ok so i just moved to florida about 7 months ago from west virginia and theres homecoming...i've nevr been to a homecoming so its kinda exciting for me...but i have a cousin whos one year younger but shes....a spolied brat and she always gets everything she wants...she out does me in everything...and her mom is always comparing us and im kinda sick and tired of it...i decided not to go to homecoming and just stay home...wat should i do that night?
2007-09-08 04:22:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There has to be a way to ignore them. You are better than that. Don't bring yourself down to their level. There has to be others to hang out with.
2007-09-16 02:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Old Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be very unsure of yourself. What you need to do is gather all the courage you have and GO to the homecoming and maybe you will meet some new nice people there that you can make friends with. Perhaps you may not know it, but there may be someone that really hopes you go to the homecoming so they CAN get to know you better. Forget about your cousin and rely on yourself, only YOU can make yourself miserable - only YOU can make yourself happy and for goodness sakes, give yourself a chance to meet new people.
2007-09-14 23:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't let your cousin make you miss your first homecoming dance! Forget the cousin and have a good time and go, because if you let the cousin get away with this, she will continue to try to out do you in everything through life. And as a fellow West Virginian-Go Mountaineers!!!
2007-09-15 20:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by WVPV07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of your cousin in this equation. That will only feed her ego. Don't add to it. Just go and have a good time, don't worry about her. If her mom is comparing her to you then you need to also let your parent (her sibling) know how you feel so the adults can handle it for you too.
2007-09-16 11:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go out and do something that YOU enjoy. Do something that you have wanted to do, but didn't have the time to do. Go somewhere that you have put off, and put off, and go and enjoy. If your aunt tries to compare you to her daughter, Look her straight in the eye " Oh , we are nothing alike, I don't need everything given to me, to make me feel good about myself, I like myself just the way I am." OH, by the way, if you want to go to the prom, and the only thing that is holding you back is her, GO,GO,GO. Have a good time and remember " I am a good person, and I deserve this."
2007-09-15 22:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go.Rain on it,let them compare you who cares.Get you a dress and a date and go have a good time.Don't let your cousin win by staying home. Ask your aunt to not compare the two of you.That you are tired of hearing it.Take the bull by the horns and face it. this is being an adult, and growing up. Come on Cinderella!! get going
2007-09-15 03:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get together withyour friends and go to a movie or, go skateing, or you could take a chance and go to homecoming!!!!!!!! About your aunt i think that you should tell her how you feel!!!!!!! if she loves you she will understand!!!!!
2007-09-15 12:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Angel of death *Donah* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why stay home??? forget what they say be all u can be , keep ur head up and go. what do have to lose?? if you really want to go down deep inside then go and fun. what is there to be nervous about, i had a blast.
2007-09-08 11:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Maricela M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to homecomming but if you decide not to go bowling.
2007-09-15 23:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look go to homecoming
u will regret it if u dont
just live life and dont worry about others
u know she will do what she does so ignore it
have fun being you and not what others want you to be
2007-09-16 10:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by Cameron Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋