Family - June 2007

Why or why not?

2007-06-10 03:59:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that he's a child molester. He was molesting my niece (his child) & then blaming it on me & thought it was funny & my twin sister believed him over me. Now the truth came out, & she feels bad. I lost a lot of friends over this false scandal.

He went to jail for molesting a child & he got out & won the case in court, even though he lied.

He even molested my other nieces & it's being shown in school that they pull their pants down & their behavior has changed & they seem traumatized. He'll molest the kids & then feel bad about it & try to kill them so they won't tell.

& my twin sister said that he raped her when she was 17 & he was 22. This was the day after she got raped by a 40-yr. old man. She suffers PTSD & is very traumatized. She has 3 kids for this dude, & during her 3rd pregnancy in her 9th month, he raped her again. Why would you marry a guy who raped you? She JUST told me this yesterday, & now we're 23.

I'm about to cry.

2007-06-10 03:44:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-10 03:24:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i was born my fathers parents my grandparents brought me up as a child untill 13years old then my parents took me back and moved to another country and i do not get along much then i would love to with my parents also siblings and things with my mother arent good either we argue constantly and i have left home several times because of this now i have a child and its kind of difficult

2007-06-10 02:27:52 · 6 answers · asked by ahylei17 2

My father makes fun of his mother and father-in-law all the time. I know its natural for people not to like their in-laws but come on, my grandmother is 88 and my grandfather is 92. Even though I don't agree with everything they say, I still believe people should respect there elders. What should I do in this situation?

2007-06-10 02:19:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father refused to be discharged from the expensive private hospital . But his own saving can only support him for two more months medical bill. If he insists to stay there as he needs oxygen for 24 hours. Will the hospital ask me to pay the bill though I am not in that country? My father is angry and cut my phone when I called him because I told him that I would not pay his bill . It is U$250 per day. I know he knows that I can afford it and I wouldn't give him up because of face problem. So he enjoys staying in the private room with 4 nurses looking after him. What can I do? It bothers me so much ? Please give me advices . Thanks for all who have answered my previous questions.

2007-06-10 02:15:11 · 9 answers · asked by psmom2006 4

The problem is that now it has been 5 months and I don't know how to tell her to start acting as a part of the household and not like a guest... acts as though its a restaurant/hotel. Has never offered to help with cleaning and will only cook if I start it and ask if she could help while I tend to 2 year old twins. She has no where else to go and my husband says that we would get more help from her if we don't get board but if she were living anywhere else she would have to help whilst paying board. We were away for a week and it happened to be the week she would pay the fortnight board and since we have been back she has not offered to pay up. I don't know how to confront this situation. When I was a girl I had to pay board and help about the house I don't see why she should do the same! Any ideas???

2007-06-09 23:32:54 · 7 answers · asked by mumof4boys 1

just wanna know the reaction my mom and dad might do if they would know that i do have a boyfriend...

2007-06-09 23:00:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

and it's been years. My two brothers gave up trying to make contact, but I'm the one who still always made the phone call at least on his b-day and father's day. The problem is, every time I call, he acts as if it's the big intrustion and he tries to rush me off the phone, he never asks me a single question and everything I ask him he responds with one word answers. He has not called me or my brothers in years. It is hurtful, it was a messy divorce, but that was between him and my mom. The thing is, it's gotten to be almost too painful for me to make those calls because he can be so mean. But I know that if I stop calling him, that's it. I will not talk to him ever again because he will never call me. I was thinking of writing a letter instead this year. What do you think? Should I write, call or let it go? Comments? Anyone been in a similar situation? It's been seriously stressing me out.

2007-06-09 21:19:00 · 17 answers · asked by ready4change 2

lately i observed me and my spouse get into an argument...and instead of ignoring the issue on the phone,she simply hangs up...without a word of will talk later or something like we'll see it later...she simply hangs up to show her anger/disagreement...and later doesnt even feel that she shunt have done that way....i know everyone has arguments but doest it mean you take your loved ones for granted....would she do that with her boss in office????or am i being too judgemental???is that she is unable to control her anger?? ..am i being too extra-ordinarily sensitive?? and should simply ignore her as imature???

2007-06-09 20:51:14 · 7 answers · asked by anand 4

my mom doesnt want me to live in utah, she says i have a bigger attitude when im out there. but, actually, im depressed and lonely out here.. out there im always on the go. and happy how should i tell my mom i dont want to live with her

2007-06-09 20:44:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 13 year old 7th grade girl. I've been going through puberty for about a year now. My little brother, who's 11 years old, we're pretty close siblings. Anyways, sometimes he likes to wear my underwear, particularly my bras and some panties. He says he finds it comfortable and does it for that reason and fun. I'm quite sure he isn't gay or coming to it either. I just wanted to know is it fairly common for boys at his age doing that sort of thing or is it like, one of those childhood innocence things? I hope I can get some parents and other girls around my age with little brothers around my brother's age to answer this please. Thank you. :]

2007-06-09 20:41:58 · 9 answers · asked by northern californian 2

My brother is allowed to have his girlfriend stay the night over at our house, but when I ask my mom if it's okay if my boyfriend stays the night she immediately says NO. It's really unfair. My dad says it's okay but my mom won't allow it. I need a way to persuade my mom into letting him stay the night. Any ideas??

Yes, my brother is older than me, but his girlfriend is about 3 months older than me. My mom said he can't stay over because "things" will happen. Okay first off I'm not a sslluutt. Second, I just want him over because I love being with him. And our curfew at night together is 12 and we always haaate saying goodbye to eachother so I figured, why say goodbye when we can fall asleep together? It's too soon into our relationship to be doing anything sexual. My boyfriend knows full well that I won't do anything with him.

2007-06-09 18:15:05 · 8 answers · asked by heyyy! 2

Well,I asked my parents to be a nudist and they said no,but I really want to be a nudist bad.

But I don't want to move or wait 2 more years to make it happen.

What do I to so I can be a Nudist here.

I live in Georgia.

And I want to be a Nudist full time everywhere I go.

Please and thank you for your answers.I need some serious help on this.

2007-06-09 18:09:34 · 11 answers · asked by jakedragonlives 2

my mom's getting depressed and i think its starting to get to me... im 14 years old. its summer.. i love 30 minutes away from all my friends so she doesnt want to take me anywhere. I feel like I cant do anything. I'm basically stuck. I'm at the mercy of my depressed mother. She doesn't have a husband but shes had 3. Her mother is 85 and just ends up making her mad by saying that she's sorry too much. I just don't know what to do. I guess this isn't so much of a question as it me wanting to know what they think about this.

2007-06-09 17:26:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother was so drunk tonight that my brother went out after drinking and got in a wreck. hes okay but i got out of the house too and staying at my bf's house(hes not here) and my mother said i could go cause she said i could and she also said i am not going to have money to go to college cause she is going to disenherit me. i do not know what to do i am trying to get a job and i am 2 years away from going to college. can i live with my bf's other? and get A LOAN?

2007-06-09 17:05:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so my niece graduated from high school a week ago. She has alredy left for college. She called me today to reveal that she got a tattoo. Her mother (my sister) is going to freak out. She doesn't want to tell her, so she told me only. I think I should tell her mother, but I don't want to break the trust between me and my niece. Her mother told her not to get one in the first place, she doesn't turn 18 until Nov., so her father took her to get it. What do I do? When my sister finds out, do I say I already knew or act as if it is news to me also??

2007-06-09 16:47:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says theres nothing he wants and that he has everything that he needs.. its hard to keep up with him and hes not really interested in much!

i have this problem every holiday and he doesnt need a new hat, wallet or clothes this time.. help??!!

2007-06-09 16:37:01 · 29 answers · asked by pezkandydoll 2

Okay, Like all my questions start, my fiance and I are expecting within the next week or so. Well, we have decided that no one be he will be in the delivery room. However, his mom seems damn determined to be in there, and I've already told her no once. Here's the problem, she's acting chipper about the birth and she hasn't been fighting me like an angry cat. I know this woman, she'd be throwing fit by fit right now if she knows there's no chance. Her daughter recently told me that not only was she planning no being in that room, she wanted to video tape everything and she wanted to take gross pics. I told her daughter right away that she wasn't going to be in that room and she's still acting chipper. I brought this up to my fiance and he doesn't want to talk about any of it, he keeps changing the subject and never gives me a straight answer and he still talks to his mom all nice. Im really getting the vibe that he's planning on letting her in that room without my say. Is he?

2007-06-09 15:49:41 · 7 answers · asked by matandmaegan0507 3

me and my sister are 6 years apart, and whatever we do, we jsut can't get along! Either I do something that makes her feel annoyed, or vice versa. How do I get along with her? I try holding my anger inside, but that makes me want to explode.

2007-06-09 15:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

IM 14 and my parents wont let me get a job. I really want one beacause I want to buy a new computer and they cant use their credit card cause their credit score sucks. I tried reasoning with them but thy are so closed-minded to letting me have one. Theyu say stuff like: "Your only 14 and you don't need to be working" when I make a valid point, they just say stuff like "Well it is a NO and thats final" I think that wanting a Job proves just how responsible I am, yet they act like If I actually started making money, It would be the end of the world. I tried taking online surveys but that doesnt earn much. I even started a pet-sitting buisiness and handed out like 100 flyers but no customers. I want to make the money, but I really want something more than lemonade stands and mowing lawns. I'm tired of people telling me about all these cliche ways to make cash in my situation. I need persausion tips. P.S. PLEASE!!!

2007-06-09 14:56:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

There Father is Ill heart problems and is to sick to take care of them. He has full custody but instead of offering to see if i wanted them put them in a foster home. the place is called Sunshine Acres. Please I'm desperate i want my babies with me their mother not in a foster home. Can some one point me to someone who can help me get them out of there.

2007-06-09 11:57:06 · 10 answers · asked by rikkilynnlove 1

I'm looking for my brother Eduardo Cornejo Montufar .

He's 17 years old.

His father's name is Ernesto Cornejo Gutierrez.

His mother's name is Deydalina Montufar Delgado.

If somebody knows him please wirte me to anais_cornejo94@yahoo.com.

Or if somebody knows about a page to find persons please tell me.

I knew that they live in California

2007-06-09 11:00:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anais 1

2007-06-09 10:52:17 · 7 answers · asked by wahshe 1

2007-06-09 10:30:07 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is 18 and I'm 14 and I personally think I'm mature enough, responsible enough, and ready to put the baby in front of our marriage and me (getting married when I turn 18..). I'm almost 15 on June 25, my boyfriend and me are NOT sexually active at the moment but, we are really considering it. Any advice on it would be great. Thanks.

2007-06-09 10:11:15 · 19 answers · asked by cootiesr4guys 2

My mom told me that I was not the kind of child she wanted me to be or to have. I am 36 years old and she suddenly said that to me who's been trying my whole life to please the parents and never blame them for not being the parents that I dreamed of. I am very depressed and shocked by her comments. Heartbroken actually. I always encourage her to live a life she likes and don't worry about us.

What should I do now? never contact her again and let anger eat me forever or what?

2007-06-09 09:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by sophie 1

My Cousine sister loves me so much, But how can i let her understand that is wrong, she needs to understand she is my sister. Plz help me what should i say to her..

2007-06-09 09:21:33 · 17 answers · asked by Aiman 2

my dad is 50 years old and he likes building things

2007-06-09 09:18:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i have told my son that his father was realy his uncle, my brother in law.he found out from his gran around the age of ten, who he lived with on and off throughout his life.when i was divorceing the man he thought was his father.he later ended up in jail on numerous occasions and has been married three times already hes now in his 40s,am i to blame?

2007-06-09 09:13:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous