My dad keep calling me when I go outside, like where are you now? when are you coming home? (althought i tell him all of this before i leave) .
I remember one day I said dad I'll be at home at 10:00pm . At 10:02 he called where are you now?- Dad I'm so near by the house its only 2 m.!!!
I asked him one why are you treating me like a child? He said you don't know what's going outside !
Will a call save me if anything happned you people? I asked him again when are you going to stop this, he said when you get married!! Gosh I am 19 will I wait to get married then another man do the same??
Please tell me how to let him lessen these calls?
Thanks alot for your answers.
2007-09-05 07:34:06 · 5 answers · asked by The critic flower. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your dad is a caring person.he loves you and protects you from evil of society.he is worried about your security because people are very bed and hopeless.so do not worry.he has good thoughts for you and your future.open up yourself more to him and win his trust.he seems over protective also.but his nature will slowly change.just respect him.
2007-09-05 07:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by dvjani2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although at 19 ur an adult u r still living under his roof. he will always b ur father, u can't ever change that. he is right, u r oblivious 2 whats going on outside 2 many gals your age, u just don't see it, but way too many times have i heard the comment, "this is a good neighborhood, how can something like this happen here?" bad things happen everywhere.
u will never get him 2 lessen his calls, and by the way, they'll come a day when u will scream at the sky begging 4 one more call from him when he's gone.
my curiosity here is ur comment, "...will i wait to get married then another man do the same"...where is that coming from? if u r thinking of dating or marrying a man who's controlling, u shouldn't marry him, period. take ur time and get 2 know the man u wanna marry, watch his actions b'cause they will always speak louder than his words...give your dad a break, to him u will always b his "child"...relish in the fact that many gals don't have fathers 2 worry about them. breathe.
good luck and GOD bless.
2007-09-05 14:46:46 · answer #2 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just tell him Dad, you are calling me too much. I love you but I am not a child. Please, know that you taught me well, and if you did do something not to your liking let it be known, I am just being me. When, you do get married, and if your Husband, wants to treat you that way. I say nip that in the bud right away even before marriage. If, your Dad, insist on keep calling, do to him what my Married Daughter, with kids of her own, does to me when I call too much don't answer the phone. Sooner, or later he will get the message. Have a nice afternoon.
2007-09-05 14:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by That one 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just nervous about what could happen to you. Even if it irritates you, then keep in mind that he is doing it be course he cares for you. I am a 40 year old man and even my mother is worried about what could happen to me.
2007-09-05 17:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by john c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes to talk to you,because he likes you! CHILL OUT!
2007-09-05 14:49:49 · answer #5 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋