Ok your brother married an abusive sociopath who abused your brother and her kids(gave them medicine just so they'd go to sleep for example and neglect them). Well they're divorced, the kids are taken away from her.
The ex wife of your bro emails you and adds you to her myspace. You a forgiving person you are is tempted to email her because you're curious as to how she's doing. But you also wonder if you contact her, will it endanger one of your neice's lives.(the other two kids aren't your brother's and they've been put in a foster home. Your neice (your bro's daughter) lives with your mom).
Email her or not? Or just block her?
2007-09-05 07:01:08 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why isn't my brother raising his own child? he's too lazy and he uses farming as an excuse. According to me.
2007-09-05 07:04:57 · update #1
i would block her if it just happened recently. but if time has passed & she might be remorseful & have changed her life it could be a lot different. most people do make mistakes and look back later on and realize what an idiot there were, & wish they could change things. this might open up new doors. if this is the case with her you would only be able to find out by emailing her. i wouldn't be terribly friendly or give out much information to her, the main goal would be to get information from her - find out what her life is like now and where her heart is. if she's the same or she just wants to get information from you, you'll know it. in that case u should block her for good. good luck.
2007-09-05 07:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by itsjustme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go near the woman through any form of communication. She wasn't stable before and there is no reason to assume she is now. Block her.
2007-09-05 14:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave this woman the heck alone. dont open a can or worms.
why forgive somebody who does that crap to your brother? what kind of sister are you , anyways? I dont care that youre nosy and want to see how shes doing.
2007-09-05 14:14:01 · answer #3 · answered by StinkyDec19 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Block her! You don't want her drama, and you definitely don't want to risk any chance of endangering your nieces.
2007-09-05 14:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her / block her ... it could tear up your family more so than it already has....
2007-09-05 14:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋