My sister is almost 16 years old, but she's gone out with friends and pretty much spends her night drinking. They stay in and just have fun, I've realized that, but she just told me "I like the way it feels, how it makes you feel good" and that got me very scared; we have alcoholism in our family, and this is something that I'm afraid will turn into something that can hurt her. I don't know if I'm reading too into this, but I'm not exactly her favorite person in the world right now (no other reason other than I'm her sister, and she thinks I'll tell), advice?
2007-06-11 07:52:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to say something to your parents about what she is doing. I knew that my 17 year old cousin was drinking and I didn't say anything to anyone and my cousin ended up stealing my grandma's car, totaling it, all while she was drunk. I think that if I would have said something to someone then my cousin wouldn't have had done what she did. Right now I wouldn't care if she is going to get mad at you, say something now. If you say something maybe she can get the help that she needs and her drinking will stop. Good Luck and I hope this helps.
2007-06-11 07:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jaime A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie, when your 16 or almost 16 you never like your siblings. So it isn't just you, it is the fact you can and need to tell. All kids sneak and drink, (most) but there is a difference when it goes on that much and is about to crumble. Maybe you can tell your mom and have your mom keep an eye open and just confront her, you mom doesn't have to tell you told. She can catch her and straight up confront the issue with her. I would never tell my one daughter that the other snitched her off. I always waited for the perfect chance and did it as if I just knew on my own. And if it is this bad at 16........what will happen by 18? I never recommend to tell on anyone...but this is a time that I think needs to have an adult intervene. Best of luck darlin
2007-06-11 08:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by jungljn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are.
This is one time where telling is not "snitching." Your sister is both under age (in the US) and playing some really dangerous games.
See, when you're drunk or stoned, you don't really have control over the situation - and you can wind up doing things you wouldn't ordinarily do if you were sober - like having unprotected sex. And you can overdo the alcohol and drugs which can be lethal.
So, it doesn't matter if she hates you for telling your folks - tell them. It may just keep her alive.
No, telling your folks about this kind of behavior isn't snitching. Tell them.
2007-06-11 08:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's 16 and is bound to want to let her hair down and rebel (drinking is usually a pretty accessible option). she's also very unlikely to appreciate any input from you on the subject (not meaning to sound harsh) especially if the 2 of you are not getting along well at present. i wouldn't worry at this stage, she's just having some fun. the time to worry would be if she starts drinking alone.
2007-06-11 08:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by Madame Ree Sauce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell. if there is alcoholism in the family, then just having fun could turn into something serious. i know she might be mad at you, but keeping her safe is more important. If something happened to her would you be able to live with yourself. maybe don't tell your mom or dad right away, just talk to someone who would know what to do first.
2007-06-11 08:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents let them handle it. Also u can aways ask a police officer for advice.
2007-06-11 08:19:35 · answer #6 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋