Should I stay with him even though my life can be in danger? I have 2 kids with him and I love him... Never have pictured us seperated. But this female is quite crazy. She looks for fights all the time, anywhere.. Dont no what 2 do.
2007-06-13 15:41:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Have hime file a restraining order on her. You should file your own too, but the first one needs to come from him alone.
2007-06-13 15:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Metro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try to stay away from her as much as possible.It would be scary when u have children but if u love this guy,u should stay with him.Hopefully after awhile she will leave u alone. if not, if she is that crazy i would go to police and get a restraining order on her,but that might push her really over the edge.You could also try and talk to her.be super nice to her and ask her to please leave u alone.I dont know.,this must be such a hard decision but i think love conquers all and u go down certain paths for a reason.
2007-06-13 15:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you honestly this flighty or just playing up for the internet audience?
Call the cops. Take out a restraining order. Move, change your phone number, whatever it takes.
By the way, if you truly loved this man, you would not consider leaving him for any reason. So what's wrong in your relationship that you think you need to leave him? You are using her as a crutch, find the real problem.
2007-06-13 15:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order against her. If they have children together, make the order for your home, work and your self and your children. When she violates the order, have her arrested. Do this until she either ends up in jail long term or decides its safer to quit all together.
Is there any way you guys can move? If so, perhaps that is the safest bet.
Good Luck!
2007-06-13 16:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by mrscmmckim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police, get a restraining order, don't let her push you around, don't let it destroy your relationship. call the police. she might have a record or be on probation already and if the cops find out she's terrorizing you she might get locked up.
And if she's threatening you and your family harm it is serious and it can be considered a felony, threats with the intention to terrorize is enough to lock someone up. Stalking is a felony too. Ask for police protection. They can come by once in a while.
2007-06-13 15:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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If your life is in danger, who will take care of your children when you are dead and he is in jail? His crazy Ex?
Get out of there, now. Or get him out of there. He's mad at her and he's taking it out on you.
2007-06-13 15:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not let a BIOTCH break up my happy home!!! GURLL THIS IS YOUR HOUSE, YOUR MAN, YOUR KIDS AND YOUR LIFE!!!! If you are not willing to stand up for that, that what the HEILLLLEEEE DO YOU STAND FOR. There are ways to handle her. Document and get a restraining order or if she threatens you on your property get the biggest bat that you can find and beat that HOE UNDER THE CONCRETE DRIVEWAY!
2007-06-13 15:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by Andre L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police.
get a restraining order.
have her arrested if she violates the order.
she will get the hint.
DO NOT ALLOW OTHERS TO MANIPULATE YOU!!!
take things in hand and stay on top of it.
if you have an order of protection call the police EVERY TIME she does something she is not supposed to be doing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-13 15:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to tell you but no man is worth your children's safety, if you are concerned about their safety get out of dodge before one of them gets hurt, tell your man it doesnt have to be permanent just until he gets the problem resolved, such as with a restraining order etc.
2007-06-13 15:48:46 · answer #9 · answered by winteraires 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does she have kids with him? Do you have a restraining order against her? What does he do to help you feel safe. If he is doing his part and making you feel safe then stay, if he is not then I would leave the situation and be happy with your kids!!
2007-06-13 15:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by chicana06815 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋