me and my partner split about 6 months ago, i have 4 children and the youngest is from this relationship. the problem is when ever we get over the screaming stage we end up in the bed again. we broke up due to him having a cocain addiction and telling me far too many lies. but i think i may still love him .ive dated other guys since we split but none seem to make me wanna see them again ive really treid to get on with my life but im getting more and more depressed about the situation im in please help me
2007-09-05 06:08:34 · 3 answers · asked by heysybaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ok, you litteraly just said you love this guy more than your children......Put them first, and kick him and his addiction to the curb. Be strong for them (kids) and you....quit messing with the loser!
2007-09-05 06:13:28 · answer #1 · answered by ameribicgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always horrible when you love some one but they aren't right for you! Seriously as much as you don't want to, cut the ties with this guy, yeah he's the father of your kid but at the moment he shouldn't even be around the child with a cocaine addiction!
Your obviously not going to be interested in any other guys until you stop jumping into bed with the drug addict! (sorry i don't know his name!) Your constantly going to be comparing any guys with him!
The truth is, your always going to be second best to the drugs until he kicks the habbit! And as a mum you can't afford to let your kids be around that type of environment! As hard as it seems, let him go, tell him he needs to sort himself out, for your sake and your kids!
2007-09-05 13:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by hypermadboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
codependency. look it up.
2007-09-05 13:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋