Family - September 2007

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I hate it. I mean,i am always the last to know things or am forgotten altogether. I am sick of it.i could be watching tv and my dad come down to tell me we are leaving to go out and im like what? so i get 3 minutes to change from pjs and frizzy hair to something cute and presentable and everybody is yelling at me to hurry up like its my falt that nobody told me. also i have no talent like no afterschool thing to da. i love to read a lot but all that brings me is people teasing me (though i dont really mind it much when its my class mates) and im noy very outgoing. im not completly shy but i dont really have many friends and its hard to hold a conversations like all the time. i just run out of things to say.i also watch a lot of tv and get practicly yelled at for doing it but i love to watch movies. i learn stuff from it. im pretty smart like high Bs and As straight As i just wish i had someone to talk to about movies and books and things like t

2007-09-05 12:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

OMG MY BROTHER AND SISTER ARE BOTH MISSING!! My dad picked me up from school and when we came back home, the door was open and no one was home. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!? HEEEEEELLLLLLPPPPP!!!!!!

2007-09-05 11:59:46 · 7 answers · asked by huma the puma 2

Ok well my friend who is 10 years older than me that I only talk to through email is probably not going to come thru with what she told me, AGAIN!! I got her 2 new baby outfits and have asked when I can come to her house and give it to her in email for the past 3 weeks and she always reschedules on me. She told me last week that she wanted to reschedule for this week and that she would email me on when she wanted me to come over and she still hasn't. I cant take the stuff back either b/c I marked the prices out with sharpie. She told me her AC broke last week and I asked her husband if they had got it fixed yesterday and he acted like he didnt know what I was talking about. I feel she is lying to me for some reason, I dont know. But what do you think? What should I do? And I cant really call her either. Since I work at the same place as her husband does, you think I should just give it to him and let him take it home or what?

2007-09-05 11:54:32 · 3 answers · asked by pink_flamingo1211 1

Ok, my mom constantly screams, SCREAMS, nobody can have a normal conversation with her, nobody. When she "talks" she basically screams over other people and says "No" first before she starts a sentence or when she cuts someone off. And often it would be like NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO then continues her sentences in screaming tone.
She still continues to pull my hair or push me when she thinks she is right. Mind u i am 26, my question is , is my mom considered Nuerotic? everyone who talks to her often can't deal with her or says "Shhhhhhhhhhhhhh"!! when she is "talking"

2007-09-05 11:24:21 · 3 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1

my childrens father has always smoked pot outside of the house(which was fine with me) but we live in separate households now and he's not very considerate about it now. i've noticed when i drop the kids of there are joints and etc. laying about and he has taken to letting the kids run around and play while he goes next door and smokes because they are occupied i guess. i've told him to do it on his own time rather than when the kids come to visit and he just tells me he's not doing anything wrong. i don't want our kids in that envioronment and he doesn't get it. i feel like i shouldn't even take the kids over there anymore. i know i'm not crazy but he makes me feel like a bad parent with his actions.

2007-09-05 11:24:20 · 7 answers · asked by cool_spicy_springroll 3

Well, I don't know my dad because he left my mom and me. And I have the chance to meet him. I don't know what to do. I mean, he's a stranger to me. And thinking about meeting him...sounds REAAAAALLY awkward. I wouldn't even know what to say to him!! (im 13 years old)

Please help me.

2007-09-05 11:14:12 · 20 answers · asked by Moe 3

I am a nervous wreck and can not work or do anything. My 15 year old daughter is now living with me and my parents. She was living with her father from age 10 until now.

She started at her new school today and was not too impressed with it. It does not compare to her earlier high school.

I keep feeling like I am at fault and should have gone back to her father and reunited the family. He was willing to accept us both back and we would have restarted over in a new town.

I could not negotiate terms with him though as to how we would reunite. We are legally divorced. Yet, he still thinks he is married to me.

I can not move out into my own place because that was the agreement on which he sent her to me. He is also watching so see that she gets straight A's and if she does not, I will be in trouble.

I am a complete and total mess?

What should I do? Should I reverse my decision?

2007-09-05 09:52:06 · 3 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

My boyfriend and I are have almost 4 month old daughter together. I don't work but I stay home with her all day. He works 3rd shift and I totally understand his need for sleep but I need more help and he ignores my wishes. Even on weekends when he is home I'm the one that does almost everything for her! I don't mind doing it but sometimes I get frustrated and need more help than he gives ..

I have tried to explain this to him but it just starts a fight ..

2007-09-05 09:47:28 · 13 answers · asked by Cole Marie' 3

I live with my 3 sisters and mom.We have completely different interests and ideas.They are always opposing me. My mom and sister r always critisizing me.It's brining me down.I don't know how to draw anymore because I lack confidence in myself.I lost a job that I loved because of this. I feel like I hate them..I dont want to be in the same room with them.
I also don't have much friends. Although I believe I am a generally nice person.We've moved around alot so I havent been able to create bonds with anyone.I am a generally secretive person. It's difficult for me to open up to anyone. I finally managed to open up to a guy..we were together for two and a half years.. he proposed and we got engaged in the last year.Then he broke up telling me he wasnt ready for commitment.

Ive lost the only person I ever confided in. I don't know how to deal with my family.. I lost my job..and I dont have friends. I lost me.
How do I get out of this phase? I cry all the time. I'm desperate for help.

2007-09-05 09:37:44 · 8 answers · asked by Saritta 2

We have a hugh family. I have 5 sisters myself. My son is having his 1st Birthday party at a park in a shelter house. We are serving a full lunch, cake ice cream....I've hired a photographer, and we have tons of decorations. The invite list consist of about 50 invitations with about 130 individual guest. My question is Should I invite people that I know won't beable to make it? For instance I have 1 step sister that lives in Florida (we are in Indiana) Should I invite her and her family? I invited all of my other 4 step sisters. I don't want to offend her by her being the only one that doesn't get an invite, but I also don't want it to be a request for a gift, because it isn't! What should I do?

2007-09-05 09:26:18 · 3 answers · asked by Momof1 1

After any marriage in any country why girls are always depend on the boys only inspite of their best qualities, education, employment, status, personality, capacity,administration,Intelligence,Etc., WHY ?

2007-09-05 09:02:33 · 12 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

2007-09-05 08:38:58 · 14 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

Hello everyone. I need you're help once again.

Ever since my mother and father divorced, my father has been bringing to his house some really fat lady. I see her when I'm going to my father's house and many times she and him stay the entire night in his room--with the door locked. He says "Oh she's just a friend" and "She helps me take care of my daughter (his lovechild)". Me and the lady don't talk--at all. Even when I came back from Japan from my six week homestay program, she didn't say anything to me except hello.
Bored, I went into my dad's (or their depending on how you want to call it) room and saw two condoms in their room. Not knowing what to do, I took one of them, tore out a page of one of her sleezy trashy sex novels, rapped the condom in it and left it in the book (I didn't know what else to do).
So, what do you think I should do:
Am I just being an overreactive teen?
Should I confront him about what I saw?
Should I just leave it alone?

Thanks a lot

2007-09-05 08:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by Cheesecake 3

My dad keep calling me when I go outside, like where are you now? when are you coming home? (althought i tell him all of this before i leave) .

I remember one day I said dad I'll be at home at 10:00pm . At 10:02 he called where are you now?- Dad I'm so near by the house its only 2 m.!!!

I asked him one why are you treating me like a child? He said you don't know what's going outside !

Will a call save me if anything happned you people? I asked him again when are you going to stop this, he said when you get married!! Gosh I am 19 will I wait to get married then another man do the same??

Please tell me how to let him lessen these calls?

Thanks alot for your answers.

2007-09-05 07:34:06 · 5 answers · asked by The critic flower. 3

Ok your brother married an abusive sociopath who abused your brother and her kids(gave them medicine just so they'd go to sleep for example and neglect them). Well they're divorced, the kids are taken away from her.

The ex wife of your bro emails you and adds you to her myspace. You a forgiving person you are is tempted to email her because you're curious as to how she's doing. But you also wonder if you contact her, will it endanger one of your neice's lives.(the other two kids aren't your brother's and they've been put in a foster home. Your neice (your bro's daughter) lives with your mom).

Email her or not? Or just block her?

2007-09-05 07:01:08 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

OMG, I am so upset. As it is my son doesn't get to see my mother-in-law due to her alcohol&drug problem. My sis-in-law and her family got along w/ us ok and kept their alcoholic problem away, and would only come over when sober. The other night we were awoken by one of their kids begging us to call the cops. The cops came and the parents were beating the kids, each other, yelling, screaming, on and on. When the cops got there everyone lied and police did nothing despite me seeing it all and reporting it. I called every agency that I could for help for the kids but NO LUCK AND NOTHING HAPPENED. My husbands family all has addiction issues except him, we have cut everyone off. I am sad about it for my son and husband but I know I can't force them to quit. Words of advice or support? I'm bummed about it and love those kids but can't get them out of that home, no court or police believe whats really happening. Tried everything, I'm a social worker so I know the legal side too. Nothing workd

2007-09-05 07:00:04 · 3 answers · asked by Sweetness 6

im trying to find my dads grave, i havent visited my dads grave in a few years, i know that sounds awful but the fact is i havent, my family isnt sure where abouts is it, i know what cematary it is and the plot but im not sure where about is it, im searching it on the internet but i cant find my dad anywhere, any help would be greatful

2007-09-05 06:54:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my kids and grandbabies a year ago moved away got married and cant seem to be happy working here i sold my buisness to my daughter all i ever known was that job,i loved it and miss it well she has offered a job to me but it would entail living there during the week and coming here(home) on the weekends because it is to far to drive back and forth. I am afraid to tell my husband but i am not happy here i have had 3 jobs and turned down numerous because I was afraid to have to learn something new?Or i just flat out dont want to be here. I am 52 yrs old.I know nobody here but my husband ,people are so to themselves.The thing i am afraid of is losing him or our marriage going to pot because i am not here and that is my old stomping grounds.,with my x there.Help i need some advice.

2007-09-05 06:51:59 · 2 answers · asked by maxine101 1

A lot of people said that they would feel as if they failed as a parent if they lost their kids' respect for them as a parent figure.

Why the feeling of failure?

2007-09-05 06:36:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband, 2 1/2 y.o. daughter and I live in a different state than all of my family. We moved 4 years ago, and for a while, I liked being here. Recently, I can't shake this feeling of urgency to move back home. I am constantly sad, and I know it's not good for my daughter to see. My family visits often, and I know I am lucky to be so close with everyone, but I need more balance in my life. I live with my husband 3 weeks per month, and for a week I go back home. It feels like a constant roller coaster ride. I have no friends or anything here where I live, so I go from being completely alone (my husband works and goes to school so we hardly see eachother, and I am a stay at home mom) to being completely surrounded and overwhelmed by family when I am with them. My daughter cries for her grandparents everyday, and honestly, so do I. What can I do to get through this time? I have tried to get my husband to move us home for over a year, he says next year, but I'm not sure. I feel trapped.

2007-09-05 06:35:01 · 10 answers · asked by izzymo 5

Her father has physical custody and refuses to let her live w/me. Can she move in with me when she turns 17 without any one getting into trouble with the law?

2007-09-05 06:17:49 · 4 answers · asked by raye 1

Should I let my babies father be in the room when I i am giving birth we fight all the time we are not togther we are just friends. my mom said that if he is there in the room she was going to leve. she dose not like him becuse some times he says not so nice things to me.I want both of them to be there what should I do?

2007-09-05 06:17:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my partner split about 6 months ago, i have 4 children and the youngest is from this relationship. the problem is when ever we get over the screaming stage we end up in the bed again. we broke up due to him having a cocain addiction and telling me far too many lies. but i think i may still love him .ive dated other guys since we split but none seem to make me wanna see them again ive really treid to get on with my life but im getting more and more depressed about the situation im in please help me

2007-09-05 06:08:34 · 3 answers · asked by heysybaby 1

my son is 17 years old he has had type 1 diabeties since he was 13 he always wanted to go in to some sort of armed services can he still serve

2007-09-05 05:56:45 · 4 answers · asked by silkey 1

2 years ago i met the man of my dreams, my father hates him and forbides me see him, we are engaged but father doesn't seem to understand that i'm an adult, my finace' is a decent man, no drugs, no kids, no abuse in our relationship, what I think is due to the controlling issue with my father he wants to keep me under lock and key forever, mind you I have a 13 year old daughter from a previous relationship? any advice?

2007-09-05 05:51:18 · 6 answers · asked by Ge Ge 2

2007-09-05 05:29:29 · 14 answers · asked by Abdulla S 1

Recently my grandmother was diagnosed with stomach cancer. This is in addition to a host of other ailments, Emphesema and Diabetes to name a couple. We recently moved her up here from NC and into a nursing home close to our home. Since she's been there, she's refusing some treatments, being verbally abusive to nursing staff, and has begun smoking again despite the home putting her on the patch. Our family is fed up with her behavior and lack of cooperation, but when we confront her about it she blames her memory, or says that smoking helps her "creativity". We've tried talking to her about the severity of her situation, and the need to cooperate with doctors and nurses. She just says that she does, and isn't doing anything wrong. How are we supposed to handle this? At this point, we just want to let her be to do what she wants, even if it kills her, but that seems cruel. We just don't know what to do. Any thoughts?

2007-09-05 05:23:46 · 13 answers · asked by Vbonics 6

My brother has been depressed for a few months now and I'm running out of ideas on how to snap him out of it. I try taking him out and he goes and hangs out with some of his friends, but nothing seems to get him out of his funk.
It all started at the end of summer when his college advisor told him he probably won't be graduating in May like he planned. Then his boss cut the entire staff's hours significantly and he had to give up a car he was set to buy. Then his band folded on him and broke up. He didn't make an audition for a play, and even girls have been less than friendly to him lately so his self esteem is in the gutter. Now he just got called ofr jury duty and they kept him so he's gonna miss classes for at least a week for a rape trial! It goes from bad to worse with him every day!
I need some advice. The other day he got mad and said he can't wait to die. My other brother and I are really worried. What can I do for him? Can I do anything?

2007-09-05 05:18:48 · 6 answers · asked by TooMuch 4

Ok, I got 4 free football tickets from my boss today. Me and my fiance are going. My parents are normal, sane people. His mom is a psychotic nut job, but his dad is really cool. I would have more fun with my parents, but if I don't take my fiances parents, she will nag me to my grave. Seriously, she will take this personally.

What do you think I should do???


I have to bring our parents cause my fiance let the cat out of the bag, so to speak

2007-09-05 05:03:07 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4

twice this has happend, first time new yrs eve, hubby calls in the afternoon and his brother informs him they forgot they had made different plans, but two wks before they accepted and just recently we had labour day bbq party they said they were coming and didnt show and didnt call to cancel or anything, im at wits end, my hubby thinks im always down on his brother, but this to me is extremely rude, but when his brother gives him some lame excuse why, hubby usually responds with oh no problem no big deal, i disagree, other times just asking them over for dinner he says he'll get back to us and then we have to chase him down for an answer, should i say anything to him or is it up to my hubby, be cuz im at the point where i cant be bothered trying what should i do

2007-09-05 04:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by marcelo F 1