Family - June 2007

We've only practiced once when we moved into our new home. I'm sure with little kids they need to know all the right things to do. at our first practice. all the lights were off it was dark. I was with them giving them instructions. once all the fire alarms were set off at the same time. I had the door shut to the kids rooms. told them to feel the door if it was hot. If it was cool then it would be safe to open. they were scared from all the alarms. I told them to stay on their knees and stay calm. we crawled to the front door as quick as possible. It would have been more interesting if we had a fake smoke. it's sad to hear kids or families dieing on house fire. I love to practice any hazard safetly with my children

2007-06-14 01:31:44 · 4 answers · asked by Disney Dreams 1

2007-06-14 01:31:32 · 24 answers · asked by twisty 1

2007-06-14 01:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by Ask ME 3

hi my boyfriend borrowed my sisters mp3 player with out permission and let someone else listen to it and she left it at the libray and someone else claimed it now he has to write a 3 page essay on why its not good to take without permission. he does think it was his falt.but it is because he took it out the house without permission meaning he was responsible for it...

2007-06-14 01:10:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother has suddenly stopped speaking to me or responding to me, she is quite cruel to me now and I have asked her what I have done and she will not answer she just hangs up on me, she did not bother with me for my birthday and when she visited my sister recently she did not even make an effort to pop in to see me despite being down for 5 days, when I tried to arrange to see her whilst she was down she made excuses to not see me. I know I have done nothing wrong to her and that I have been a good daughter.

What can I do and how do I cope with her abandoning me

2007-06-14 00:33:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello Kettles, can we move in?
This house of ours looks like a bin,
We are married, so it'll be no sin,
After all we are your kin.

Ha-ha-ha I'm only joking,
Spreading on you a bit of yolking,
Of your appreciation I'll take a token,
You old guys sure are smokin.

Sorry Lyn and Sorry Graham,
I'm so bored i think i'm fraying,
You might want to give me a flaying,
Have no fear, becauses here we are staying.

2007-06-14 00:10:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have failed 2 out of 4 exams, my parents hav been wondering where the results is so ive been telling them its coming out soon, but now i feel guilty and i dont want them to get mad, wat shood i do? i feel like running away

2007-06-13 23:19:27 · 7 answers · asked by daniel t 1

2007-06-13 21:36:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-13 20:07:46 · 5 answers · asked by Laura M 1

i need straight up answers now. i dont wanna deal with him but i still wanna stay there. should i stay with them and kick his a** if he does anything, or should i go stay with other family members? please, its just a really hard decision. if you dont get it, read my other family questiopns and PLEASE ANSWER

2007-06-13 19:05:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

she won't answer when I call. She's been hard on her luck and I'm a poor recent college grad. She has a stupid tracfone which she never answered or used, so I bought her a landline and pay the monthly bill (for roughly 4 months now). So I told her she needs to call me once a week (it was in a lighthearted manner). Well she NEVER calls me, and when I call her she won't answer or return my calls. It really aggravates me. She claims it says "unavailable" when I call. Well.. I think she should answer it anyway. If it's a telemarketer hang up. It kind of upsets me that I offered to pay for her phone and she won't even use it to talk to me! She calls my sister. I'm going to cancel it anyway because I can't afford it anymore. She knows I'm canceling it. But do you think it's rude that she won't answer or call me? Is that too much to ask?

2007-06-13 19:00:22 · 14 answers · asked by two_kee_kees 4

What type of romantic gestures works well to either turn him on or make him love you more?

2007-06-13 18:52:36 · 8 answers · asked by mickey 1

I am 34 and have been divorced twice with 2 kids. My parents will not even consider getting to know my new boyfriend instead they want to send insults his way just because they would rather I be alone for the rest of my life. My boyfriends parents won't accept me either because I am divorced and told me to my face tonight that me and my children will never be accepted as part of their family if My boyfriend and I get married. To me this is so wrong; we love each other and are not trying to hurt anyone. My children have been hurt by this because they want to have a relationship with my boyfriends parents. This has also caused a strain within my own family. Am I right or wrong in thinking that both sides need to butt out and let us make our own decisions in regards to who we ultimately want to be with. In fact my boyfriends mother keeps belittling her own son saying that I shouldnt have my children around him; i dont understand this since he is a really good person.

2007-06-13 18:50:03 · 16 answers · asked by yellowrose3200 1

My brother just came awhile ago and I was jacking off and moaning and crap and he said "keep it down bro." I looked at him and he winked and pulled down his pants and we started "playing" When we both were about to c.u.m when our parents walked in and freaked out...now they want to talk to both of us in an hour after they talk to each other...what do I say? Me and my brother do this quite a bit.

2007-06-13 18:47:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

should I just be myself,rather than trying to do newer things, or what could you suggest that might help for me to really get to know her better?
She and I are both on myspace..and she is always blogging and I can read her stuff...I have met her twice before and we do get along..but, I just kind of wish that I could be more of a friend to her..then just her dad's new wife(as of last summer) but she had met me way before that!

I feel like I can talk to her older brother easier..and I have always been able to talk to guys much easier as well...had a lot of male friends growing up!
But, I just wanted to know if there was a way to really get to know the teen better(being that she is a very sporty and smart type...and also just fun all of the time..) I do get along with her, like I have stated, and I don't want to push her,(I was a step kid,and I KNOW what this is like, from the step kids point of view as well...although everybody is different too!) soo, what would you suggest?

thanks!

2007-06-13 18:47:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anne99 2

look for all the parents that don't let your kids do nothing, not let them go nowhere..ya guys are bunch of idiots, why cuz ya think if ya don't let your child go out, or not take them to places..they will be good in the future..as teenagers we feel more mad n it makes us hate our parents for not bein what we want. you guys are making everything unfair and thats why most kids, when they grow up, be failure in life..its all da parents fault

2007-06-13 18:42:23 · 11 answers · asked by whatever441 1

My husband left me two years ago and I moved out of state with our son. My ex-husband's parents never showed much interest in our son (their only grandchild) and we have never gotten along. A couple of months ago my ex (whom we see regularly) asked me what I was doing June 7-14 and when I said, "nothing," he said that his parents were planning a visit here to see our son. I wasn't thrilled because I can't stand these people and they've never been nice to me, but I know that I can't really keep my son from seeing them as they haven't done anything bad to him. They arrived here last Thurs. and to be nice, I made dinner for them (my ex-husband was here too). No one even said "thank you" after I made a nice dinner and dessert! I couldn't believe it. The following day my ex-husband and his parents took my son out all day to do different activities and I stayed home so that they could enjoy the boy without me tagging along. That night and the next (while I was out so we wouldn't all be

2007-06-13 18:05:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yes, I'll wait until the day of my birthday when I open them - but I have her ebay account (she let me use it once recently) and I happened to see things she bought for me.

I've been learning Hiragana and Katakana lately (Japanese) - I already have flash cards for them. Once I learn both alphabets completely I won't need anything else about them.

My mother, I saw, bought me more sets of flash cards... the ones for CHILDREN. Very childish... downright embarrassing for someone my age. And a poster of the two alphabets also for children.

What do I do?? She wasted, like $40 right there.

2007-06-13 17:58:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering.... I have a friend who was my former teacher and ever since the semester ended, we have talked through email all the time. We have also gone to lunch a couple of times since then. She is pregnant and married. She told me to call her by her first name by implying she wants to be friends and she actually got me and my b/f started on a hobby that her and her husband do. Well anyway.. I think she she is a really good person and I would really like our friendshipto progress into where we become better friends as in that I mean talking on the phone and visiting each other at our houses and stuff like that. Well I am unsure if she wants to be friends like I do but I guess time will tell. I am planning on asking her if it were ok if I brought a meal to her house after the baby is born for her and her husband but I dont know what she would say. Does it seem like if i kept on.. we might become good friends??What do you think?

2007-06-13 17:54:12 · 6 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1

i try my very best 2 keep her happy but sometimes i do backchat her but shez like 24/7 swearing at me i dont know why......sometimes i feel as if im her step daughter....im 21 now & iv been tolerating her swears 4 the last 5,6 yrs & cant take it anymore........plz help!!!

2007-06-13 17:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im gonna go on a trip to stay with my family for a few weeks. Let me say that this was all my choice and no one is putting me in this situation. I dont get to see my family very often, so this is really important to me. But my uncle is a jerk and treats me like crap, and I will be staying with them because my aunt will be having her 3rd baby while im up there, so she wants me to help her since im really good with kids. I get really uncomfortable around my uncle. My parents know how he treats me, and my dad talked to him about it. My dad said that if he ever does anything again, slap or punch or knock him down. When a random person makes me feel bad, I defend myself and talk back. But when my uncle does it, i feel terrible because he is "family". Should I stay with my dads uncle instead? I really dont want to make them run back and forth to take me from my dads uncle and back, but I dont wanna deal with MY uncle for 3 whole weeks!

2007-06-13 17:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

to make a long story short my husband's sister hates me and we do not speak. after my last question i realize i am going to have to forgive her without an apology and move on but i don't know what to do about our upcoming wedding. we were already married in a civil ceremony and she manipulated her way into being a part of that and ended up having my husband and i dreading our big day because of the drama she brought to the table. i am just wondering if it would defeat the purpose of forgiveness to not invite her to our wedding next year that is intended to be a celebration with all the people who love and support us, which she does not, or if it makes since to make myself happy and with my husband's support not invite her. i really don't know what to do, i'm defintely torn but i kind of feel like this is one thing i shouldn't sacrifice on and i don't really want her negativity around me. also what about her being involved in my future children's lives if she doesn't grow up.

2007-06-13 17:21:51 · 6 answers · asked by hoping_for_happiness 1

should i let my girls hang out with him during the weekend when i know he will not be sober. and is it healthy to have them hang out with a father that lies, steals and whatever else he can to get his fix? is it better to have a bad dad than no dad at all?

2007-06-13 17:16:56 · 15 answers · asked by confused 1

answer his phone, only answering machine or talk to me. He sleeps most of the time and we have been together for 6 yrs. and his son and I got along great, so I'm grieving too. My boyfriend and I were really close before and after the loss of his son, but now he is pulling away from me and others, but especially me. I worry constantly about him. He has always been a loner, plus years ago, his older sister committed suicide too. Also, his step-father, who he loves, is dying too.
He told my friend that he pushes me away because he couldn't stand to lose anyone else. What should I do. I want to be able to comfort him and he won't let me. I feel abandoned and lost.

2007-06-13 17:10:41 · 13 answers · asked by karen c 1

I'm 29 and my mom is in her early 60's. She has not been to a doctor in literally decades- no yearly check ups, no mammograms, no gyno appts- nothing. Only thing she does is go to a dentist. However, she is very fit and healthy, takes care of herself, exercises, eats well, vitamins, etc. I'm just torn in terms of whether it's my responsibility to "make her" go to a doctor. I work in a hospital and see ALL the time people who die from cancer that could have been treated successfully if it was caught early. Every time I have brought this subject up, she gets very angry and our relationship suffers. My younger brothers seem to think this is my job to get her to go to a doctor, but how can I make an adult of sound mind go, I can't physically force her! It'd be different if she was really sick and refused to let me take her to a hospital- I'd call 911 and that would be that. I feel like I should just drop it and respect her decision, even though I really disagree with it.

2007-06-13 17:03:35 · 3 answers · asked by Jen1943 1

Last March 2006 my Fathers best friend, his brother passed away from lung cancer, sad I must say. Three weeks later on March 21, my best friend passed away, my mother. Two weeks ago, my wife had a misscarriage for the fifth time and we were both devisated. Last Saturday morning somtime my father fell and suffered a massive stroke with no chance of recovery. Tomorrow I must let my father go since he suffered a massive stroke with no chance to survive on his own. I must give permission for the doctors to pull the ventilator off and let him go when his body finally gives out. I am so sad and hurting inside it is difficult for me to even write this without wiping the tears from my eyes cause I can't see the keyboard. The hurt inside is so bad I feel like I want to go as well. With a loving wife at my side, I can not leave her and this keeps me sane and wanting to be here for her. We will try again someday to have a child. I am 50, she 40, but we will still try for us and them.

2007-06-13 17:01:19 · 6 answers · asked by viper1056 1

Lets start with my brother. He is a freeloader and doesn't give a care about anyone but himself. He has no respect for the women in the household. He picks fights with me, and gets aggressive if he doesn't get his way. I don't fight back but he just knocks me down and hits me. So a bully is what i would describe him as. I always ignore him its working...in a way. My dad is very sterotypical and a bit of a sexist. For an example. When i wanted to do Tae Kwon Do, he did not support me at all, and he had spasisms on the floor and said that would be me if i fought anyone- Since i was a girl. He does not stand up for his wife when my brother insults my mom behind her back. He and my brother complain about EVERYTHING and don't take action to do what they complain about. They expect my mom to clean everything. My dad cares about me, but doesn't treat me and my brother like equals. Its really starting to bug me, thats why i asked what i should do.

2007-06-13 16:30:28 · 14 answers · asked by Mizunushi 2

He's been married to my mother for two years now and if it weren't for his support I wouldn't be in college right now. I consider him more of a father then my biological father and I'm not sure if getting him something would.. upset him? I don't think he'd react negatively to it.. I don't know. Can anyone help me?

2007-06-13 16:02:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I stay with him even though my life can be in danger? I have 2 kids with him and I love him... Never have pictured us seperated. But this female is quite crazy. She looks for fights all the time, anywhere.. Dont no what 2 do.

2007-06-13 15:41:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in between on liking them because frankly they treat my husband like a kid still! I remember one time my mother in law bought my husband underwear! I was absolutely livid. He is a grown 25 yr man its time to cut the apron strings dont ya think? And also his dad still relies on him for everything from lifting things to fixing cars. I haven't really in the year and 3 months we've been married had really any peace at all. I am at a loss as to what to do?

2007-06-13 15:40:48 · 9 answers · asked by tx80sgirl 2