Family & Relationships - 24 December 2007

2007-12-24 13:29:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a situation in which I became close friends with a girl I worked with. We still are very good friends. I didn't have romantic interest in her at first, but then those feelings started to grow and now I want to be with her. We talk to each other a lot, but I think she only thinks of me as a friend. I couldn't make my intentions clear at first because I simply did not feel that way about her until almost a year ago. I still have not told her how I felt, and I don't know if I should. I think she will reject me and it will be so humiliating and I'll end up losing a friend as well. I think this always happens to guys who have female friends and then they feel something more. The guy simply cannot move the friendship into a relationship because the girl won't let it happen. Isn't this true for the most part?

2007-12-24 13:25:17 · 11 answers · asked by iridealone 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 13:23:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am legally seperated from my husband, but we still live in teh same home he wants a friendship with all the benefits of a marriage. I am not allowing this to happen. I work at a fancy hotel and there is a fellow employee who has struck intrest in me he is not my type at all and I know all he wants is a sexual relationship he seems like that type. He is all wrong for me he drinks, smokes, hairy chest just the complete opposite of my type, but I find him so intresting I can't help to smile when ever he is around we joke and kid all the time the thing is he still in a bad marriage I'm seperated but he still living in the home is it wrong for me to persue this? Or is it just rebond and if so I don't want either one of us getting hurt.

2007-12-24 13:21:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well I was going out with this guy for a couple of weeks but then I asked him if he liked me-he said he really likes me just can't commit right now because he's too stressed with uni & needs to finish the semester coming up before making commitments & he's sorry its his fault. We used to spend all our time together in the period of a few weeks

When I was talking to him he asked what I was up to n I said nothing and he said what would you rather be doing?...
i replied something bout going out but can't cos have to work th next day. I asked him what would he rather be doing, he said
'driving back to my mansion to my gorgeous naked girlfriend.' What do you think he expected me to say or feel?

He knows I like him and we spent every minute with eachother before he asked me out, we knew eachother 1 1/2 yrs before but not really well. He hasn't had a relationship longer than 2 months-he said he got bored & slept with 1 girl-he's 22

2007-12-24 13:21:04 · 1 answers · asked by Some random girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What exactly do you do when you have never been married & your family is all dead and you sooner or later might get sick & have to go to a hospital. Might even be for regular test at certain ages. Just routine stuff. Who takes you to the hospital & stays with you & takes you home? Who stays with you for a couple days until the drugs wear off? My cousin who is from out of town is in the same situation & we were talking about it He owns a Radio Station & I have Rental property, so don't say that we should live together. That is out of the question. What do older single people do that do not have anybody & the time comes for help? Neither of us has any close friends or neighbors. Friends are gone too & others too busy.

2007-12-24 13:14:03 · 4 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Singles & Dating

Plus, you are from different social groups and people would criticize it? Do you feel like you are pushing someone away when you want to be with them? Have you ever rejected somebody who you cared about because you felt you would be criticized for it?

2007-12-24 13:09:50 · 20 answers · asked by person 1 in Singles & Dating

I just hurd that it is against the law for a married person to have sex with anyone that is not thier husbund. We have been split up for about a year now and we are both seeing and sleeping with other ppl. The only reason we have not got the divorce yet is cause of the money, Does that mean it is against the law to sleep with other ppl???

2007-12-24 13:07:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Are you the giver? Are you the taker?

Are you a giver to some and a taker from others who give to you?

Are all your relationships equal (not exactly 50/50, but balanced) and reciprocating in nature?

2007-12-24 13:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by Xanadu 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know if it was truly love, but it felt like it. We ended up breaking it off and it still hurts to this day. What did you do?

2007-12-24 13:02:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

dance with others and I did, while my husband is deployed.
I danced with a guy, and hes angry that its technically infidelity -- since we had a pact.

"the infidelity is you took somethign that was special to me (sexually or emotionally) and gave it to someone else.
I thought we had a special relationship and you contaminated it, it doesnt feel special anymore.
you shared something very precious to me with another"

Is this grounds for a legal divorce.
Since we did have a pact not to do anything with anyone while separated?

2007-12-24 12:59:32 · 12 answers · asked by Back on the market 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay well i know this guy.. And i really like him.. He likes me too..But hes 23... I know it sounds so SO wrong but it feels really right.. Hes so lovley and hes not a pervert atall.. We kinda talked about us. And were not gunna do anything about it till im 16.. Hes not tryna get me into anything.. But like.. What are the laws like.. Can we be together when im 14 aslong as we dont have sex? And do you think its really that wrong?

2007-12-24 12:57:17 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seriously do you think most girls just want guys for the money?, is that how almost every single male out there who gets a girlfriend so easily because he has money with him all the time?, and I'm not talking about prostitutes, they don't count for me. When I mean girls I mean the attractive, cute ones, average and above. Is that how most guys out there attract girls?, just because they are loaded with money?, it sure seems like society is like that today.

2007-12-24 12:55:18 · 14 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Singles & Dating

i want to know wat we should do

2007-12-24 12:54:58 · 15 answers · asked by kcris91 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents and sister often dance in public and in the car when we're going places. How can I stop them dancing because im really getting p*ssed off by it?

2007-12-24 12:54:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm in the 8th grade and this girl told me she liked me. But two days later she tells me that she had a feeling that she liked me but then didn't like me. She is my friends sister. Does that mean she likes me but doesn't want to risk her brother, my friend, finding out? Or does she just have mixed emotions?

2007-12-24 12:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by weirdman22 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex called to wish me a happy birthday a little bit ago and also a merry christmas. He was really sincere and even asked me how I was doing. It was nice until he said that whenever I get bored or want to talk, to just call him. Should I call him back? Now he was really nice but I have no idea if he wants me to call him or not. Lately, hes been giving me mixed signals like asking my friends about me and even asking jokingly if I've replaced him with someone else. Could someone maybe clear this up. I want to be friends with him again, but I am not sure if I should?

2007-12-24 12:51:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked him if I could go see my childhood friend, and he is just a friend, and a very good one, just to say hello and say Merry Christmas to his parents too. I have known my friend for 28 years. Because he is a guy, he said "Go ahead, I will go see my ex-wife". I was not only dumbfounded, but a bit hurt. I wanted to surprise my friend, who is spending Christmas Eve with mom & dad and nobody else. What would you folks have done? I told him to go ahead and see his ex, I could care less if he re-kindled an old flame with her. It is Christmas Eve and it is supposed to be joyous, and he totally ruined it for me, not to mention, my surprise to my friend. Please no ridicule, it's Christmas.

2007-12-24 12:50:06 · 27 answers · asked by maddiekaykay 3 in Marriage & Divorce

(not just for me, but for everyone involved-trust me, it's for the best!!!)

"Please, Lord, may Mitt leave Pauline to be with BB."

I would really appreciate you all praying this at least once...

2007-12-24 12:46:40 · 4 answers · asked by Thursday 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I have been talking to a married man for a month now but we stopped talking for awhile when his wife started suspecting it. I know its wrong so please dont say well what would you do if you were his wife? I KNOW how it feels!! Anyway. I didnt think he would talk to me again but then a few days ago, he started talking to me again and some things happened between us like messing around a little. Well him and his wife are both off work until Jan. 3 or 4th for the holidays and he told me not to text him through the weeks b/c he will be around his wife most likely and he don't want her to find out. Well he told me that he wanted to bang me but to wait a little bit. Ok so he told me not to text him and all that. I know this will be when HE wants to and when HE has the time for me. My question is.... DO YOU THINK HE WILL EVENTUALLY ASK ME TO GO ALL THE WAY W/HIM?? Thats my question.... please tell me what you think and when he will ask me? Thanks!

2007-12-24 12:44:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hes in Iraq right now.
And me and my girlfriends went out, and his sister saw me dancing with another guy.

He DID tell me if I didnt want him to dance with anyone then I cant dance with anyone through our marriage.

But its just dancing.

He says he wants to leave me now, and he says it was because of infidelity.

We live in georgia -- can he actually use this against me?
It was just dancing.

2007-12-24 12:43:54 · 14 answers · asked by Back on the market 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother married a lovely women last year, he made a very nice choice, but I am not sure if his wife made the right choice. Samil ( my brother) is very irrepsonisble, does not have a job that could really support a famly, but his wife is a lawyer so I guess that holds them sturdy. But she seems so nice, and I feel bad for her, my brother is an ok guy, I love him of course, but would have never chosen him for a partner in life. I can tell he will not help Stephanie ( his wife) she will end up doing all the work around the house, and it just looks like a sad life ahead for steph. They seem so happy together, I wouldn't want to ruin anything for them, but I just worry. And thats only have of the problem. 3 days ago, Steph was pronounced preganant! I am certain Samil is not ready for a child, he can barely take care of himself, let alone a child! He acts horrible around my kids and my kids, I can't picture himb being a good father! I am happy for them, and he seemed happy on the phone ..

2007-12-24 12:41:18 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been dating this guy for 4 months. We knew each other for two before that.
The problem is he is a control freak. If I'm not available whenever he wants me to be he whines and says how it takes a toll on him mentally. But when I've been gone, I let him know that it's when I'm sick or with family.

Meanwhile, he is busy all the time with his family and work, which I don't complain about.

Recently I wrote him an email which stated that I feel he is taking me for granted until basically something better comes along. He agreed my assessment to be 'true' but didn't say anything else and expects us to continue along like everything's normal.

Meanwhile, he feels like he can come over whenever he wants without calling yet I can't do the same because of his 'privacy' issues. He is paranoid that I am seeing someone else and not 'satisfied' (I have never expressed or felt this) but yet he's the one who's always looking!

How do I break up with this guy without more emotional blackmail?

2007-12-24 12:34:20 · 3 answers · asked by bluflaym 2 in Singles & Dating

and if so , how much sex

2007-12-24 12:31:41 · 19 answers · asked by Paul C 2 in Singles & Dating

i broke up with him because he was mean to me. 2day he left a gift for me at my house and he just called me telling me happy xmas and asking me if i like the gift (which i am NOT going to open, i was planning on returning it) and then he went on talking about how he loves me still and how he wants to be with me again and how he will change and all that stuff. well anyways i do miss him alot and i do still love him but idk if we should get back together, he was crying on the phone telling me how he wants to be back with me and how he is sorry. should i forgive him? we were together for 2.5 years, what should i do? because i still do love him alot

i broke up with him because he hit me

2007-12-24 12:27:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 12:27:32 · 11 answers · asked by Me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-24 12:26:00 · 14 answers · asked by peanuts for the lady 1 in Singles & Dating

I live with my boyfriend.... we are not engaged. He's said if I want a diamond I'm gonna have to buy it myself. So I told him me living there as a room- mate is fine with me.

His kids come over every weekend. Lately he's been getting mad when I leave on Sundays to go visit my family.
He says there's alot of work to be done around the house.. mostly laundry, cooking and entertaining while the kids are there.... and he needs help.

I work six days a week teaching and I like to get away from kids on my only day off during the week... besides, we agreed to a "room - mate level" relationship.

Why is he angry about this?

2007-12-24 12:21:35 · 19 answers · asked by Kaybee 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 12:20:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You all knew this was comming....How long, if at all, can u go without doing the deed....

2007-12-24 12:17:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce