My Cousine sister loves me so much, But how can i let her understand that is wrong, she needs to understand she is my sister. Plz help me what should i say to her..
2007-06-09 09:21:33 · 17 answers · asked by Aiman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Avoid being alone with her for the time being. There should be a chaperone to keep it safe. Talk to her let her know that it would be wrong to make love to her. Resist any attempts on her part to seduce you. You never know what could happen. She may get naked in wich case dont look or she may try to sweet talk you into bed in any case resist with all your will.
2007-06-09 09:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hear me man. Be in love of cousin is not wrong. In fact in very much cases fall in love between cousins can be very constructive If the relation is honest and warm. Obiously is not a kind of love that you can continue to get married. I repeat Obiously NOT. - But I can share my experience about this subjet: When I was 16 I had a courtship of more than 1 and half year with my Cousine (Brenda) wich She had 28, at these moment. We had amazings intimate conversations, we made stronger and more committed to our familiar relationship. We had memorable mornings, afternoons or evenings (as appropriate) of loving sex. It was really a very positive experiences and learning.
If you both like, that relationship she's asking you is possible. And you should not pass up the opportunity to affort it. And affort her. (BUT IF THEIR FAMILIES HAVE PREJUDICES ABOUT SUCH RELATIONSHIP, THEN DO THIS IN SECRET LIKE ME AND MY CUSINE) ¿OK? ;)
I hope I have helped. ;)
2014-11-28 00:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by Agustín 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand.....is she your sister or your cousin? If she's your sister well that is just very wrong and you need to explain that to her. If she's your cousin then that's not 'wrong' but if you don't like her then just explain to her that you are not attracted to her.
2007-06-09 09:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by don't stop the music ♪ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, in a nice way, that although you love her very much, it's not in the way she wants. Tell her you love her as your sister, and that anything else won't work. Explain to her that she will find someone special one day!
2007-06-09 09:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that their are different ways to have love for people. Tell her that this love is wrong!
2007-06-09 09:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cousins sister is also your cousin and many cousins in the bible married.If you just arent attracted to her like that tell her.
2007-06-09 09:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what, you can marry her. She can not marry you if you are her real brother. Ask your religious scholars by telling everything about this situation. I think there are few more point you have not mentioned here.
2007-06-09 11:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by yousufsons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First what is a cousine? if you mean cousin well her sister is your cousin too!!! what do you mean chickie?
2007-06-13 05:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by caroline c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her
its against what God wants.
its illegal.
its morally and ethically wrong.
good luck with that one.
2007-06-09 09:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by unpredictable. 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
how old is she? sounds like shes younger and dont know any better you should the responsible adult
2007-06-09 09:26:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋