If family really cares, but this ?

Question

im the youngest of three. my parents dotes my siblings most.
whenever they wants, they gets. whenever i want, i get a scolding in the end . since i've no maid , my mom pushes me to do all the chores , my siblings and i always had a little quarrel as in pushing each other to do that work. about my sister , she's a spoilt brat , she often came home late , even those days weren't her schooling or working days, she had a baby when she's 16, yeah you know teenagers . even she had the baby , she and her boyfriend doesn't seems to take care of the baby . only my parents and her boyfriend parents only willing to take care. sigh. about my brother , he just sleep all around , wakes up and on his laptop and at night he would go out. im always being lingered in this kind of situation.
i had always have thoughts of running away or even suicide.
am i just useless to them. all i can turn to is my friends, well some of them. they would asked me to talk to them, but im scared. -sigh.

Answer 1

Tell yourself that you are the luckiest in the family to know what is living and to learn the chores perfectly before you are big.

Answer 2

Sound as though you have a whole lot of trama drama going on Please stay focused on doing what is right going to school and staying out of trouble You can see by your older sisters actions where that gets you Talk to a trusted family or friend who has a better enviroment for you to live in Maybe a trusted grand parent Some one who will be a responsible parent Make you do home work have curfews and do chores Some one who will set boundries and goals Someone wjho will not let you stay out all night and have sex with your boyfriend not go to school and not give you everything you want when you want it There are many people who care and love you Suicide is not the answer It only will lead to more pain You do how ever need a trusting safe enviroment to live in Some where you can learn and grow in a safe loveing enviroment you deserve this every child does Hang in there there is someone that can help Have you sat your parents down just you and them and dicussed your feelings Give them a chance first

Answer 3

It's okay..
I know how you feel, I have an older sister and brother. So that makes me the youngest, my sister gets what she wants.. goes every where she wants and can do whatever she wants. So I do all of the things my mom wants me to do, I clean and do the dishes and etc. My brother is the same, sleeps all day, eats and goes out all the time.

I don't mind though.. I talked to my friends about it, but since I'm always the shoulder to cry on. They don't know how to comfort me or even know what to say. I talked to my mom, and yeah.. we talked. And so I now have a reason why I do everything for them. You really SHOULD talk to your parents, it Can help.. But I dont know, everyone is different right? So I dont really know.

It does kind of sound like your sister is a spoiled brat also.. My sister is turning 17 next month and she has a temper and b*tches alot. But we have to bare with it.


It's a part of Life, my mother taught me.. I gotta learn how to deal with everything.. with people and everything else, she taught me how to be strong.

And don't be scared. (( Though I'm scared of a lot of things =/ )) Just.. take up all of the courage to confront them and talk to them. No need to run away or have sucidal thoughts, because you have a whole Life infront of you. You have the world on your fingertips. Just keep holding on just a little longer..

Good Luck =)

Answer 4

Okay... you need to turn your head around.

Your parents dote on the neediest one... the one that needs the most shepherding. That's your sister with the baby. They realize that they failed her on some level of her development, so now they all have to deal with raising the grand-child AND her!

All you have to do is the chores you are assigned and your school work, then you have the rest of your time free. Get it? FREE! You handle your few little obligations and the rest of your time is your own! So if you don't want to deal with the drama at home, you study at a friend's house, or you get into some extra-curricular activities or clubs or sports, or get a part-time job after school to hog up your extra time so you don't get saddled with anything else at home.

I know kids that made their own gigs for extra cash... everything from doggie-poo pick-up so the homeowners can use their back yards to entertain in, dog walking, baby-sitting (elsewhere), and all those other little oddball things that people want but don't have time to do.

You need to tell the other sister that she needs to do her own share. I'm betting that all your parents are really asking is for each of you to pick up after yourselves, and then one or two "common area maintenance" type chores. This is no big deal. You kick it out and get out of there for the rest of the day. Make the most of these last few years before you hit 18.

Answer 5

First of all, it doesn't sound like you're being abused, maybe just being made to do more chores than your brother and sister and not being allowed to go out whenever you want to. Is that correct?

If it is, it sounds to me like your parents are trying to keep you from becoming like your siblings. They might not be going about it the right way, but they might be trying to make you more responsible than your brother and sister so that you'll be able to take care of yourself when you grow up.

Running away is seldom the answer. Suicide is never the answer. Talk to a counselor at school. Your friends aren't very likely to be able to see the whole picture. They'll want to support you, but are not equipped to really help you.

Answer 6

first off be glad that you even have a family, as bad as you think yours is , you have one. being the youngest is so hard, I KNOW i am too. they expect certain things of you and yet give you little faith and don't think you can do things. what you need to do is talk to them NOW. don't wait till you are older. they won't know why you resent things , they will think it is you. so just be calm and talk to them and let them know how you REALLY feel. thinking about suicide is scary and a good thing, tell them that. maybe then they will listen. About your sis, DON"T let her take you down. things may get better once you talk to your parents. best of luck to you. but if you don't talk to them it may only get worse!