i need straight up answers now. i dont wanna deal with him but i still wanna stay there. should i stay with them and kick his a** if he does anything, or should i go stay with other family members? please, its just a really hard decision. if you dont get it, read my other family questiopns and PLEASE ANSWER
2007-06-13 19:05:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
everyone has a great point, which has made the decision really hard.
Pros if i stay with them- I'll stick up for myself. And I'll be over there more than just now. I have to stick up for myself rather than giving him what he wants.
Pros if i dont- I wont have all the stress. I'll be in a place where I can relax and have all the fun that I would be having without him.
2007-06-13 19:21:56 · update #1
everyone has a great point, which has made the decision really hard.
Pros if i stay with them- I'll stick up for myself. And I'll be over there more than just now. I have to stick up for myself rather than giving him what he wants.
Pros if i dont- I wont have all the stress. I'll be in a place where I can relax and have all the fun that I would be having without him.
2007-06-13 19:21:58 · update #2
You need to look out for yourself! You have every right to be treated like a human being and you deserve respect like every human being! Do Not Put Up with It! Do not stay with him! You can still help...but it has to be under your conditions. If your conditions cannot be met then you have to decline to helping. And Be very honest and up front about it! Stick up for your self no matter who it is that is bringing you down. Best wishes!
2007-06-13 19:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by autumn w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know what to do. Stay away from the man! You can help your aunt out with the baby while he is gone from the house, but DO NOT put yourself in an uncomfortable situation! Do not stay with them.
I get the feeling this is more than incompatible personality. She has decided to stay married to this man and have children with him. You are under no obligation to be under the same roof with him if he makes you feel uncomfortable. Protect yourself. You are the only one that can make this judgement call on where you should be.
2007-06-14 02:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put yourself through that kind of trouble! Stay somewhere else and deal with the logistics of getting rides back and forth. If you choose to stay there, you're just asking for trouble ... why would you do that? Are you really looking for a fight? DO NOT STAY THERE!
2007-06-14 02:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by monkeymom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stay with your uncle if you are being abused.Find somewhere else to live and look after yourself.
2007-06-14 02:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋