how will u feel...?

Question

if ur mom always says that all our problems r becoze of u?

Answer 1

i would feel really bad. Thats really sad. Not everything is your fault ask a sencound oppinion and try talking to to your mom to find out where shes coming from and explaing your own feelings. E-mail me plz! Talk to ya soon I hope.

Answer 2

anyone in this position would feel bad honestly but u have to do a little thinking as to if this bad feeling is worth it.
Is ur attitude or actions affecting anything in ur family? what can simply make ur parents make that comment? u have the answer within you, so sit down and do some serious thinking about Why? i hope the solution will appear to you one way or the other. After that u have to change or fix that problem and ur family life would be back to normal.

Answer 3

sit somewhere quiet and think rationally if this is true. Perhaps ask someone elses opinon? A real true friend, a sister a cousin. Either your mom is a terrible mom and saying things she doesnt mean as she is having a hard time or something is up with her depression or achohol abbuse i dont know.. either that oir youve been a troublesome teen and caused problems. If you think it is perhaps down to you. Work out how you can make it up to everyone and try to bring the family back together

Answer 4

I'd take a good look at my behavior and see where the truth lies. Usually mom's resort to that because their level of frustration with you is on their last nerve. First look to see what you are doing, are you doing what you are told the first time or do you have to be nagged or do you just complain until its easier for her to do it herself? Do you help out at home without having to be asked? Do you dress appropriately for your age and keep yourself moral? Do you keep away from smoking, drugs, drinking and unprotected sexual activity? Do you go to school, do your best and do your homework, without having to be told? Are you appreciative of the people around you, and respectful of their authority or simply their right to live in their home? Are you honest and trustworthy? Can you have a conversation without it being all about you? Do you take responsibility for your room, your clothes, your pet? What do you do to make your parents lives easier? Do you help with the physical work around the house? Assist with your brothers and sisters(if you have them)? Walk the dog, clean out the hamster cage or the cat box? Do you do your own laundry and maybe your sisters? Do you help with meals or shopping? Do you cut the grass or wash the car or take out the trash.

Behind every whining teenager there is a mother who is at the end of her rope. Get off your behind and act like the person that your mother loves instead of being the cause of the families frustrations.

Answer 5

I would feel pretty bad. I would probably have really low self esteem. And then somewhere in growing up, I would realize that she was wrong. I would become angry and probably lash out. But then with maturity, I realize that lashing out at other people would be what my mother has done to me. And I don't want to be like that. I realize that she is wrong and I am better than that. I don't need to prove that to anyone but myself. It may take me a long time, but I will be able to see that my mom can only see what her heart wants her to see. She feels so badly about herself that it feels better for her to say that about me. And it's really not about me. It's about her. She is sad. I can overcome this, because I am not a failure.

That's how I would feel.

Answer 6

omg......That is the worst thing of all for your mother to say. I am telling you that whatever is going on on your mothers life is not because of you. She just has not came to terms about her own issues. People like to blame others for their problems in stead of admitting to them. Honey, trust in the lord and he will protect you from your problems and hopefully soon things will start looking your way. Hopefully your mother will tell you that she is sorry. Good Luck and keep your faith and chin up.

Answer 7

I would feel awful! It's not fair for you mum to blame things on you.

The truth is parents do this because they are hurting inside... so they take it out on their kids.

I really wish I knew a solution to this problem. Just do your best and remember that it's not you that is the problem... it's her!

Answer 8

I'd tell her yeah and I can add to those problems. Does she care to find out how?

Answer 9

Not so good, its because moms got stress and maybe a little upset and gots no idea that she's saying that....

Answer 10

responsible