she always so bossy and anoying!! sorry i spelled it wrong!
2007-06-13 04:37:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You don't, you learn to move on, and life gets easier
2007-06-13 04:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by fjerseyman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Older siblings tend to be bossy because they usually spent some of their time looking after their little sib. It's normal and the best advice I can say is make her a part of your life. Confide a little so she feels like she's still taking care of you. Maybe get her to help with your homework or ask advice for something. This may bring down the bossiness a bit. If she didn't love ya then she wouldn't care what you did and she wouldn't be so bossy. I hope this helps, if not have a family sit down with your parent/s and her then ask for their help. They may be able to put a better handle on the situation. Good luck to you.
2007-06-13 11:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by maev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a sister of 3 other annoying sisters i can say i know where you're coming from. First off, if you ignore your sister then they're not getting the attention they're asking for... so eventually they'll get bored with trying and leave. Remember, you don't HAVE to do what your sister says because she's not your mother or father, unless she's an older sister and is babysitting you then she has no right to tell you what to do to. Tell your parents.
2007-06-13 12:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We choose to incarnate with the people because we learn needed leasons from them which help us evolve into better people.
Your purpose here is probably to learn tollerance and acceptance of people that anoy you and try to control your
life when they are not in a possition to do that.
Learn to detach yourself from her attitude, and simply deal
with what she is saying. Eventually you will be able to move
on in a more peaceful relationship with her as you both mature.
2007-06-13 11:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will get better as you get older, but she will ALWAYS boss you!! My sister is 47 and I'm 43, and she STILL has to have her own way! Just try to stay out of her way, that's what I do;)
Godd luck!
2007-06-13 12:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by Boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is she bossy how is she annoying need more info so we can help . I would say have a discussion with your parents about her and see if they can help . good luck.
2007-06-13 11:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try and eal with it...Years will go by and when you both are grown adults you will be best friends...Or at least I home!
2007-06-13 11:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋