Family - June 2007

the niece was only 4 years old ( she is now 31)and has not been around the ex for the past 26 years. She will readily tell you she has no memory of that marriage. It lasted only 2 and a half years.. I feel she shows me disrespect to all of a sudden start refering to this woman as aunt after all I am her uncles wife. her uncle and i lived together 18 years before marrying so she has always refered to me by my first name ( not aunt). At what point are we no longer related after divorce? I feel if we're related by marriage the divorce ends the relationship

2007-06-11 13:51:29 · 10 answers · asked by CHER 5

my brother and me were really close (he is 21 and im 16). but for the past few years things have changed and we fight like crazy. and i think he has anger issues. and he always lowers my self esteem a lot. but i have never told him this because i was too scared i guess. then last night we got into a huge fight and then i sent a really nasty email to him and said how he took my self esteem away and how he has anger problems. today he is acting weird, like really guilty and feels bad about everything and he has had a headache all day. by sending this email i think i changed everything. i also sent him this link:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiiZ4tL1cBS4u.9K5fWQUnzsy6IX?qid=20070611003322AA2tVY8

it is a question that i posted on yahoo answers about his behavior. i dont even know if he read the email and saw the website but im sure whenever he sees it he will be hurt. the problem is i told him the truth about himself and it hurt him, and now i think i made a mistake.

2007-06-11 11:48:21 · 15 answers · asked by Sunshine 4

he's seven and adorable.

2007-06-11 11:43:47 · 8 answers · asked by Sarizzle 1

Buscemi


Many people pronounce it like
Boo Cem eee

We pronounce it like
Bu Shay Mee

Do people miss pronounce your familys last name?

2007-06-11 11:38:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My last name is Bones nd . . . of corse when i type it in on google images . . . pics of dead peeps come up!!! nd when i type it in on the internet i can never seem 2 find it. I know my family is from Irlend nd my great grand ma r sum1 like dat came over 2 america by herself when she was about 13 or 14 and worked as a maid never seeing her parents again. But thats like ALL!!! i know nd i think it would b rele intresting 2 learn more about my families history!!! sooo . . . if ur not doing nething else . . . COULD U PLZ!!!! TRY 2 FIND MY FAMILY TREE ME OR ATLEAST GIVE ME A GOOD WEBSITE TO FIND IT ON . . . PLZ???????
^^thanxxx lotzzz^^ huz n kissezzz >>>> **luvmehateme**

2007-06-11 11:29:45 · 6 answers · asked by Colleen! 2

2007-06-11 10:53:18 · 8 answers · asked by mowsermae 3

i'm turning 14 soon and i have no idea what i want for my birthday. I mean i already have an ipod and a stereo for it. So if you guys could give me ideas i would love it. I know most people would just say like jewlery but please be specific. OH yeah don't say makeup because i have enough to last me a life time.

2007-06-11 09:58:49 · 4 answers · asked by GirlyGirl 2

I went to groups, to find people who are parents at my kindergardners school, and found a man who was looking for young boys to molest in the Portland Metro area, he said looking for a young boy to teach the joys of m2m pleasure and to love. Well this scares me because I have 2 young boys, and live in Portland, how do I report this to yahoo?

2007-06-11 09:21:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

he's in prison in lowa

2007-06-11 09:10:23 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley M 1

2007-06-11 09:06:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-11 08:56:14 · 6 answers · asked by Ramallah 1

Im a 22 yr old woman who is married with 2 kids. Im currently living with my parents due to the fact that I was pregnant when my husband was sent to Japan to be stationed there and I was high risk and the military wouldnt let me fly over with him due to potential complications. Anyway my question is this: How do you deal with parents who go through your cell phone to see who you have been talking to? What do you say when they ask you 50 questions as to where you have been (even if you take the kids with you)? How do you handle it when they tell you that if you cheat on your spouse they will disown you? Keep in mind that I am 22, married, with two kids AND I pay rent and buy groceries, further more they invited me to live here until everything was taken care of so that I can move...however long I needed. I still need to be respectful to my folks of course, I always have been and I try to make things as easy as possible for them by cooking and cleaning ALOT, plus taking care of the kids.

2007-06-11 08:39:25 · 10 answers · asked by jessieboyd2003 1

I have a 5 month old baby my mother in law has not brought her anything...She doesnt even call me to ask hows the baby.. My mom always get her something..it upsets me because i feel like she doesnt care about my daughter.... should i tell her something???

2007-06-11 08:35:29 · 19 answers · asked by Sue 2

My sister is almost 16 years old, but she's gone out with friends and pretty much spends her night drinking. They stay in and just have fun, I've realized that, but she just told me "I like the way it feels, how it makes you feel good" and that got me very scared; we have alcoholism in our family, and this is something that I'm afraid will turn into something that can hurt her. I don't know if I'm reading too into this, but I'm not exactly her favorite person in the world right now (no other reason other than I'm her sister, and she thinks I'll tell), advice?

2007-06-11 07:52:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

From a mother's perspective, if your daughter was lost for 1-2 hours, how would you feel? What kind of things would run through your mind? I know you would be worried, but more than that.
I'm doing an essay.

2007-06-11 07:36:29 · 13 answers · asked by missorange08 2

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2007-06-11 07:33:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted this question the other day, but hopefully I will get more dads to answer this time around. What would be a cool gift to get from your daughter for Dad's Day this year? I have a budget of $10-$30 including wrapping and card. I am looking for specific gift ideas - please no "gift cards" or "whatever you get him he will love" answers. Thanks!

2007-06-11 07:06:29 · 17 answers · asked by d_nanner 2

how do you get your family to stay out of your affais but they still keep own butting in. in grown with kids of my own and i do not like my family always putting me down iam sick and tired of my family

2007-06-11 05:25:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

if u walked in on your second cousin naked by mistake, and she's three years younger then u and she asked u to help put skin care lotion on her back would u? i'm a guy this happened to me. i said yes, nothing sexual happend. do u find this odd? we had bathed together as kids so its not like we have not seen each other b4

2007-06-11 05:16:07 · 24 answers · asked by pizza dude 29 2

Ok long story but I will make it short. My husband's aunt (who he is not all that close to) passed away yesterday. It was not unexpected (she had cancer). The memorial service, not funeral (due to cremation), is this Saturday. In another state, about a 5-6 hour drive and definetly an over night stay. We have been planning a big party with my family for some time now which is on Saturday, and my birthday and Father's day is Sunday, which would be the day we drive back. Spending almost all day on the road. Which by the way I did on Mother's day, due to the exact same trip just different reason. I have met this aunt once and never really talked to her. We have 2 children which are very young, neither of which I would like attending a service like this. But it would be hard for us to find a sitter, due to the fact that my mother-n-law will be traveling as well. Should I go or no?!

2007-06-11 04:55:05 · 4 answers · asked by Lauren J 2

Ok, here goes….

I have four children (2 biological (15 & 7)and 2 step (7 and 10) all boys). My mother singles out my biological 7 year old and babies him and actively shows favoritism toward him. She also comes to my house and when seeing the boys, will ask them to ask me if we can go to the movies or go out to eat. Or she will ask them to ask me if they can have a snack before dinner or lunch. I think that is putting them in the middle and have told her NOT to do it anymore. I told her that the grandparent has different rules and when the grandparent it the authority figure (when I nor wife are around) she can spoil them rotten(different rules when with grandparents) but when around me or my wife, we decide what happens with them.

She even actively scolds me in front of them for disciplining “her pick” if she doesn’t think he needed to be disciplined. Given the fact that this is my house and I (my new wife and I) have custody of all four boys, I think she is way out of line and have told her that this is my house and not to question me in front of them with I am doing that. She also tells her friends and some of my family that she is supporting me because she takes all of us out to eat and shopping a lot.

I don’t have a job near as good as hers and she knows I can’t afford to go out to eat or go shopping or to the movies all the time. I nor the children am not in NEED of food or anything else, she just buys things for us that “makes life easier” . Like she bought a riding lawn mower for me to use with the condition that I mow her yard too. The mower she later told me she wanted to gibe to my great uncle. I said, you bought it, you can do with it what you want. She said she would replace it for me. I spent 10 hours going from store to store looking for the best deal on models, features and prices. After that work was does and presented to her, she asked if I would rather have a Zero-Turn mower (about 3 times as expensive) I said sure, who wouldn’t. But it is so much more. She wanted to get the more expensive Zero-Turn for me so I said, OK. She put it in my name. She also had paid for me to have Dish network installed and paid for it for six months for me for my x-mas present one year.

I have told her before that I am not comfortable with her spending that much on me because I want to be independent ( I am now 40). She now has told her friends that she is tired of supporting me and wants me to stand on my own two feet. She has told them and my family that I am asking her to take us out for food and clothing and lawn equipment. I have told her in the past that when she is in my home or with me, I am the authority figure for my children (all four of them). I have also told her to stop actively showing favoritism to the one child. I know it is hard to love non biological children the same as biological, but I have asked her to not SHOW it. She still does. She still contents that she is supporting me. I have asked her not to spend any more money on me. She still calls and wants to go out to eat when she knows I don’t have the money to do it.

Now fast forward about a month. When I found out about what she is telling her friends and my/our family about me, I told her she is no longer welcome in my home and if she cannot quit showing favoritism, she is no longer allowed around the children. The last time we were together eating ice-cream, she snuck a bite of ice-cream to the “favorite”. My wife saw it and said “he does not need any more ice-cream”. As we all walked out of the store, she did it again and I gave her an evil look. My wife confronted her about it and now my mother is REALLY mad at my wife. Wife hates my mother. Now my mother is siding with my ex-wife trying to take my children away from me and give them to my ex since my ex said my mother can see the kids anytime she wants.

Am I wrong for how I feel about me being a parent? Am I wrong for what I did and said? I would love her to be in their lives and we (me and wife) have begged her to meet with us to work this out for the kids sake. She refuses. I refuse to let them be around someone who is blatently disrespectful for me as a person and me as a parent.

2007-06-11 04:47:49 · 22 answers · asked by Michael G 1

2007-06-11 04:45:40 · 5 answers · asked by olivia n 1

2007-06-11 04:42:23 · 6 answers · asked by lmc_827 2

my sister got drunk , my parent found out about it. one of her friends drank so much she almost died. my sister is only about 15 and a straight A students.im so disappionted at. right now im kinda just giving her the silent treatment. is that ok? how should i act around her?

2007-06-11 04:15:30 · 3 answers · asked by Suzie S 1

my parents got a divorce after almost 30 years, in december 2006. My dad has been mopey, depressed- listening to a bunch of sad love songs...all that fun stuff. He's been going out on a lot of dates and spending a lot of money. When I asked him what he wanted (it's also his 50th birthday) he rambled off air supply cd's and such (aka sappy love songs) and I don't know if I should go ahead and get it for him and possibly worsen his condition or if i should not get it for him- get him something else and not contribute to the pain. and if i should get him something else- what should i get?

2007-06-11 04:12:59 · 9 answers · asked by ilpbab 2

My mom has never trusted me. She trusted my older brother and he burned her every time. Then she would ground him and just let him off with it. He’s a total man whore and she knows it but let him get away with it knowing it from the time he was about 17 on. I’ve never done a single thing for her not to trust me. My grades are good and I’ve never snuck out or done anything she’s told me not to. She let me go to my friends one time and they had drugs, alcohol, and boys there. I called her as soon as I found out and asked her to come get me. One of my friends gave me drugs at school and I came home and gave them to her and didn’t open them and told her I didn’t want them, I didn’t use them! She introduced me to my now boyfriend because she liked him. She never let us be alone, I didn’t complain. Then when he graduated she let me ride in the car with him from the ceremony to his party, where she was too and then we went to his grandparent’s house then back to mine with her. No complaints.

2007-06-11 04:08:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you do with it?

2007-06-11 04:00:59 · 23 answers · asked by swordxka 1

For a lot of good reasons my mom hates my husband. My husband talks bad about my mother in front of me and I think it's wrong and that he should keep his feelings towards himself am I right?

2007-06-11 03:56:40 · 18 answers · asked by Mom of 4 boys and twins 3

2007-06-11 03:53:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 25 year old daughter was invited to a friend's house for a get together. Her friend's mother in law showed up. My daughter's friend decided to cook hamburgers for everyone and remembered that my daughter does not eat beef. My daughter told her friend that's ok, she'll make herself a grilled cheese sandwich. The friend's MIL told my daughter, "I'm kind of pushy and I will make your sandwich the way I want and I will let you know when you can eat it." My daughter told her, "The hell you will! I'm "kind of" pushy too and picky and I'll make my own sandwich." Then this MIL called my house to complain about my daughter. I told her my daughter is 25 years old and fights her own battles. Next time think before she tries to boss my kid like that again.
What would you of said?

2007-06-11 02:51:56 · 10 answers · asked by Jessi 1