Family - September 2007

Ok I have a friend and she is not very close but we occasionally see each other and all. Well she had a baby 2 months ago and I got her a baby gift and have been trying to give it to her lately but she has been too tired for visitors. Anyway, I gave it to her hubby to give to her because he works at the same place that I work. But when I tell him I have gifts for his new baby.. he doesn't really respond about it and today I told him that my friend(his wife) was showing me some pictures of him and the baby sleeping together and how I thought it was cute.. but he really didn't say nothing at all. I just think it is kinda weird, he dont brag about his new baby at all. Oh and he tells me that he never really see's his wife alot because I guess he's busy. But it kinda seems to me he don't want 'girls' to know he has a wife and baby or something. What would you think? Oh yea and we both work at a gym and he is a personal trainer.

2007-09-07 16:02:40 · 7 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1

I hate for someone to use the stall next to me when 3 others are open. Seems like they always have to poop too!

2007-09-07 15:54:58 · 18 answers · asked by Amanda 2

OK well her boyfriends kid is annoying! were in the same grade and now im not popular because of her! She copys me like on my school description i said i love wwe skateboarding and stuff she said the same thing! she follows me, she does watever i do and i dont wanna say You Know your Annoying So Plz Stop because last time i made her cry!!! its getting outta hand shes just not getting the point!!! AND SHES SLEEPING IN MY ROOM WEARING MY MAKE UP AND IM VERY ANNOYED PLZ HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-07 15:53:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was just checking in on my baby and she looked so much at peace. so sweet. so happy, but at the same time im dreading the moment she wakes up because the terror starts! hahaha. i love my little BooBoo, but sometimes i just want to strap her down to a chair. thats parenting though! i wouldnt trade anything in the world for my babies.

2007-09-07 15:40:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would just like to say what a pleasure it is to read most of the answers that are posted on these forums to some very difficult conditions...I have learned much about how to deal with some situations I never even considered.

So THANK YOU for your articulate thoughtfulness...I, for one, appreciate you...And I think those in need of advice and counsel are most grateful as well.

Sincerely, Jim

2007-09-07 15:32:47 · 3 answers · asked by thud.fan 6

ive had a million phone calls from parents and teachers and a million conversations with her but she wont stop!what should i do?

2007-09-07 15:29:36 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday my mom told me that her and my stepdad were divorced but I acted like it was nothing. But now I have been about to cry a lot today because he's the only one who had been a role model and a father for me and now he has to leave in January I am very upset...I can't believe this. Doesn't this suck or what??? Right now lifes bad I don't what I am gonna do i just need some help, I'm so mad its not even funny

2007-09-07 15:28:07 · 6 answers · asked by mmmm 2

My mother-in-law (a lot about her in previous post), called me today as I was getting ready to run out the door. I didn't answer...I walked out the door 5 minutes later and she is walking up my driveway. I was really on my way to go shopping but told her I was going to my parents for dinner so that she couldn't stall. My parents live right down the street so she decided to walk down with me and stay for 45 minutes until my mom invited her to stay for dinner.
I think its rude of her to just stop in after I didn't answer. I obviously didn't answer for a reason. What if I was sleeping? or just didn't want visitors (my house was a mess today)? She has in the past just popped over while we were "occupied" in the bedroom. Why doesn't she get the hint that if I don't answer the phone or the door I don't want visitors.
Weren't her 2 actions today (stopping at my house and over staying her welcome at my parent's) just incredibly rude?

2007-09-07 15:23:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my older sister died 2 yrs ago is it time to move on i been crying and thinking bout her every day is it time?

2007-09-07 15:21:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother in law heard my husband and i talking. we were speaking english and she mostly speaks spanish.
she pops into our convo and tells me im not stupid dont talk about me and dont talk to my son like that!! i said what we are talking about is none of ur business and then she says its my son and he is my business. my husband literally had to take her aside and explain we were not speaking about her and proceded to tell her what we werre actually talking about. this upset me becuz i think it was none of her business also he is grown and her being his mother was not a valid reason for her to be trying to eaves drop. am i wrong??

2007-09-07 15:15:20 · 5 answers · asked by 1glamchick 1

My mom never told me she was pregnant. I notice her belly was big but I thought that she was getting fatter. I asked my mom why her belly was so big and she said she didn't know and always change the subject and lie to me. I made it very clear to her that I don't want another sibling, especially a sister. I already have 2 siblings and that's enough for me. I ask her if there is a baby and she said no. So I believed her. Also I didn't think she could get pregnant because she's like 40 years old. I mean, how can anyone have a baby at that age without undergoing some kind of treatment??? Both my mom and dad never said a word to me about the pregnancy and never mentioned it, so I believed that she was just fat. Then a month later I didn't see her for two days. Of course my dad doesn't tell me why she is gone. Then I come home from school and I see her. She tells me to take a look at my baby sister! I was beyond shocked!!! She lied to me and never told me about the pregnancy!!

2007-09-07 15:14:35 · 32 answers · asked by AAA 2

9 11. I was a senior in high school and I heard the teacher sniffling. She took us outside without telling us why and my mom came to pick me up. We watched the news glued to the screen. We cried a little, because my older brother was in New York for vacation. He called shortly after we turned off the TV. When we knew it was over, mom took me and my little sister to the only rollerblading place opened. She though we should have something cheerful in the sea of sadness. That's what I wrote in my diary that day. I can still remember it like it was yesterday. Remember.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CIAY0KENZUc

2007-09-07 15:13:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really wanna be a model, and I have been wanting to for awhile, I have the looks, the body and all that, but how can I tell my mom. I have 2 friends that model, but she thinks there moms make them do it for the money. I dont care about the money, I want to model.

2007-09-07 15:10:25 · 6 answers · asked by bamablondie5 1

ok. Today the dude I babysit asked me to babysit his two kids while they went out. And I have a lot of homework. Well I have to read To Kill A Mocking Bird and its due Tuesday (on chapter 3) so tonight I wanted to get that done. Well I said to her that I was gonna tell him no not tonight. And she like flipped out. We got into it on how I didn't think I should have to babysit and that she didn't need to tell me what to do. I had a long day at school because I am getting my wisdom teeth so I didn't feel good plus the kids are loud and annoying so I don't wanna bother. Well she got into saying they made my bro work and I am not better...I know that but like I should have say in when I wanna babysit and its FRIDAY NIGHT! What if I had a date or something. So then she said they have some other girl babysit, and I said well why couldn't they get her and she goes its friday and she is in college! And I was like so I am in high school and its friday no difference. Should she of made me go orno

2007-09-07 15:10:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother in law lived with my husband and I for 5 months, she never cleaned, helped with bills, or helped with the kids. I never complained but I always constantly found myself cleaning after her and paying her share. When I finally got fed up I asked my husband to speak with her and she decided she should move in with her own daughter.
I am very close with my husbands sisters so when it was brought to my attention what she had been telling them I was shocked. She had said I lived in filth never cooked and was a neglectful mother. this really hurt me and I want to say something so bad but what? Also now that I just bought a home and am expecting another child she wants to move in again and "help out". I think she is mad because I had her son bring it to her attn about me cleaning up after and cooking for her. Am i wrong to say no and should i bring up her previous comments?? She speaks spanish only I have learned some but would need an interperter.

2007-09-07 14:52:25 · 8 answers · asked by 1glamchick 1

He always looks at my boobs (while im wearing a shirt and especially a bathingsuit) and in the pool he looks down @ my down there part 2. He has touched my boobs and vagina w/ pubic hair and i never wnt him 2 EVER do it again. it was not my choice. He dances naked in front of mirrors and stuff. im 12 and hes 15

2007-09-07 14:51:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is always telling me not to party drink and stuff and he did when he was my age.(14) He tells me not to have sex but he got a girl pregnant when he was 15 and now there married and have a 7 year old boy and a 2 year old girl. He is being such a hyprocite. Why was it all right for him to it and not me??

2007-09-07 14:22:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad is making me give my wii to my 7 year old cousin cause he wants one

2007-09-07 13:55:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a single mom of 2 kids ages 3 and soon to be 5. I love my kids dearly, but I am stressed! I am working it seems like 20 hrs a day. Between selling houses, online business, and the family responsibilites I am about to loose my mind. When I hit the door everyday my kids begin screaming at me that they are hungry and will ask me the same thing 10 times in 30secs.My son talks so loud people think he has a hearing problem, but he doesnt have any type of diability. My daughter is so mean sometime and I have no idea why. My kids are wonderful they are loving and very bright. For some reason they only really act like this with me.The screaming and crying ahs got to stop! I have never let them run me over but im getting tired. My mom has MS, my kid sister is pregnant, I am facing cervical cancer, and i broke up with my boyfriend of 21/2 yrs. were still friends, but I do miss him. I feel like running away. My sons dad has been mia for 3+yrs and my daughters dad lives 4states away. Im tired.

2007-09-07 13:01:07 · 40 answers · asked by lilmama24 3

I'm 15 and and I'll be 16 in a month. My father is in jail and I live with my mother. My grandparents are upper-middle class so they help out my mom and buy my siblings and I all our clothes. My grandmother and grandfather make independent incomes and manage their own finances. In the last year my grandmother has bough me braces(5,000), paid for a school trip to Italy (2,000), bought me new furniture for my 16th birthday (2,000.) I only got the furniture, and I'm not having a sweet sixteen party. My bed was broken and I got my old and than only ever furniture set when I was four. Just for the record I get pretty decent grades so it's not like I'm lazy. I am involved in a lot of clubs and I never go out and never get into trouble. I do want to get a job because I feel like I'm sponging off of my mom or grandparents whenever I ask them for money to get lunch after school. I feel guility whenever someone spends money on me. Whether it's my friends or family. Am I a moocher?

2007-09-07 12:57:08 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley 3

Ok I have a friend that I only see every once and awhile and only talk through email to. She just had a baby 2 months ago and I had gotten her a baby gift but never got the chance to go to her house to give it to her b/c she said she was really worn out and wasn't really up for visitors. Well, since I work with her hubby, I gave the stuff to him to take home to her today. It has probly been an hour since he went home and she still hasn't called me or emailed me a thank you letter. I am not being selfish... It would hurt my feelings if she didn't acknowledge it though. So how long should I wait for her to contact me? As in what would be a reasonable amount of time or days before you would get kinda mad?

2007-09-07 12:16:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Drives me nuts. >_<

2007-09-07 12:10:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

in the child's life. He has never visited him or talk to him. Should I still file for legal custody or should it be presumed that I have sole custody of my son. (He is listed on the birth certificate and pays child support...sometimes)

2007-09-07 11:25:02 · 10 answers · asked by bkjanet4 3

I am the black sheep of the family. But have always gone out of my way for them . Still I am never thought of or considered, not even on a weekly or monthly basis, I do not want to be hurt by this anymore. I am the one who took care of our father when he was sick and dying for years and I am now taking care of mom, her finances ect. I asked for help to purchase a head stone for our parents plot. No one cared . This has been this way since I was alittle girl?

2007-09-07 10:58:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 14 and in 9th grade. I'm on the honor roll and involved in a lot of different activities and clubs after school. This is my third year taking Spanish and I think it would help me a lot if I could actually live in the culture. My parents however think I'm too young and it's too expensive. I think it would be good for my future and my school work. My Spanish teacher thinks it's a great idea and my next door neighbor's friend Carrie thinks it's an excellent idea and that I'm just the right kind of person to do it. I'm going to try and get a job so that I can pay for most of it if not all of it. Only serious answers please, I would really love to do it, I just don't know how to convince my parents to let me.

2007-09-07 10:06:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

she keeps them on the mantle pice above the fire place, i think they are royal doultan should i tell my brother to go get some of his own?

2007-09-07 07:47:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do Americans not know how to dress to work. I am referring to the age group 17-25 mostly?

Why has bed-wear or lounge wear become fashionable in America?

2007-09-07 06:30:17 · 45 answers · asked by shakky_wakky 2

I am trying to take it day by day, but he is all I think about. I feel like I am going nuts. I don't want to push him away, but I am 8 months pregnant and I need him to be there for me during my difficult pregnancy. We both thought that we wanted some time apart. Once I moved out I figured that I don't want to have time apart. He is saying that he doesn't want to rush back into things and they go back to the way they were. What should I do? Tell him that I want to be back with him or try to get over him?

2007-09-07 06:21:17 · 13 answers · asked by Cortney H 1

I am 22 and I still live with my parents. I am a college senior and, in my country, it is almost impossible to earn enough money at this age to live on your own. I do work, but I don't pay for anything around the house, so I guess they support me. We get along pretty well, they don't question my relationships, with friends or boyfriends, nor where I go. Also, they encourage me to take the professional path of my choice.
But, despite this seemingly favorable scenario, there are things which make me think they will never let go. Whenever I mention wanting to move out, they try to make me feel bad about it and point out that I couldn't manage without them. I am smart and I was extremely appreciated by my superiors in the places I've worked. Still, the fact that I would like a life that wouldn't include living with them bugs them. At least that's my impression. My mom likes to interfere and call me A LOT. I love them and I want them to trust me completely.

Do you think I am right?

2007-09-07 05:44:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

any advice on how to act toward my sis because i still lov her cuz she's my sis help me out with my question? please

2007-09-07 05:37:07 · 44 answers · asked by missmelynda 1