Am 6'5", bald, little chubby, strong in all ways, and very down to earth. I am 31 years old and close to graduating from college.
Why are girls so afraid of me? If a girl looks at me she automatically looks away/put their heads down or most of the time doesn't even look at me at all. This has been going on for years and I don't know what to do. I don't like clubs and I am not picky at all. Have been told by older people that I am very handsome and confident.
So why can't I find a girl who likes me? Is it my physical stature or the fact that I don't chase after them enough?
Oh, yes I live alone and smell great!
2007-09-08 04:45:00 · 16 answers · asked by cappatown23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is nothing wrong with you, I saw your pic. You look great and have a nice smile and you seem interesting. Too bad I live in Europe otherwise I would love to meet you! I like tall guys.
;-)
2007-09-09 00:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest iam not sure why but if u smell good and u live on ur own maybe u are looking in wrong placesand maybe u shouldn't look. love will come ur way. i think u will find the right girl at the right momnet , u get me.. hey maybe those girls that put there heads downs shouldn't be looking have u ever though that htey might be takes thats why they look away cause u tempting???
2007-09-08 11:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Maricela M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here is my 2 cents and you and I live in a new world. People now like youth and physical attractive. You want a girl you have to join the gym and work out. Then you do not have to call me for any advice.
2007-09-08 11:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, keep at it. You will find a girl. When a girl shows interest, then ask her out. Let them look at you, then smile back. Chicks want a guy why will make them feel special. They really are easy. Every woman has a self esteem issue, just make her feel special, loved, and pretty and that is it.
2007-09-08 11:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
People today are more for looks then brains, this is because everyone these days are so vain. You need to maybe start to appear that you are at least looking for someone to start a relation ship with. Do you have any friends that can hook you up. try to just be yourself and you lady will come.
good luck
2007-09-08 11:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by darlene P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your personality like? What's your reputation like? Why are you just graduating at 31? Do you work? What's your track record with women in the past? They might be getting a "desperate" vibe from you. Women pick up on that faster than lightening!!
2007-09-08 11:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by gma 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well this is difficult since we don't know what you look like. I don't want to sound shallow but you either have an attitude problem or a physical issue since girls look away every time. Is there a way for you to ad a pic underneath your question?
Good luck!
2007-09-08 11:52:27 · answer #7 · answered by Just me 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you msut be hanging around the wrong crowd. i hae a freidn that is 32 i think and shes single never been married lives in michigan where are you located? couldbe great maybe shes gone to dating service you never know what you could find there.
2007-09-12 00:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool.... just make friends with people who WANT to really be friends with you!!! :) I think they think you are not good enough but you might be better than them!!! You will find that right girl WHO WILL APPRECIATE YOU and my advice is to get to know that right intelligent girl.... I wish the best for you..... wanna be friends with me?!!! Take care
2007-09-08 11:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know G, in life there isnt anything wrong with you, i know this beacause im 23 and in the same position. To me, ill say that its because others dont know you. They must all see you and say to themselves 'what the freaks on his mind?' In my life ive learnt that you have to speak to them to get somewhere. You have to let them know who you are and get your real self out and about. One of my sayings is 'To get yoself through the relationship gates, all you have to do is conversate!' Peace
2007-09-08 11:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋