Family & Relationships - 24 December 2007

I have a boy friend that did something in the past that got my ex-baby daddy trying to take full custody of my son, and I went to get a lawyer and told my lawyer a lie saying he is not with me and my ex- baby daddy didn't have proof and he drop the charge. please tell me how to deal wit this.

2007-12-24 14:20:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yup, the question is basicly wat i would like to know, so girls just tell me wat do u to to get over some1, like if u wont be seeing them anymore but u cant get them out of ur mind??
thanx!!

2007-12-24 14:19:33 · 9 answers · asked by Italyfan 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm newly divorced but occaisionally engage in "ex-sex". my mother always finds out when he's spent the night (we live in a small town) and insists on trying to send me on a guilt trip.

i'm in no way attatched to this man other than friends with benefits now, but don't feel that i need to explain myself to her.

2007-12-24 14:18:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with the best person I have ever met since high school. We have dated for five years. I went off to univeristy while she stayed home and went to a local school. To make a long story short she has put up with a long distance relationship for three years while I have been in schoo. I have now been accepted to med school another for years. Is it fair on her to make her stay with me until I graduate. I feel this is somthing that i have do (go 2 med school). But i dont feel like she should have to wait for me. I love her sooo much. help. is what am i doing wrong? she will support me but is it right ?

2007-12-24 14:13:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known this girl since I was around 10 we hung out every day her brother was 20 years old and I thought he was real cute, it was just a little crush. well He found me over myspace today and we talked. im 18 years old now. Hes 28. It was our first real conversation ever, when I was little he would always play around with me throw me over his shoulder and spin me around, stuff like that. Now hes saying maybe we should hang out some time.. He has 3 kids Been married once but he got married when he was 17 because he had his first son at 16. would this be weird to you knowing he watched you grow up??

2007-12-24 14:11:44 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel that marriages don't work today, because people who have NOTHING in common, seem to think that EVERYTHING will fall into place once they become legal. It used to be that you married someone down the block, childhood sweetheart, someone you grew up with. Now adays, people meet someone from another country on the net and they are on a plane tomorrow. And it is sooo easy to get a divorce these days! All you have to say anymore is I don't love you anymore, I don't think I ever did... Whatever happened to finding your soul mate? Remember when Irreconsilable Diffrences didn't even make sense??

For those of you who love being married right after a divorce... Did you find that you actually changed your way of thinking and married a 'better' choice this third or fourth time?

2007-12-24 14:05:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I noticed this year was just not as romantic as years past. There seems to be a little less passion and a decline in affection. My wife brought it to my attention and I'm starting to think that maybe she's on to something. What's the best way to rekindle the fire?

2007-12-24 14:04:47 · 6 answers · asked by trey6z 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay i am 16 yrs old and i have a bunch of amazing friends and family. i luv to spend time with my friends. i work almost full time and my mom is tellin me that i cant be friends with them cuz they do bad things supposefully. I cant stay at ne ones house or hang out with ne of my friends any more just cuz of 1 nite when i didnt come home till 3 in the morning. i can stay at families house but not any of my friends house. i am really upset and just dont wanna be here and have to deal with this anymore. i want to live my life how i wanna live it. my parents just dont understand and its making me drift away from them. and do stuff behind their backs. they are taking my life away from me. i need them to no how i feel about this but i just dont know what to say. i want to live my life not have other ppl live it for me. i can only live my life once and they just dont understand. what should i do. plz help

2007-12-24 14:02:53 · 12 answers · asked by sweet_lil_princess200110 1 in Friends

2007-12-24 14:00:42 · 10 answers · asked by the insider 6 in Weddings

honestly, i end up kissing people i dont like at all.
i wish i didnt have to kiss anyone
but then at midnight all the couples are kissing
so i end up grabbing some random guy
is it too much pressure for youu?
whats something unexpected i can do on midnight
instead of kissing?

2007-12-24 13:59:10 · 8 answers · asked by shakedown* 2 in Singles & Dating

i dont know wat he wants..sometimes it feels like he wants me and sometimes he just ignores me like im some piece of ****.
his gf answered his fone and asked me to back off coz he said he doesnt have any friends that are girls..and he called back a minute later sayin dont worry abt it..she was just mucking around..
b4 all these he started to send me sexy txt msgs.. and asked me to strip for him on webcam. i refused to do fully but agreed for a boob flash.. that done and gone- and forgotten. sometimes he dosnt reply my txt for days..i have asked him out twice in 3 yrs and he just refuses...yet we are just friends according to him..i dont know how to ask him again..wat are we... i dont even know myself..wat kind of relationship is this.?? he wants me to listen to him and be honest wid him bcoz he says so..!all bcoz im his "friend"
seriously do friends go that far? and be nothing to each other?
im here spending my days and nights thinkin abt him..and he just lives on..wat shud i do?

2007-12-24 13:58:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any ideas on how he should give it to her instead of just wrapping it and letting her open it?

2007-12-24 13:58:23 · 5 answers · asked by Lindsey H 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl I know told me during a conversation that I had an obnoxious friend. She had only met him once and everyone was drinking heavy. I started playing around with her and said then that means that I am also obnoxious then. She then said sometimes but not in a bad way but in a cute way. So I started playing with her mind telling her that I didn't know that I was that bad of a person. She started to get sad and told me to shut up because I am taking it the wrong way. What I want to know is is there such a thing as not a bad obnoxious. I always thought that obnoxious was a bad thing.

2007-12-24 13:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by myfav1 5 in Singles & Dating

im 16 and have not gotten mine.....

2007-12-24 13:57:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a girlfriend and she thinks that i am cool, but she doesnt no that my Ex-girlfriend moving back in to town. I have bein with my current giflfriend for about 4 months and was with my Ex-girlfriend for a year and i still have feelings for her. WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

2007-12-24 13:56:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mine would be when I listened to Darkside of the Moon while on shrooms. That was unbelievable. DRUGS ARE BAD....do not try, but if you have, please share.

2007-12-24 13:53:22 · 1 answers · asked by kris10dice 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you do if you were getting married to the love of your life and his/her mother said I object when the preacher said "If anyone should object speak now or forever hold your peace"? I'm 16 years old and have been off and on with my potential husband for almost a yr. and ½ now and it's really serious. We've talked about getting married in the past and we still talk about it from time to time but of course we weren't planning on getting married for another 6-8 years or so. I had a falling out with his mother... It's a really long story. Anyway, he told me that his mother would object at our wedding if we had one. Is there any way for me to prevent this? I really don't want this to happen and it's something that's really bothering me. She's the kind of woman who is set in her ways, even though I'm young and have room for improvement. What should I do?

2007-12-24 13:51:17 · 12 answers · asked by pinkythediamond 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He belches, farts, makes fun of the music artists I like and numerous other things that he knows offends me because I've told him it makes me uncomfy. He does this for attention and then grins once I give him a reaction. Isn't that childish? How he enjoys getting my goat is absurd at his age (56), right? What do you think because I'm apparently the only one who thinks so in my family.

Thanks guys.

2007-12-24 13:49:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i've been caught doing a couple dumb things in the past few months, and their trust for me isnt so great anymore
whats a good way to convince my mom and dad to let me go out?

2007-12-24 13:46:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am divorced and pay my ex wife support for our three chldren. I understand that the amount I pay is strictly a calculation of percentage of my income, but my question is what if I remarry? I have been told that my future wife's income could be counted in with my own, therefore forcing me to pay more. That doest seem right to me, because my children are not my future wifes. Why should she be forced to pay for them too? I would think that it would be based on just my own income, but I don't knnow for sure. Does anyone know what the new york state laws are for this?

2007-12-24 13:46:33 · 4 answers · asked by jb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or sex cause it seems like sex is all they want.

2007-12-24 13:43:09 · 10 answers · asked by eX0tic 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you date or marry a man/woman that is an adult thumb sucker? Why or why not?

2007-12-24 13:42:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should i braek up, if alot of the sexual stuff i want, seems to be a problem. If i do get the stuff, i dont feel right, knowing she wasnt necessarily the most willing and it bothers me. This has been a long and reoccuring problem. There are other problems, but this is the latest and most fresh on my mind...

2007-12-24 13:42:28 · 10 answers · asked by YahooAnswersFutureAllstar 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife left over a year ago and left a lot of her belongings. she made no effort to get them. do i have a legal right to sell them?

2007-12-24 13:42:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

things suck at home...both parents are abusive and i cant take it anymore and the other day i kind of broke down in the cps office and told them briefly that my dad had smacked me around and that he had done something sexual to me and i lied for mom i said things were ok with us because the walls were paper thin and i heard her earlier tell about the only incident when i became the abuser but not for long and i just cant be here anymore after mom and i came home from cps she yelled at me about it and smacked me and stabbed my wrist with a fork (no veins hit but it was bleeding) anyways i need to leave this house but most ways of getting out involve her knowing...is there a way i could leave without her knowing???....any ideas??...even maybe some message of hope would be greatly appreciated

2007-12-24 13:41:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is sex more an act of love to u?..
or lust?

2007-12-24 13:36:16 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 13:34:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-24 13:33:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend's husband is deployed. He hired somebody to spy on her activities while he is away.

2007-12-24 13:31:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Should i just move on/ supress my feelings for this girl?
Her parents are way overprotective, to the point that her mom doesnt even like her talking to boys...Shes 18, for crying out loud! I really care about her, and when her parents arent around, we talk a lot, she looks/ smiles at me, we pick on each other, etc.. but when they're around, she'll barely talk to me, say like one thing, smile, and leave.. mostly this happens at church, and i cant really do much to make her stay/talk... She seems afraid of parental judgement, right? The times they're not around are great, because i can talk/hang out with her freely, and i really get to know her those times..thing is, those times are pretty rare, and few/far between. I'm about to give up, even though i like her a LOT. I start at her college in January...should i wait it out til then, or move on, even though thats the last thing i want to do..the fact that she doesnt (cant?) really converse a lot with me at church really just eats me up...

2007-12-24 13:31:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating