Family - June 2007

So, you invited your daughter to go on a trip with you and your 3 other daughters, while your husband and son stayed home. You asked her a couple months in advance to go tubing with you for 3 days in a town about 5 hours away. She took all three days off, but a little less than a week before the trip, you decided to stay for longer and go out of state too. She was supposed to ride up with you, but since you were staying longer, she would have to ride back with some of your friends, who she didn't know that well. She called you the next day, saying she was just gonna drive up on her own, then. Plus, she could stop and see her boyfriend who lives about an hour away, since he is on the same path to get to the tubing place. She was still gonna get there the same time as you and head home the same time you left for out of state, but she wouldn't drive up with you. How would you feel? How would you react to your daughter?

2007-06-13 08:06:54 · 8 answers · asked by joshuarenae 2

Can my mum make me get therapy or sumthin like that for cutting myself. I mean do I have a choice or can she or someone else make me?

2007-06-13 08:02:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering.... I have a friend who was my former teacher and ever since the semester ended, we have talked through email all the time. We have also gone to lunch a couple of times since then. She is pregnant and married. She told me to call her by her first name by implying she wants to be friends and she actually got me and my b/f started on a hobby that her and her husband do. Well anyway.. I think she she is a really good person and I would really like our friendshipto progress into where we become better friends as in that I mean talking on the phone and visiting each other at our houses and stuff like that. Well I am unsure if she wants to be friends like I do and I kind of wanted to ask her where she "stood". I dont know how to ask her though w/out seeming rude or ruining anything to where she got mad and never spoke to me again. Does it seem like if i kept on.. we might become good friends??What do you think?

2007-06-13 07:56:50 · 7 answers · asked by greenturtle 1

My 8yr old niece likes to run around the house nude….is this normal? She does this at our house before bath time. Plus, I caught her rubbing “herself “on the arm of the couch...I told my wife and she thinks this is normal, I think could be a sign of abuse? Do I need to call DFC? Let her mom know?, this seems weird.

2007-06-13 07:33:02 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-13 07:26:18 · 19 answers · asked by pernica 1

2007-06-13 06:37:31 · 12 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

my sister and dad wait till im gone from the house and then go get good food and eat it and then leave the scraps just to let me know they had it when i get back. i will go and buy some food so that i can eat too and as soon as i come home they take it from me and eat it. even though i just paid for it with my own money. it seems like they do this just to be mean. it sucks cuz no matter what i do. they keep taking my food and then i am left with nothing to eat but a can of green beans or something. what can i do to stop this.

2007-06-13 05:30:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son's father lives in California, (my dream hometown). My son is 12 months old. His father has seem him a total of 3 times in his life. All of which I have taken my son to see him. He makes no efforts to try to communicate with me regarding my son. He has never done anything for him in the entire year. I recently went to visit Cali, and it is so beautiful there that I just want to move there. I think that by moving there, he may do more for my son if our distance is closer. I must also add that he has a live-in woman that existed even before I had my son. Even with that, when I come in town, he tries to meet up with me for us to be intimate. I feel that is the only way to get him to see my son when I'm visiting. Is it a good idea for me to relocate so I can bring the two of them closer?

2007-06-13 05:00:55 · 6 answers · asked by churchnina 1

All the woman do is nag. She orders my brothers and I to do this and that all the time. She only does it when my Father be at work. I don't mind doing housechores, but her lazy behind can do some work, too. She's a heavyset woman, so she uses her weight as an excuse not to do anything. Yet, she eats like a hog. Sometimes, it don't be any food left. Another thing I don't like she's nicer to her irresponsible daughter. she let her daughter, her boyfriend, and their 3 kids come live with us until they find a place to stay. Without asking my Father. Her boyfriend stayed in the streets all day without looking for a job, and my step sister always have me or my step mom to watch the kids while she be in the steet. My step mom be complaining that her back hurt, and she gonna tell her daughter to leave. Then when my step sister comes back(late) my step mom don't mention her getting the boot. How can I let my step mom know what kind of person she is without making her upset?

2007-06-13 05:00:35 · 8 answers · asked by Jamaican P.Y.T 3

2007-06-13 04:58:09 · 18 answers · asked by Dick Richards 3

Different people have different beliefs about dying, death and the afterlife.

My grandmother passed away last week. My family was standing in the room around her bed. My uncle opened the window because it was hot in there. When he did, a huge gust of wind came into the room, blew up the ceiling tiles, swirled around and she died. Was it my grandfather coming for her?

Do you think we just die and that it? Or do you think we see all our lost loved ones in heaven?

What do you think?

2007-06-13 04:54:45 · 17 answers · asked by Samantha 2

she always so bossy and anoying!! sorry i spelled it wrong!

2007-06-13 04:37:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-13 04:33:29 · 4 answers · asked by justbc_try 2

why do old people have that distinct smell? is it the smell of rotting away?

2007-06-13 04:22:09 · 7 answers · asked by haha 1

Im thinking of moving out of my parents house in sept. Things @ home aren't so good and i've been thru a lot bc of my father & his family. I know that if i move out its going to be final and my father has told me he will not take me back on any circumstances. Which is kinda tough if you think about it, bc anything can happen. I am a very responsible 23 yrs old, I have a job, I still go to college. The rent is going to be $452 a month, and i only make $10 an hr. Im so scared but @ the same time I do have to take a stand and take my life into my own hands. Ive never lived away from home, i dont know what im up for. I wont have caror cell phone, but public transprtation is closely available. My mom said she would help me out once in a while. I have some $$ saved up, but its just this huge fear in me like im gonna mess up & then my father wins bc he wont let me back in his house and tell me how stupid i was. Should i take the step & move out or stay and be unhappy?

2007-06-13 03:16:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is leaving for basic training for the army this summer. He went last year all summer long and this year it is only a month. He left this morning and i started to cry like i did last year. Do you think im weird for crying for someone who is only leaving for a month? You see my brother is my only real sibbling and the rest of my sibblings are just half sibblings. We have never been that far away for that long. The furtherest we have been apart before the army was when he went to flordia for a few days and i live in ohio. Please tell me that i am not a wimp and that i should be able to handle my brother leaving for only a month.

2007-06-13 02:08:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was there a reason for this or is this good advice? LOL You ever put in a similar situation?

2007-06-13 02:05:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I walk through Wal-mart and people who I don't know will come up and talk to me and think I am one of my sisters, she is a little older than me. Now, we all look just alike. There are 6 girls in my family too. Anyone else have an almost twin sibling?

2007-06-13 02:00:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mothers sister is something thats unrepeatable. shes constanty putting down my mothers life, she hates my dad, hates me, hates her cat, her clothes, everything. but yet my aunt copies what my mom does. my aunt tries to telll my mom how to dress, not to go to church, how to feel. my aunt even lies all the time to everybody. my mom calls her an extortioner. its in the bible. my mom knows her sister isnt a christian and doesnt care about church watsoever. so that raises the bigger question. should my mom just never speak to her again, tell her off, or what? my mom wants me to get invovlved, but if i say something, its not going to be nice!!! i want my mom to come to texas to be with me and my family. she would be much happier and she would be free of her sister's finaggling. what do you think?

2007-06-13 01:45:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father molested me as a child until I moved away from home. I had a son to die under his care and after that I forgave him and moved on, never speaking of it to anyone. Didn't realize he was sick, just thought it was me.I just found out he's been molesting my daughter for over 7 years. That's unforgivable and I need to ask God to help me with that but we want no further communication with him. I've started the proceedings for charges against him. He just turned 70,The family is in an uproar, torn apart and no-one knows how to deal with this. Any suggestions? Please help!

2007-06-13 01:41:07 · 22 answers · asked by georgiarose_01 4

im a married women with a baby girl...my hubby is a foreigner and we live with my parents..i hate my family n now i hate my hubby he is alwayz favouring my mum whenever something bad happens,i alwayz get blame for nothing..i hate my self..now tat i hav a baby i feel she deserve a better life...my hubby is not showing concern abt moving out..i cant stay wit my parents anymore y cant he understand tat,i feel so useless n want to kill myself,,,i just hate living....

2007-06-13 00:40:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive had a crazy mad life, but that was then!!
When I was about 17 I became addicted to heroin and messed the whole of my life up right through to being 41. unlike many, I managed to totaly escape and get off it,Ive been off 4 years now, anyway that's another story.
While I was using heroin i had sex with a girl who became pregnant, she had an on off relationship with someone who was stable and didn't take drugs. He had no reason to belive that the child wasn't his and I had every reason not to make him aware, I couldn't have been a good dad to save my life, it wouldn't have been fair on her, him or my daughter. Only the Mother and me really know that I'm the dad.
I'm not thinking of disrupting anyones life by saying anything and after stopping drugs for over four years now I do think about her a lot.
I don't have any other kids and I suppose I wish I could just see her without letting anyone know or hurting anyone.
What do you think

2007-06-13 00:38:44 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did Scouts for 5 YEARS and Ice Hockey for 3 YEARS but I gave them up. Now I want to try something else but my mum won't let me becuase I am a "Quitter"

Am I really a quitter? Should my mum just let me do the new thing?

2007-06-12 21:43:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a brother who is a few years younger than me. We are both in good jobs etc. My mother treats the two of us soo different. Over the years certain things puzzled me - when my wife and i went to parents to stay, i had to lye on floor and wife on bed, whereas brother and GF shares a bed. Also, when i got my first job, my mother insisted that i paid digs of £30 per week, and now my brother and girlfriend are living rent free? My wife and I have been married for 2 and half years and have seen each other 5 years. My mother has only spoken to the wife about 5 times, including the wedding. And within the last year she has only phoned the house 3 times. However i am always the one that phones them. I think if i never contacted them, they wouldnt bother at all. There is a baby on way and i thought my mum would change, she hasnt shown much interest really. Is this just me being the older brother and jealous? or should be mum be more of a parent equally? Should i move on and let her chase?

2007-06-12 21:31:36 · 6 answers · asked by geeboy 1

I'm Black and I really like this White Mormon girl. I think that she likes me and I might like to bring her into the family. Will her parents have trouble with me because of my color?

2007-06-12 18:45:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My name's Evangeline, and I'm 25 years old. I'm using my best friend Adrianna's yahoo because I don't have a computer or tv at home. So I thought I'd take this opportunity to see how many others are content with their lives.

I have two sons Jack is 3 and Shawn is 2. I live in a 3 bedroom house in a suburban neighborhood in Los Angeles. My husband and I have been married for 7 years. I drive a typical used car, and I clip coupons for my once a month grocery shopping at Wal-Mart. That's where I get all of my clothes, Wal-Mart. And my sons and my husbands too.

We take a family vacation once a year. My husband Hayden works a typical 9-5 office job, and makes a typical pay.

We live an average American life.

And I love it.

I couldn't be more happy. Having my sons, my husband, and so many good friends...I couldn't be more blessed.

Well, ok I could be.

And I am going to be. This August I'm having a baby girl. Hayley.

Is anyone as happy as me? *perfectly*

2007-06-12 18:36:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today I turned 18 (which means no limit on when I have to be home as far as drivers license goes) and my friends invited me to go over and play poker. My mom said I should be home at 1 since my license only allows me to be out as late as 1, but once you turn 18 in my home state, there are no more limitations but when I informed her of this she said still be home at 1. I got home at 1:15, and I hit lots of red lights even though there is NO traffic on the road (and she doesnt believe me about this). I have a VERY good track record with times and this is a first that I'm late, but its 15 minutes not an hour or two. When I got in at 1:15, my brother and mom met me at the door and my mom said she's going to have a talk with me tomorrow. My parents are fairly harsh and will probably disallow me from going out with friends for the month and probably the rest of the summer. Mind you, I'm an honors student going to college on scholarship full scholarship. I am not a low-life. Is this unfair?

2007-06-12 18:26:15 · 11 answers · asked by ILuvTaraReid 2

I am having a difficult time coping with all of this my mother has been sick with various problems with a initial onset of dementia and multiple obstructions and surguries in her life she went to the hospital after a terrible stay at the nursing home where they were not maintaining her properly thus she was in kidney failure I made them call the hospital they came and the ER doc made a mistake when he tried to get a central line long story short she coded on the table and they brought her back and she suffered a great deal now unable to walk and confied to a wheelchair with inoperable cancer. She got terribly worse over sev eral long months and now she is dying I took care of both her and my grandmother who just passed four months shy of her 100 b-day I am extremely close to both and I am the strongest of the family and no one else seems to come or care. How can I get through this??? To make things worse I am disabled.

2007-06-12 18:25:27 · 22 answers · asked by sxy+brains 1

2007-06-12 18:23:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

she's a irresponsible person

2007-06-12 18:22:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous