Hey, my dad has been mean and unfair to me and my mom for many years. I am very sick and tired of this! How can I get back at him? I know, this might be wrong and mean, but I am just so sick of him and what he does. What should I do to get back at him? Corrupt files on his computer? Break his belongings? Help!
Thanks, everyone!
Blake
2007-09-05 15:17:32 · 7 answers · asked by Blake 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Thanks everyone. I forgot to mention, though, my parents are divorced. Sorry. :-P I see my dad every other weekend, and then for dinner every Thursday. Writing a letter sounds good, but I don't want to see him after I write it, at least not for a while, because he might get into discussion with me. Also, I do not think I can "live with it" or "get over it" or "forgive him." My dad has done lots of bad stuff, and he has really hurt me emotionally. He is not the father I deserve. I also see him with my twin brother and sister, and they don't know the bad stuff he does, so I don't think I could TP his house (he shares an apartment, anyway). Maybe I'll start out small, like hiding his keys, etc.
More suggestions welcome. I have to log off and go to bed soon, though.
2007-09-05 15:53:04 · update #1
the old saying 2 wrongs don't make a right. Live your life as you wish and remember the traits he has so you do not repeat them when you are a husband and father. The best thing you can try to do is overcome this adversity and succeed. Remember success if the best revenge!
2007-09-05 15:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Beatrice C 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Vengeance feels sweet but it won't get you anywhere cause then you will just have the feeling afterwards that you were going to your dad's level. I especially wouldn't mess with things in the family like this. You and your dad just need to have a good talk or arguement...whatever helps you to get what you want off your shoulders to him. If you don't want to confront him then you should do what my brother's friend did with his "mean mother". Write him a letter and let him know about everything he does and how you want him to change and most of all let him know that you are his son and your mom is still his wife. After all this he should begin to see that he is hurting his closest family. It may take time to heal but don't ever go to a lower level you'll regret it. Hope that helps and good luck
2007-09-05 22:26:51 · answer #2 · answered by The K 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if he is really as cruel as you say he is , than i would make him feel guilty , think of all the things he did wrong and all the things you wish he would have done. then tell him things like since you were such a good dad you never would do that or just let him know you love him no matter how awful he has been it will be hard for you to do but it works every time make him feel guilty you know how
2007-09-05 22:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by margaret l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgivness is always the higher road and a choice that you won't regret latter in your life
2007-09-05 22:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by keezy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay you needa make this really harsh so i would suggest to put something hes allergic to in his food [[ not something that will kill him just make him sick]]] after that you steal all his money in his wallet and you tell him that you cant help him in his sickness cuz youre gf's mom died so you do that and meanwhile he thinks youre out teepee his house and then prank phone call him tons of times one time pretending that he just won a million dollars
2007-09-05 22:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kill him with kindness. Always treat others the way you want to be treated.Maybe it will rub off on him.
2007-09-05 22:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is build a bridge and get over it. just ignore his dumb ***
2007-09-05 22:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋