see the big deal i mean i would be paying for it with my own money and i havent gotten a new purse in months and my old one is falling apart.

what can i do?

2007-09-08 13:48:14 · 10 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1

I want to go live with my dad in Wyoming. I live in Texas and I'm 13.... is that old enough to choose custody??

2007-09-08 13:10:39 · 13 answers · asked by Tessa 3

well my sister was 14 when she lost her virginity to a 20 year old guy and they had been dating behind my family's back for a year before we found out about it. they have been dating since july 2004. well he didnt use a condom and now she has a std which gives her possibility of cervical cancer which can prevent her from having kids and can killl her and she has been on the pill since she was 14 and she has to constantly have a paps mere (or however you spell it).anyways he almost got my mom arrested cause he was up in her face at mccoy stadium and she slapped him twice and he pressed charges. she almost got arrested but since she had the complaint of what he did to her she is not in jail. but now everyone is at truce with him but im still not. i just cant get over of how he KNEW he had a std and he didnt evn try to use protection and all my family has been through cause of him. is it wrong to still be the only mad at him for what he did? is it wrong to hate the relationship?

2007-09-08 12:56:48 · 6 answers · asked by Subtle Revenge 7

How do i get my parents to give me money for shopping tommorow???

2007-09-08 12:52:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

just reliezed that the father of my baby makes me misrable and he thinks that he will be a good father on his own with out making a effort in our relationship. Ive done everything up til last night when i feel like the both of us went completlly crazy on eachother and it was so bad for my baby. Im so scared because im due in 6 weeks and i have no support from him. he drinks, and smokes all the time and is extremly selfish. I will not call him anymore or return his calls because it hurts me.. but i cant decide whether to involve him in my pregnancy. I know he will change and be a good father but he hates me and i feel so alone. Its hard looking at other pregnant women with there husbands enjoying this precious time. How can i let go of my strong feelings for him? How do i show him he cant walk all over me if he wants a part in my daughters life? How can help myself from calling him or letting down my guard at all when im around him?

2007-09-08 12:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by Cerina L 1

If you had a family member teaching you in school..(someone you not super close to (like a cousin)?? would you be more shy around them and feel like you have to live up to something more? or would you be more laid back??

2007-09-08 12:06:27 · 5 answers · asked by Wut?I missed it 3

He gets so mad sometimes for the stupidist reasons. he starts yelling and it pisses me off so bad i want to hit him or tell him off. of course i wouldnt do that but its the thoughts really. it used to be every once in a while but now its almost everyday. im gettin sick of it. some times i even feel like running away just be away from him. the other day he went on a buisiness trip for 2 days. i was so happy when i found that out. is that wrong of me? hes not abusive. but lately hes been takin it out on our dog. then he try to play it off by sayin " i didnt even hit her hard" or "i was just holding her". she just a puppy its not her fault she not house trained yet. we will probably have to sell her b/c we dont want her abused. can i have soem advice on how not to get mad at him or to explain to him that hes acting weird. and also hes been taking these herbalife vitamins or sumthin could that have something to do with it?

2007-09-08 12:04:20 · 16 answers · asked by tchrebel101 1

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My daughter is now 17, in the school 6th form year 1.

This was not my wish though.

She deliberately failed her GCSE's or at least didnt try or study for them.
Basically, she wanted to stay on in school and not go onto College yet.
She is delaying "grown up" studies and life.

It hurts me to say, but she has become untrustful, very very lazy and has no "drive" or ambition.

She had a nice little part time job, but gave it up.

A lot of her friends parents are affluent etc.
We are not, and I like to go by my fore parents way of things.
Work hard for your rewards in life.

I wanted her to go to College.
Resit a couple of important GCSE's.
Gain some NVQ's.
Work the odd evening to fund her life style.

Is this so wrong?

She's now gone back to school to resit the deliberate failures.
Wont do any further studies.
Wont work.

(scream)........Help.................................

2007-09-08 12:03:13 · 18 answers · asked by Nutty 3

In my immediate family? My cousin & my nephew just had babies, but no one told me. 2 new births in the family. Also, when my OWN twin sister got pregnant, I was the last one to find out, & I had to hear from other sources. & she said her kids' births are none of my business. I mean, do I NOT have the right to be informed of new family members or who died? & when my oldest sister died, no one told me, & I couldn't even go to the funeral. I was one of the last ones to find out about her death. I never got to meet her in person because me & my twin sister & some brothers were taken away into foster care.

I'm 24 now. Why would my brother inform my former foster mom about my sister's death before me? & she didn't even give me the message. My twin sister was raped & my former foster mom didn't tell me. I overheard her telling HER family members.

2007-09-08 11:24:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has a job opportunity as a Deputy Sheriff, which we were very excited about- even though he would take an $8000 yearly drop in comparison to his current salary. He would work less, and be able to supplement his income on his days off. When his boss found out he was planning on leaving, he offered to double his pay and open another shop, specifically for him to run. It would not have the benefits that the Deputy job does, but the pay would be spectacular. We could actually pay all but our car off in about 6 months. What would you do?

2007-09-08 11:12:53 · 5 answers · asked by Loving Mommy 2

So...title says it all. My dad's a drunk, and has been since before I was born. Only recently (past few years) has he started drinking around the house. I don't really have the right to complain about him too much because he's not abusive and usually is just passed out on the couch. The thing is, I just get really angry with him. When I look at him, i get pissed off, i can't talk to him without getting angry, especially when I can smell it on his breath. And when he doesn't come home (he commutes) I end up doing all the housework that he usually does. He's outwardly admitted to all of us that he has a drinking problem but that was two years ago and he's not making any progress! The other week my mom said that I should congratulate him for going to two AA meetings, but I found beer cans in the way bottom of the recycling (he hid them) and when I opened the trunk of his car to get some groceries out he had a cooler full of ice and beer. It is just frustrating..anything i can do?

2007-09-08 09:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by SG22 3

PLEASE give me your best ideas!

2007-09-08 09:44:18 · 18 answers · asked by mUsIcLoVeR 1

Her father is not in the picture.

2007-09-08 09:36:11 · 5 answers · asked by vardvu 2

i'm 17 and my Dad died about 3years ago, but it didn't faze me at all. I'm not exatterating either, i really didn't care. I never really knew him but my mom hated him more than anything. He was the worst person ever and done the worst things to my mom. My mom also told me that when i was a baby he used to abuse me physically. I have no recolection of him at all as they split when i was very young maybe 2 or 3. My older brother on the other hand remembers him but didn't like him at all. A few years before he died social services asked him if he wanted to see us. He said that he didn't want to know me but he wanted to see my brother. This again didn't faze me at all. The day i found out he died i was asked if i wanted to go to the funeral....i didn't go and neither did my brother. Everybody expects me to be really upset about all of it and when i say i don't care people think i'm just trying to be tough or something. Am i strange? Should i feel more upset about this stuff? please help

2007-09-08 09:13:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom is living in alabama at the moment and i live in texas. my sister has pretty much disowned her. she is a drug attict, she wants everyone to take care of her, and she is very manipulative, she is 56 yrs old. she makes up illnesses and gets doctors to prescribe her LARGE amounts of pills, and she smokes weed, right now she is on speed/meth too. i want to put her in a home, wether that be mental, old folks, or rehab i dont know. i think it would be good for everyone especially my mom. if i could do this they might be able to find out what is REALLY wrong with her, and get someone to rashon her the right medications, she would be taken care of, i would visit often, and it would benifit all of our mental health. she is incompitent to take care of herself. anyways how would i go about doing something like this? is it possible?how much would this cost? ect...? plz help! no rude answers.

2007-09-08 08:45:10 · 6 answers · asked by Dungonecrazy11 2

this pain is not getting any better, its getting worse. I was really close to my grandma, i saw her almost everyday of my life, i even took care of her when she was at home, i would get her something to eat, get her meds, help her to get into bed and out, and if needed help her get dressed, i love my grandma to death, and i never wanted to loose her. Will this pain get better? why do i still have the image of her laying in the ICU dead? and dont be a effin jerk and leave a disrespectful comment, b/c my grandma is way to speical to be disrepected on.

2007-09-08 08:32:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where were you the day I was born.Where were you the day I cut my first tooth.Where were you the day I took my first step.Where were you the day I had chicken pox.where were you the day I was crying for you.Where were you the day I started school.Where were you the day I took my first day class.Where were you the day i graduated from school.where were you the day I got engaged to my beau.Where were you the day I got married.Where were you the day I gave birth to one,two and three boys.Where were you the day I got divorced.Where were you the day I needed you.where were you the day I flew to Heaven.Where were you the day I looked down on you.where were you the day I opened the gates for you.Where were you,oh just where were you?

2007-09-08 08:18:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 13. My parents are divorced and my mom has started dating my dad's ex-best friend, lets call him Joe, who recently screwed my dad over. When I'm not there, she's living over his house, and when I am, we're over almost every day. She has her own dresser there, all of our board games, movies, and our stereo system. At night, I'm sent to bed at 10 so Joe can come over, and we don't spend any time together. And they've only been datin 3 MONTHS!

I can't sleep at night, cry all the time, and have depressive behavior at school. These are all completely unlike me. I've tried to talk to my mom about it, but she is cold and says i'm being 'selfish', then goes back and tells Joe the whole conversation we had.

Meanwhile, my dad says that i should move in with him during the week, so it won't screw up my schoolwork. I know it's probably best for me because i just can't handle it, but its going to be the hardest and worst moment of my life. My mom and i used to be best friends.
Help Me!!

2007-09-08 08:13:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

As children my siblings & I suffered abuse from our father, more hurtful was the ingnorance of our mum, the fact she never stopped him or protected us. Shes divorced him & ever since she's acted like a victim, she's completely self involved and only remembers her pain. My brother and sis have little at all to do with her, nor do I, only our youngest sis sees her on a day to day basis. Last night it was her birthday and as usual the drunken conversation drifted to talking about "him" I must point out that my little sister raised the issue, not me. My mum started saying stuff about our past that was complete lies, she basically rewrote our history, I should of walked out but i'm stubborn and had to put her right, I ended the night talking my big sister and she told me my mum thinks i'm really screwed up because i keep "keep causing arguements" about it. I'm so mad at her, its never me that raises the issue but I cant not argue back with her when shes lieing!what do i do?

2007-09-08 08:11:15 · 12 answers · asked by KeaneMiss 2

2007-09-08 07:56:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my baby passed away 2 years ago just b4 her first birthday ., i have recently broken up with my babys mother , if i or her go on 2 have kids in our next relationship , who will we be with when we pass over . the thought of not seen my baby again rips my heart out . or do we all be one big happy family . no mucking about please

2007-09-08 07:42:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost my child at 14.5 weeks a few months ago. After a few weeks I kinda went back to normal, mentally. I think I just did'nt deal with it. Now, for about a month, all hell has broke loose. I think about it 24/7. I have nightmares almost every night. I feel guilty and unworthy of happiness. I get my feelings hurt very easily, because iam fragile. And I spend 95% of the time iam home, in the bed crying. I have no one to talk to. My husband is unable to communicate about it, which makes me think he blames me. But I did everything right. I quit smoking the day I concieved, and still have been quit. I havent drank in years. I was good to my body, slept right, ate right. I know iam my worst enemie. But when I try to talk to my husband he tells me I need to talk to "someone". I dont guess he realizes I am trying to talk to him. He will listen to me about it, but not talk back. I live 18 hours away from my family. I don't talk to anyone in his family because they are disfunctional. I'm alone

2007-09-08 07:25:02 · 3 answers · asked by August 3

2007-09-08 06:39:44 · 6 answers · asked by chet gurung 2

My fiance found out that he is not the biological father of his 14 year old son who he raised and believed he was the father of. When my fiance confronted the mother with this info she admitted she had done "the math" and just picked one of the two men she was sleeping with to be the father. The mother has asked that everyone keep this secret because she "don't want everyone to know what she did." (She actually said this to my fiance.) I feel the boy deserves to know the truth and rather sooner than later for a bunch of reasons. 1. Other people now know about this and it would be terrible for him to hear it from someone else other than his parents. 2. Possible health problems. 3. He is at the dating age and if this other man is the father then he has 3 sisters who are around the same age. I know that keeping such a big secret can hurt a person deeply and I don't want this to be worse than it has to be. When should the boy be told the truth? Any opinions would be greatly appreciated

2007-09-08 06:24:27 · 14 answers · asked by Jenna G 2

i had a boy (male) in my bedroom last night but we didnt do anything and now my mom thinks im having sex and im not. she scheduled me an appointment to go to the doctor on monday and i dont want to go.

how do doctors prove that someone [me a 16 yr old] isnt a virgin? because i dont want a doctor looking "down there" !!

2007-09-08 05:54:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a father with a really bad temper. When I was younger, all I remember of him was being explosive whenever something bad happened. Even now, when he's in a bad enough mood, he'll throw things and yell literally at the top of his lungs. And what's worse, whenever he wants something he'll threaten to lose his temper. You may think that's not a big deal, but I get so scared of him. It brings everything back; all of the yelling and arguing between my parents, how I felt. I'm 16 now and a junior in high school. I was inspired to put this on here because 10 minutes ago he started yelling at me again and he called me a "stupid *****". I can seriously say I hate him sometimes. I hate living with this fear. Everywhere I go I feel like I'm controlled by this urge to make everyone happy so that they won't get angry. I'm extremely insecure but I want to change that. Please, if anyone can give me any advice, do it. I would love to hear anyone's opinion. Thank you.

2007-09-08 05:32:17 · 6 answers · asked by runmebreathless 2

2007-09-08 05:15:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am 6'5", bald, little chubby, strong in all ways, and very down to earth. I am 31 years old and close to graduating from college.

Why are girls so afraid of me? If a girl looks at me she automatically looks away/put their heads down or most of the time doesn't even look at me at all. This has been going on for years and I don't know what to do. I don't like clubs and I am not picky at all. Have been told by older people that I am very handsome and confident.

So why can't I find a girl who likes me? Is it my physical stature or the fact that I don't chase after them enough?

Oh, yes I live alone and smell great!

2007-09-08 04:45:00 · 16 answers · asked by cappatown23 3

ok so i just moved to florida about 7 months ago from west virginia and theres homecoming...i've nevr been to a homecoming so its kinda exciting for me...but i have a cousin whos one year younger but shes....a spolied brat and she always gets everything she wants...she out does me in everything...and her mom is always comparing us and im kinda sick and tired of it...i decided not to go to homecoming and just stay home...wat should i do that night?

2007-09-08 04:22:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous