Family - September 2007

2007-09-06 02:34:39 · 10 answers · asked by bigboobymememe 2

My daughter passed away after only 3 days and i am trying to think of some funeral songs. Any suggestions would be welcome.

2007-09-06 02:07:20 · 23 answers · asked by gundychick 2

ago, I am slowly coming to terms with it, in my own way, but I need some space from my family to do so, they are constanly on my case, have tried telling them in the nicest possible way, I want to be left alone, but they are not listening, anyone else have this problem, can you advise me please.

2007-09-06 01:50:11 · 12 answers · asked by Little miss naughty 5

if ur mom always says that all our problems r becoze of u?

2007-09-06 00:07:18 · 11 answers · asked by MADELINE 2 1

I'm the tech geek in my family. When we get some new harware, i spend all my time learning all its features. That puts me in a bit of a dillema...
My dad knows enough about tech to get by... but my mum knows nothing. So whenever she wants something done, she makes me do it... wherever i am, whatever i may be doing. She screams her head off to get me to start a DVD for her (or something of the sort which would be simple if you just read the user manual). This has been going on for 2-3 years now.
At the start i politely told her to read the manual, but she never did (for ANY appliance). then i said i would teach her, but either she doent want to learn, or she forgets (and she has a good memory).

I had to log her on to her email for 3 years before she learnt how to. So you get the gist of my tantrum. and she doent care if im talking to a friend or anything, i MUST do it. she never asks my dad either, and he knows how to as well.

(cont'd)

2007-09-05 23:28:24 · 8 answers · asked by Rastafarianhobo 4

Adult married children of a couple repeated ask of their mother to attend family get-togethers where her former husband and new wife are to attend. The Wife was abused ( emotional /spousal raped etc) by him. had protection order on him once.They blame her for NOT forgiving him, yet don't believe her, & say he has changed..? The Ex lied regarding the mother , children believe him. She is remarried, the new husband is very compassionate and respects her. He too doesn't want to be around the EX, who in court got a religious leader to breach confidentiality to harm her, with a lie ex told of her. There's proof of his actions, but no one wants to believe, tapes and his handwritten threats.. She is ill, they don't care. She has had to separate from them and her mother, to protect herself emotionally . She wants resolve, be close to grandchildren. they think they are right.. it 's not who's right or wrong, it's about doing what's right. telling the truth.. she said. shes so depressed..

2007-09-05 22:51:51 · 5 answers · asked by miladyfaire 4

but my problem is he is not understand my feelings, som times he used to talk harsly,hurts me. aft that i i'm upset,he come and tel me tat i just kid u dear.i think that he is not loving me and no affectionate to me.From his office he'll come at 7.30pm. i have just 2 hrs to spend time with him. in that mean while i used to talk (abt my family,frnz and his family). we used to go out aft 8.30 to 9. but he is not interested to hear me. offen saying that i'm talking more, and not interested to hear other peoples problem. just 2-3hrs v r being together aft that v used to sleep. in that 2-3 hrs he like to talk abt something abt sex. i'm so upset in his behavier, this makes me to feel sad, i dont no wat to make him to feel happy? plz tel me how to get his love&affection.

note:v r in abroad, not with my mother-in-law,father-in-law

2007-09-05 22:15:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. How would your members of your family react including yourself about this even knowing that your neighbor is right?

2. Would your family admit the wrong doing or would you protect and insist on the innocence of your kin? Why?

2007-09-05 21:56:37 · 6 answers · asked by cindy_two 1

man my parents are so strict. sometimes i feel i'd be able to do more things in life if they just stop bugging in everything i do. I'm already 17 and never in my life did I experience a sleep over in a friend's house because they always think i might be visiting a girl's house (i'm a guy BTW). When going to the mall with my friends it takes quite a deal of talks before they agree. It might be ugly to hear but my family isn't exactly the best family in the world.

I really hate how they see other people as "bad" people. They always see the worst in other people even for my friends (even me!). One time they even said "hey , you better be sure that best friend of yours doesnt smoke weed , he looks too thin". They didnt even consider my thoughts and he's my best friend , i couldnt accept that they would talk bad things to their own son's friend.

Do you guys have any suggestions? If I pass the exam I'll be studying at Singapore , i think it's one way of solving this.

2007-09-05 21:53:49 · 6 answers · asked by unreachablestar 1

My Dad had a really bad stroke in May, and he has other health problems, so it's no big secret to anyone (including him) that his time is almost up. (They gave him 3 weeks-it's been 4 months, but he's not getting better) I really love my Dad, and I don't want to upset him, but I do want to tell him how much I appreciate the things that he taught me, and let him know that I will be okay. My stepmom doesn't want us to get upset when we are around him, because she is afraid that he will become depressed. He is not mentally disabled other than not being able to get his thoughts to come out of his mouth. Although I don't want to depress him, I think that it would give him some comfort to know that we (my siblings and I) aren't in denial and that we will all be okay. He has been a doctor for the better part of 45 years, so he is very well aware of what is happening to his body. Has anybody else been in this situation? What did you do, what do you wish that you had done?

2007-09-05 20:58:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin's friend's mother died of AIDs earlier this year and it was in her wishes that my aunt should adopt and take care of her daughter. My aunt gladly accepted. Well, my cousin was an only child for the majority of her 16 years of life... Well, now she has a little sister that is around 12. Anywho, my cousin talked to her mother this week and they are thinking about giving up the adoption and putting the girl in foster care... All because my cousin is a selfish *****. The girl hasn't done anything. She doesn't steal and she's really sweet. But my cousin is cruel and is too busy having sex around the house and bad mouthing her mother to give a damn about anyone. My mom feels bad and is thinking about adopting the girl. We live in CA and they live in FL.

Why are people so selfish?

2007-09-05 19:11:09 · 6 answers · asked by creep show 1

when he gets home from work, he takes off his belt and shirt in front of his 2 daughters and wife, but not direclty in front of them to block the tv, but to the side.
Also at night, i have walked into his room and have seen him in his tidy-widy underwear all spread out. He enjoys walking around the house like this also. is this normal??

2007-09-05 19:07:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's unemployed, has 2 sons that he does not support & wants one of his sons to stay over the house every weekend. We have no warning that this is going to happen, it is a spur of the moment thing. My husband calls me at the last moment to warn me that his grandson is spending the weekend...again. I feel resentful, am I wrong?

2007-09-05 18:51:04 · 4 answers · asked by ♨ Wisper ► 5

We went to counseling and we made a arregment to throw all the pot crap away. And when we got home he freaked out and didn't do it. He lies about it and says he is "stressed out" thats why he does it. We have both been their done that with the WHOLE drug scene. Its old and we have a daughter now. What would YOU do?

2007-09-05 18:35:27 · 11 answers · asked by MiMi ♥ 4

Her biological mother died when she was 5 or 6 years old. I married her father 3 years ago, and since then she lives with us, at first she followed the rules I've set, but lately, she's being hard headed. Sometimes it causes quarrel between me and my husband. By the way, she's 11 now.

2007-09-05 18:17:07 · 11 answers · asked by mmvieph 1

I am 19...(well, I will be in 12 days) and I have already found the love of my life.
I am not a dorky girl that is in Puppy love with some jerk that she thinks is the best guy alive.
He is fantastic and so wonderful. We have our differences and we have fights not often at all, but we are practically perfect for eachother.

My mother thinks I am stupid. She called me a slut and said there was NO way I could no what love is at 19. She said I have to be 35 at least, until I know what love is.

Why do parents think its impossible for a teenager to really love someone.
My best freind found love when she was 16...And her parents said it was puppy love.
She has been with him for 3 years, he is a really kool guy and they are getting married.

Sometimes I feel like telling people:
Just because its taken you forever to even finda person that LIKES you, doesn't mean we all have that problem!!!
(But I cant say that to my mom, cause she would freak out, lmao)

2007-09-05 18:04:16 · 19 answers · asked by Megan 3

my mom never leaves me alone help me

2007-09-05 17:53:48 · 8 answers · asked by mikeylikesit 1

He is on the birth certificate, but NJ welfare did not go after him for child support, (he was abusive) and he only sees him a couple times a year -has never had a real relationship with him, the state gives me 162 a month for my son, not me. His father married and lives very near, but has never stepped up to the plate about child support/custody arraingments, wich I would be happy to work out with him now.
Any advise or suggestions would be appreciated.
I would think, I have both sole and legal custody. But I am not sure. I never went to court for it. I heard even if he did pay, I would only get 50.00 a month, the rest would all go to the state.

2007-09-05 17:52:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im the youngest of three. my parents dotes my siblings most.
whenever they wants, they gets. whenever i want, i get a scolding in the end . since i've no maid , my mom pushes me to do all the chores , my siblings and i always had a little quarrel as in pushing each other to do that work. about my sister , she's a spoilt brat , she often came home late , even those days weren't her schooling or working days, she had a baby when she's 16, yeah you know teenagers . even she had the baby , she and her boyfriend doesn't seems to take care of the baby . only my parents and her boyfriend parents only willing to take care. sigh. about my brother , he just sleep all around , wakes up and on his laptop and at night he would go out. im always being lingered in this kind of situation.
i had always have thoughts of running away or even suicide.
am i just useless to them. all i can turn to is my friends, well some of them. they would asked me to talk to them, but im scared. -sigh.

2007-09-05 17:37:06 · 6 answers · asked by Elriowiel 2

Hi my dear friends,

This time I am here on behalf of my life-friend. My friend is 23 years old and she is very calm girl. Yesterday night (05.09.2007), she over-heard the coverstion between her grandmother and aunty. During the conversation, the grandmother commented the my friend is not the original daughter of her parents. She had been taken from some orphanage. This made her heart-broken. As she entered the room they stopped the conversation, making her to believe that what grandmother had said is true. She is very very upset and she says she wants to meet her original parents. She lives far away from me (nearly six hours of travel). Through phone I convinced her at the most but she is not ready to hear all those things. But she is saying she will not ask this thing to her current parents. I even said it may not be true but she is going out of my hands. Now I fear, whether she will do something negative... Please advice me how can I bring her to normal.

NO JOKES PLEASE...

2007-09-05 17:35:51 · 3 answers · asked by Shinoj Kumar 3

i dunno why, but my mom is so damn over protective lately. i know she cares about me, but its starting to piss me off. she thinks everywhere i go, ill be doing drugs, and having sex. i havent done anything bad at all. now i wanna go to a dance at another school, were gonna sneak in. i didnt tell my mom were sneaking in so she calls the school and asks if another school is allowed there. now i cant go. she sits there when im doing homework now and it gives me too much pressure. how can i make her back off and get some freedom. dont give me any of the "she loves you" crap. i know that already

2007-09-05 17:31:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-05 17:29:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im very confused about my mother.
Im am thirteen years old. I live with my Grandparents because she was very irresponsible when i was with her. My mom had me at a very young age and was very rebellious(she had ran away from home at...i believe 16 or 17). I've never met my father, and shes never told me anything about him. I would like to meet him, but i never feel sad that i didnt know him. =\
She has had countless boyfriends, some abusive, some sleazy, and one was even a convict. And out of all of them only one was the best. He really cared about her and wanted her to quit her job.(which i forgot to mention is stripping) But she is very aggressive at times, and thats why she let go such a good guy. She wants her boyfriends to not have a mind of there own, and if they do she gets very pissed off. And they usually leave her.
Recently she had gotten out of her 4th DWI, she went to jail, wore a leg bracelet (house arrest-type thing) for a couple of months.
(Hold on there more)

2007-09-05 16:31:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are a family of 3 and I think my biggest vice is spending money on groceries. I'm the type of person who will spend too much money at the grocery store and then go home with "nothing to eat". I've started clipping coupons, but that doesn't really seem to make much of a difference? People tell me about triple-coupon days, but how do I know when that is? I do try to buy generic brand vs. name brand, but I'm also a huge label reader and very conscious of ingredients that are in our foods and I won't buy things with certain ingredients for health sake. What are some tips that have worked for you and your family?

2007-09-05 16:15:18 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thanks for any well wishes.

2007-09-05 16:14:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have a very healthy sex life. We have and enjoy watching porn from time to time. I noticed after some time that our DVD's were missing, and eventually found them in my 10 yr old sons room. They are usually locked in a safe, but I must have forgotten to lock it the last I accessed it. After the 1st incident, my husband threw all the DVD's away, and I yelled at my son for snooping and basically told him porn was "bad" which I know now was the wrong explanation. Yesterday, when I was cleaning his room, I found another DVD hidden under his mattress-it was another one of ours but missed it. I didn't say anything the second time. I don't want to badger my son, I know its my fault for not protecting him from it in the first place. I want him to have a healthy sex life and not look at sex as "dirty". I remember being exposed to sex on several occasions at a very young age and still remember the images. How do I talk to my son about this and explain it correctly?

2007-09-05 15:52:40 · 15 answers · asked by Angelina M 1

Hey, my dad has been mean and unfair to me and my mom for many years. I am very sick and tired of this! How can I get back at him? I know, this might be wrong and mean, but I am just so sick of him and what he does. What should I do to get back at him? Corrupt files on his computer? Break his belongings? Help!

Thanks, everyone!
Blake

2007-09-05 15:17:32 · 7 answers · asked by Blake 4

Is this done before or after death?

2007-09-05 14:10:02 · 2 answers · asked by baby sister 1

2007-09-05 13:12:16 · 15 answers · asked by (10% Him) (5% Me) (85% Love) 3

2007-09-05 12:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by maureen m 1