Hi my dear friends,
This time I am here on behalf of my life-friend. My friend is 23 years old and she is very calm girl. Yesterday night (05.09.2007), she over-heard the coverstion between her grandmother and aunty. During the conversation, the grandmother commented the my friend is not the original daughter of her parents. She had been taken from some orphanage. This made her heart-broken. As she entered the room they stopped the conversation, making her to believe that what grandmother had said is true. She is very very upset and she says she wants to meet her original parents. She lives far away from me (nearly six hours of travel). Through phone I convinced her at the most but she is not ready to hear all those things. But she is saying she will not ask this thing to her current parents. I even said it may not be true but she is going out of my hands. Now I fear, whether she will do something negative... Please advice me how can I bring her to normal.
NO JOKES PLEASE...
2007-09-05 17:35:51 · 3 answers · asked by Shinoj Kumar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I found out that my dad may not have been my real dad. I've been curious. I never told my mom that i knew this. I'm curious but some things happen for a reason. I don't know whether its better to wonder or to get dissapointed! But then again they could actually be looking for her. I'm really not sure what to tell her! she would definalty need to talk to whoever raised her before she starts trying to figure things out! Thats where she would get the most answers she is looking for. Tell her I said good luck with everything!
2007-09-05 18:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Heather J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once misundestood my parents the same way but i confronted them. Nyway even if its true it doesn't matter. But I know one thing 4 sure. Knowing tht u r adopted n still not confronting one's parents abt it is the most difficult thing on Earth. Force her to confront her parents or inform her parents. Otherwise she will be terribly affected inside
2007-09-06 09:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Atieno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very turning point for your friend as well as you , let you wait and hope for the good
2007-09-06 10:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋