Ok my sister is 15 years old and she is a freshman in highschool. She got a boyfriend and I didn't like him but I didn't like hate him. So he broke up with her because her grades sucked and so forth he cared about her though. Then I find out that a few weeks after they break up she had been sleeping with this guy in my grade I’m a junior. No condom or anything a my parents found out she got grounded and now she's hangin out with this two boys who talk so much S***. Well yesterday I called her and she was like I’m walking home right now. will I went over to my friends house we went out and I saw her just leaving where she was and she had a hicky on her neck from her new boyfriend and I got pissed off because I don't want her to mess up her life. so I made her get into the car well today she didn't want to so I made her and now my parents say I am over reaction. but i think they should be doing more she almost gets pergenant or Aids and now i catch her with hickys. who is wrong.
2007-06-12 07:32:21 · 9 answers · asked by frankly I'm Just Honest 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your parents! Your sister is obviously doing things a 15-yr-old should not be doing! Did you tell your parents what kind of guys she is hanging out with? Ask them if they are going to raise her baby or take care of her when she needs 20 medications a day because of AIDS!
A hickey is a sign of, at least, going to second base, and that's half-way home, and she has already proven that she is irresponsible where sex is concerned. You're doing your best to prevent her from a terrible future. Maybe your parents just don't realize the seriousness -- she was only grounded for a little while for having unprotected sex with some guy she barely knows? It sounds like you are the only grown-up in the house.
But also realize that you cannot stop your sister from ruining her life, only her and your parents can at this time, and you have got to make sure you don't mess up yours while trying to save hers or your parents'. Keep being a good influence on her and keep letting her know that you want more in life for her than being a teenage mother or having STDs that will ruin the next 60 years of her life for one moment of not-so-fun teenage sex. But if she doesn't listen, you need to just let her be, it's her life.
And I'd tell a counselor or a trusted teacher or a minister, some adult you know, about your parents' reaction, or lack thereof. It may be considered child abuse.
2007-06-12 07:50:47 · answer #1 · answered by umkelly08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey I give a standing ovation because my brothers and cousins was the same way with me. And now I'm that way with my niece and cousins. You don't want a bad rep I seen girl in high school like. They'll end up with a kids in HS and trying to be more of a party girl. And spend more time with the new currents bf then with they on kids. what a shame that I have to see my cousin and her friends going through this.
2007-06-12 07:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by shantia_21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well u are definatly not wrong. ur just looking out for your little sis. You need to explain what u just wrote to ur parents and mabey they will understand and if they don't then talk to ur l;ittle sis. she may think ur being over protective but atleast she'll live longer instead of dieing form AIDS or something
2007-06-12 08:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Myisha B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just one of the reasons I enjoy Y!A. Great joke! LOL I would've said LMMFAO but that may have offended someone and I might get a (whispering) violation. shhh.
2016-05-18 02:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although your thinking is good, you're actions are more likely to make your sister want to rebel. You need to sit down with her and maybe your parents and lay out how concerned you are. She needs more education and reasons to make safer choices in her life. Dragging her away is a very short term solution to the whole problem.
2007-06-12 07:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Critter 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you are absolutely right , and no you're not over reacting .
let me tell you something ... in my country brothers love their sisters and care about them , and they can't stand seeing their sisters talking to guys or even having a boyfriend , i have 4 brothers and i asked my brother and he says you are right and you should talk to you parents about it .
2007-06-12 07:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Donets'k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They r!!! and its good that u care 4 her cause most brothers won't even bother with the situation until they get aids and stuff and feel stupid and bad.
2007-06-12 07:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by bkgurl06 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
While you can voice your concern and make sure she is protected again pregnancy and some diseases, you cannot control your sisters behavior. As hard as that is, you need to back off.
2007-06-12 08:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are right
2007-06-12 07:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋