Family - June 2007

i am in foster care now and i am about to turn 16 n a few months, i was wondering how to get a divorce from them or if i am allowed to, i have an attorney already that is just mine not my parents. what do i need to know about getting a divorce from them?

2007-06-12 13:18:38 · 2 answers · asked by rissa 1

How would I go about it, who do I contact?

I don't want to explain everything here, but I'm 14, and it's not just me not liking my parents, but something's wrong and has been wrong all my life.
There is a specific family I would like to live with that would take me in. How would I get this to work out?

2007-06-12 13:04:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted once before but would like more advice. I am 17 and am wanting to move out of my parents house, and live with my bf and his family. Me and my parents have been havea really hard time lately...all we do is fight, I do to bed almost everynight in tears... My bf's family treats me so well and I am totally in love with him. Is there anything my parents can do, and how can I tell them!?

2007-06-12 12:46:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm almost 18, and I have two younger brothers and we live with our mom. My mom has three jobs, working part-time at a cafe, and delivering coupon books and newspapers. I also have a part-time job working in fast food. The problem is my mom is in debt, we are renting our house now and she can't afford that. She goes out everynight, to just hang out, play poker, etc. When I'm at work, no one's there with my brothers. I take places all the time and spend more time with them than she does. She borrows money from me all the time. She always complains about not having enough money or time to go grocery shopping,etc., but she has enough time to go to bars and play free poker. She spends money that she doesn't have. Today, she borrowed money from me because she said she needed gas to go to work, but right now, she's on her way to a bar. When I try to talk to her about it, she just gives me the line "I'm the mother, not you!" She's acting more like a partying teenager than a mother. Help?

2007-06-12 12:35:15 · 6 answers · asked by feather1317 1

every year whether it be a birthday or a holiday, we get him a gift... and he never uses it! I need some ideas:

his interests are ... tv and golf and food... thats about it

2007-06-12 12:18:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-12 10:53:03 · 4 answers · asked by mary b 1

so much stuff in my home that I don’t know where to begin

2007-06-12 10:51:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i should start with an explanation. My boyfriend's mom lives in san diego, me and my boyfriend in cincinnati. His sisters (16&13 yrs old) came back a month last year to visit their dad. I"m extremely close with his sisters, they call everyday, and tell me everything about their lives.

Well, one day his oldest sister and i went dancing at a teen dance club, and we came back late, probably around 3.. and i stayed over their house because i didn't want to wake up my entire family. When i told my boyfriends mother this story she complained and said she had taught her daughters "not to sleep around" and i was a horrible example. Basically she called me a wh**e.

But, my boyfriend was already sleeping when we got home, and we had been together two years. I don't drink or smoke, or do any drugs.. and i'm 19, he's 21. Not what i consider a bad example

Was she right to say what she said to me? He won't talk to her now for what she said to me. Should i apologize or was she wrong?

2007-06-12 10:50:57 · 7 answers · asked by LoveisfirE 3

2007-06-12 10:41:31 · 8 answers · asked by shanncrwly 1

ok my brother died 15 years ago on june 15.... his name was timothy charles wilson.... i am trying to find his obituary because i really need it right now.....please hurry
serious answers only... it's not the time for games

2007-06-12 10:37:01 · 9 answers · asked by Samantha 2

please help me i have a stuck up b**** for a mother in law and shes really buging the h*** out of me please help me

2007-06-12 10:22:26 · 7 answers · asked by mrs.rocky 2

Does my mum have a right to change my room about

1. She took down all my posters of demons and devils

2. She changed my room colour from Black to Blue

3. She took away all my scary movies

4. Got rid of all my clothes that were black

5. Got rid of all my blades

So yeah can she do this ?

And was she right to do it?

2007-06-12 10:13:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok well, my mom and my older brother dont talk to each other, because my moms an ***. so my brother is gradurating from high school and my mom doesnt want to go to his graduration. Also my graduration is on the same day but my one starts at 6, so both my parents would be able to attend both ceramonies. i told my mom that if she doesnt attend my brothers graduration then she doesnt have to come to my one. and i really dont want her to come, cuz shes a *****!
do you think im doing the right thing?

2007-06-12 09:56:35 · 4 answers · asked by vanessa 2

Would you die for your sister or brother after a big argument among them and you? I have been threatened like that. It might be a hyperbole.

2007-06-12 09:01:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother and my soon to be bride DO NOT get along..My mother is in a wheel chair and lives with me..A home for the elderly is out of the question...ANYONE...?

2007-06-12 07:53:18 · 18 answers · asked by pissed off 2

A bit older than my son but does half the chores my son does around the house.
She is dirty, smelly, untidy, very rude, downloads pornography and bluntly tells me she likes porn and I believe she has some level of mental problems. She never seems to enjoy anything and cries and harms herself out of the blue. Dad is a geriatric who married a young girl and had this daughter.
Bio mother does not want her - citing she does not have accommodation or time - yet she is fostering 3 children two teens and a baby!
Dad took her to the psychiatrist and sitting in there you would think that it was the psychiatrist who had suggested the daughter had a problem - dad was so defensive and I wondered why we had gone there in the first place. Dad solves problems by throwing money at them - she cries, gets a games, toys, money all rudely snatched and given away or thrown in the bin no appreciation whatsoever. What shall I do? Pse help as the behaviours are depressing for me and my son too.

2007-06-12 07:40:33 · 18 answers · asked by Unique H 2

When I was younger and in trouble a lot my father told me I was not his child and that my mother's best friends husband was. At first I thought he was just angry with me, but my mother has a wild past. I am the oldest of 11 children most from different fathers so it could be possible. Now that I am in my 30's I approached my father again with the question and he said that he believes there is a chance he could not be my father. I love my father and even call him "daddy" still. Should I ask him for a DNA test or leave it alone. Part of me thinks I could hurt more people if the test comes back that his isn't my father. I would never speak to my mother again and my half sister and brother by my father would be effected. If I don't ask it's only me who is effected by not knowing. I really don't know what to do.

2007-06-12 07:37:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok my sister is 15 years old and she is a freshman in highschool. She got a boyfriend and I didn't like him but I didn't like hate him. So he broke up with her because her grades sucked and so forth he cared about her though. Then I find out that a few weeks after they break up she had been sleeping with this guy in my grade I’m a junior. No condom or anything a my parents found out she got grounded and now she's hangin out with this two boys who talk so much S***. Well yesterday I called her and she was like I’m walking home right now. will I went over to my friends house we went out and I saw her just leaving where she was and she had a hicky on her neck from her new boyfriend and I got pissed off because I don't want her to mess up her life. so I made her get into the car well today she didn't want to so I made her and now my parents say I am over reaction. but i think they should be doing more she almost gets pergenant or Aids and now i catch her with hickys. who is wrong.

2007-06-12 07:32:21 · 9 answers · asked by frankly I'm Just Honest 4

My mother has always put herself before everyone. She's never proud of us, her kids, for our own sake, has threatened suicide, badmouthed our father to turn us against him, had tantrums on the floor when she didn't get her way, and used to constantly tell me I was selfish when I didn't take care of her (I was only a child). She wants attention and admiration 24/7 and won't even let me study.

I am still suffering as an adult. I am staying with my grandmother (and her) while I'm in school full-time and it is getting worse. My mother has not prepared me for "life" and I find that everything I need to know, I have to learn myself!

I had to pay hundreds of dollars for driving lessons because my mom didn't "feel like" teaching me to drive. She won't "let" me use the washing machine to do the laundry myself. My student loan debt is getting higher and higher, but if I move out, it will skyrocket.

I've been nothing but respectful, but now I am very resentful. How can I keep sane?

2007-06-12 07:27:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my child will not sit still for 2 min.he is constantly jumping running and tearing things apart.He has 5 other brothers and is very physical with them iam afraid he will end up hurting himself or someone else.Could someone who might have this same situation please tell how you would handle this situation.

2007-06-12 07:23:26 · 15 answers · asked by shwn_hancock 1

especially in Texas think they have to kill their sweet, wonderful children. I live in Texas and I HATE that we seem to find these women insane rather that KILL them!!! I have just had enough!!!! Today another stupid woman in Texas beat her 2 month old to death, claiming her divorce depressed her. Come on Texas, start killing these evil parasites!!!!!! Please!!!! Women, please do not hurt your babies, there are so many people who would help you or take care of your baby.

2007-06-12 07:23:15 · 7 answers · asked by hunter_bug_4me 2

2007-06-12 07:09:56 · 11 answers · asked by Chewy 2

my daughter will be a year this month, i assumed they'd settle down after a while, but they still call me every other day, they still complain that i don't bring her to see them at least 3 times a week.. today my mother in law called and asked if i would bring her over I said i really would like to stay home and catch up on my house work, but that she could come over and play with her while i cleaned and mowed the yard, i thought that was reasonable but she wouldn't listen and insisted that i come over, all be it allowing me time to clean my house.. if they ask if she has something, a toy extra binky whatever and i say no, they go out and buy it, i just feel like their stepping on my toes, i'm six months pregnant with my son, and i feel like i am constantly harassed.. it makes me want to move away...... any advise..? other then being rude to my inlaws.. i do care about them.. I just wish there was some way to tell them to back off, politely.. my husband won't do it..

2007-06-12 07:08:27 · 10 answers · asked by Kitterkat 5

2007-06-12 07:07:28 · 26 answers · asked by CareerPrince23 3

i split up with my partner and she is making it hard to contact my kids she also turns off my daughters mobile
what can i do without going to court

2007-06-12 07:06:29 · 25 answers · asked by ? 1

Sometimes I feel I have the most disfunctional family in the world. My daughter has not and will not speak to me cause I kept a secret from her about my 18 yr. old grand daughter being in touch with her natural father. I thought it was up to her to tell her mom. This is going on for 1 1/2 years. She pushed me to the floor, smacked me in the face and told me I was dead. Her father and I were separated at the time, so he won't get involved. He has an e-mail relationship with her and hasn't seen her in a year. My son and his father have not spoken in almost 2 years because of a disagreement with a business they had together. All parties have to take some blame & responsibility in what is going on. Sometimes I don't think it's worth it but it is my family. I sent my daughter an e-mail last Christmas and asked her if we could come to a truce. She never responded. My son sent his father a note and told him he missed and loved him. He never responded. Suggestions please.

2007-06-12 07:04:21 · 3 answers · asked by ellenmarie_47 2

So I am going to stay with my boyfriend for the summer and I am leaving my house when no one is there and just go. He doesn't live far from my parents house and I am a little nervous but I know it's the right thing to do! I just don't want to hurt anyone! Am I making a wrong move?

2007-06-12 06:48:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting married next august to a wonderful man, and marrying into a wonderful family, my inlaws are like my second parents.

Just recently my fiance's brother began going through a divorce, is not yet legally seperated no paperwork has been started but wife has moved out.

He has began dating a new girl, who has just plopped right in where his wife left off, taking care of their infant son, cooking, cleaning etc. And while I do like this girl, I do not support their relationship I feel it needs to be put on hold until the divorce.

My issue is, they have only been seeing each other a month, and I am feeling jealous that she gets to spend so much time with my nephew when I used to babysit all the time-now she does. She is sending my MIL pictures of our nephew, emailing, etc.

I know I am being stupid, but it is frustrating and im not overly upset about it...more upset about the fact that it even bothers me!!

How would you feel?

2007-06-12 06:44:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

with my dad. I haven't spoken to my dad in three years for personal reasons, but last night I found out that he was sick, something to do with his blood. He is awaiting a specialist to determin what is wrong with him. Then my boyfriend calls and we had an argument, and he hung up on me (very rude), so that made things worse. My question is this: I know that I need to be there at a time like this, but what do I do? Should I call him, or since Fathers Day is coming should I buy him a gift and show up at his house....or, should I wait till he calls to give me the news (I know he won't, it's a pride thing). If I do nothing, and something happends to him, I would never forgive myself.
What to do?

2007-06-12 06:39:54 · 14 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7

My hubby's niece is 23. She is staying the summer with us and taking a summer class. She is sleeping in the guest room, which is also the study room. She has downloaded things on our computer, changed several settings on the computer including the font size on the internet (which I don't know how to change it back to what it was), and changed the wallpaper on the computer (which was a picture of our son) to plain blue.

I would not go to someone's house and do these things. I think it is rude. Hubby thinks nothing of it. Am I over reacting? I have not said anything to her, but it bothers me.

2007-06-12 05:45:20 · 14 answers · asked by af 1