Family & Relationships - 24 December 2007

cause if not ill happily tell you....so many women seem really uneducated in this area...

2007-12-24 19:28:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been having problems and we had a breakup this holiday season like 3 days before christmas. I am really close with his family, infact closer with them that my own so i spent some time with them this christmas eve when he wasnt around and now i feel like i have lost them, lost him, my own parents told me to stay at a freakin womens shelter tonight (my parents suck) and I feel so alone. we shared a car which he took, i have no money and no job because it is seasonal. this is the most upsetting thing ever. i am all alone in our apartment that we shared by myself on christmas eve, alone and sad and wondering what the heck happened and most importanly what is my next move because right now I don't seem to have any options. Is there anyone out there in this big world that has any advice???

2007-12-24 19:26:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A friend of mine is going through some issues. She has been with her man for 3 years, and they have a 1.5 y/o son. They are not married but live together. He doesn't show her affection and attention. He was the complete opposite in the 1st year. He gets along great with his son but shows no emotion towards her woman. I know he loves her, but he has this street mentality which makes him act cold hearted. She tells me that they hardly do things together, and they don't really communicate much. If she didn't initiate the conversations, he would hardly speak. I know some guys have affection issues but this is ridiculous. She recently broke down crying and told me and her other friend about what is truly going on. She has heart to heart talks with him and he changes for a month or so.. then he goes back to his old ways. She says that if it wasn't for her son, she would leave him. She would rather remain unhappy and stay with him to avod hurting her child. I feel bad for her. Any advice?

2007-12-24 19:25:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

dirtiest, nastiest, filthiest,bad things you can do in sex.
My gf likes it dirty, but im cant think of much...lol

2007-12-24 19:24:54 · 4 answers · asked by Whippy W 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy (#1) last month , he seems really nice and everything. We spent a few hours together, I loved talking to him and kind of fell for him. Problem is, he's married. I don't know why but I'm so attracted to married men, I can't help it. So yeah, that was the first and last time I see him. Recently I like this other guy (#2) who's working in a seasonal position (I wont' see him again =( since Christmas season is over ) who looks like guy #1 but I missed my chance to get to know him and it hurts knowing I don't get to see him anymore. I know I usually dont' go for these type of guys but just because of guy #1.... How do I get over him and try not to find replacements of him?

Thanks...

2007-12-24 19:23:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I have this ex-boyfriend and the two of us are still in love with eachother. We can't be together because we live too far apart and neither of us can handle the long distance thing. But, we still talk a lot and get together to hang out (sometimes have sex, but not always). We have spoken a lot about our past and future relationship and we both totally agree that we can't be bf/gf and things are way better the way they are right now. The thing is, my friends and family all hate his guts because he text dumped me and hurt me pretty bad and they get extremely pissed off at me when I go to see him or have him come see me. They tell me that I am wasting my time with trailer trash. I was supposed to go see him on the 20th and everybody ganged up and had an "intervention" about it and kept me from going. I think it's crazy to try to control who I see and what I do. How do I get them to stop worrying and let me make my own decisions?

2007-12-24 19:23:23 · 3 answers · asked by slipknots love slave 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married very soon. We have not "officially" set the date yet..but it will be within six months. I love my fiance VERY much..i love his mom and dad (even though they can be a pain) and his sister is great..most of the time..but sometimes she gets on my nerves. Little things that go along with planning a wedding she is driving me insane about..like i want to wear a tiara..she exclamed "you can NOT wear a tiara...you are not a queen or something.." and i HATE and i mean WITH PASSION i HAAATE white tuxs..and she is insisting (and trying to bring her mom my mom and my fiance into the argument) that he HAS to wear a white tux. Anyways..what do i do? we USED to get along great..she was one of my best friends..and now all the sudden she is acting SO childish and is becomeing a control freak.

2007-12-24 19:19:53 · 20 answers · asked by Blah:Blah:Blah 1 in Weddings

I know some men stray because there are things an outside woman will do that the wife supposedly won't. I want to coerce him to tell me
what he likes/wants no matter how strange, without coming off as corny or have bad timing. Any suggestions?

2007-12-24 19:16:46 · 5 answers · asked by charmed 4 in Marriage & Divorce

How should i confront a toxic friend.

2007-12-24 19:16:25 · 11 answers · asked by Vince J 2 in Friends

Man this year has been the absolute worst. First of all, I was stalked in January by a mentally messed up individual, then i bought a hewlett packard comptuer that i had to get serviced three or four times. Then, i ending up spending my savings i saved up for a car and to move. Then, w ent for a job interview and didn't get it. Still unemployed. Then finally met a man and his jealous friends ruined that . Then in September someone started nasty rumors about me. Then Match.com took my money. Nobody was even reading my flirts. Then i was almost run over by a car three times. Then my hair fell out. Then all of a sudden my furniture started falling apart. Then the big cake came the day before Thanksgiving. I found out there was a whole in my floor. Then most of my Christmas lites blew out Christmas Eve only had a few lights on the tree. Man im tired of this S-H-I-T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-24 19:16:16 · 5 answers · asked by Tasha C 3 in Singles & Dating

well me and my girl have been going out for a yr and i luv her 2 death and she knows that.. but latetly the past week or so shes been acting strange lately.. well heres the story we both work together but go to different high schools.. ok.. she told me theres this girl at her school that likes her and wants 2 go out with her (my gf friend) ok, my girl told me straight up she wasnt Bi.. ok.. well y is that lately on the day i dont c her i call her and she doesnt answer and when she does we talk for 20-30 mins and then she tells me she'll call me back and she never does.. or y is it that when we work when we get a brake together she calls her friend instead of us talking.. or lately she text so much (and yea with her friend) and also i bought her two necklaces and she dont wear them but she wears a necklace that her friend gave her... and she says she aint Bi?? so basically in a way she dedicates more time 2 her friend that likes her..

2007-12-24 19:15:34 · 9 answers · asked by Eduardo 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, i had this really cool best friend, and i dated this one really neat girl. but things got awry because this other random guy liked her and just... stuff happened. it wasnt her fault, and we stayed close friends. neways, my best friend began to like her and then he started teasing around with me saying he wanted to date her and bros before hoes all that stuff. I trusted him deeply, and jus let it pass by. But now, he became overprotective over his gf, and gets really angry whenever italk to her, which is nowadays close to never because we got farther apart, mainly cus of my "friend". She secretly complains to me about his demandingness, and when i seriuosly talked to my friend about it he thought i was paranoid and being an asshole and accused ME of liking his gf and being a bad friend.

what to do.

2007-12-24 19:13:15 · 6 answers · asked by Champ 2 in Singles & Dating

They are just being too horrible. I'm glad to finally move out. But the problem is... how will I be able to fund for college? I'm down with the community colleges... but what should I be aware of as an independent? Taxes, insurance, sss, apt... and all that? How do I go about it?

Right now for housing, I'll stay with a friend of mine for a couple of mos until I can be more financially stable. Or I can just rent out a bed-spacer which is like 250$/mos [bed-spacer is a space,room, or bed you rent at someone's house].

For job, I'm a sales clerk at Forever 21 and Barnes&Noble. So far my average salary per week is 240-270$/wk. But if I'm going to attend night classes/college classes I'd be down at 140$/wk.

For transportation -- I have my bike? XD

I'm barely getting out of high school with a 3.8 GPA. Also, do you think it's a good idea for me to live with my bf?

2007-12-24 19:09:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if so, how? and keep in mind, the love is still there ...

2007-12-24 19:08:34 · 24 answers · asked by nicky 1 in Singles & Dating

My so called "best frend" made my sister nd her frends get into a fite, started swearing at my frend, nd sed bad things bout me jus coz shes jealous of the guy im with but evrytime i get mad at her she makes me feel sorry for her nd stuff. or she makes her ex go all against me nd he starts saying bad bout me nd stuff
shuld i still be her frend?

2007-12-24 19:05:58 · 10 answers · asked by Ctrl. Alt. TheBeat. 2 in Friends

This question is specifically for guys ok!..But you can still answer it.

2007-12-24 19:04:23 · 18 answers · asked by fatima 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 19:03:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Its christmas and we are all sittin here opening presents and he walks in and just sits down and acts like he belongs here! let me mention that she just started datin him like a week ago and none of us have met him! and she aint even fully divorced yet from her husband! Am i wrong for feeling this hate for him or do i have a right to be mad cuz i told her that if he didnt leave i was gonna go home and of course she let him stay!! Am i wrong or what? and how do i get rid of him cuz she knows how i feel!??

2007-12-24 19:01:06 · 26 answers · asked by kaykay69_2002 2 in Family

i like video games...i play and like sports but am so far from beign a tomboy....is this a turn off?

2007-12-24 18:59:52 · 21 answers · asked by misskris 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay I used to dress like a thug with all that gay paht farm, and roca wear because I liked their fashions ans style...but lately i feel alot of girlsreally don't like the gangster image even though i don't smoke or blaze. There is this girl and I really, really want her but I want to change myself not just for her, but a lttile personally from the thugish ways. Is it bad if I try to change just to make her think that I am alike her and stuff...you know what i mean ?

2007-12-24 18:58:39 · 23 answers · asked by Vince P. 2 in Singles & Dating

i met this girl at a party about 4-5 weeks ago and then we were in touch through facebook and she gave me her number and we were so close to go on a date but everything changed...we stopped talking for no reason and then once on msn she said im sorry that i didnt call u or sent u anything cuz i was busy and bluh bluh and i said it's alright and then we talked a bit and she said g2g ill talk to you later thu bye ..we never talked after this.... lol i kindda miss her so i thought i would send her a facebook gift for christmas to just make her happy...do u think that would be ok ? or lame and creepy ?? she is special to me !!! im 19 and she is 17...it would be a gift and that's it !!! i just wanna be nice !

2007-12-24 18:57:56 · 25 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

ok well i have this friend but i dont really know him tht well! hes really anti social and has friends and doesnt talk to his family.
i offered to be his friend yesterday and since yesterday hes become really obsessive! i dont wanna tick him off either! so what do i do?

2007-12-24 18:57:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My nephew recently got kicked out of his home by his parents because they found out that he robbed a house and is doing drugs. He dropped out of school and he came to me for help. He used to be a good kid and I think he's just hanging out with the wrong crowd and that's why he started getting into trouble. I want to let him stay with me in my apartment but I'm afraid of what he might do to me. So far he's been nice and I really don't think he would hurt me, but sometimes I get scared of him. I really feel sorry for him cause our family has abandoned him. I think he really needs someone right now to help him get straight again. He's been sleeping in his friend's car. What should I do?

2007-12-24 18:56:13 · 7 answers · asked by HAPPY FEET 3 in Family

I'm 28 years old & I've notice that some people don't like others(which is natural). But it hatred is VERY high with females.

I see it all the time, Like if female #1 walks into a store or something & accidentally bumps into female #2...#1 says "sorry"...as soon as #1 walks away & is far enough, here comes #2 talking junk about her & don't even know her saying.."She better watch where she going..stupid bit-h!"

And it get even worst with friends & family...females are all friendly to each other once they meet..as soon as one of them walks away they start talking crap about them like...."She thinks she all that & can do whatever she wants..dumb s-ut!"

Males hate males but there's VERY GOOD reasons we do...it could be because one stole from the other..or one cheated with the other's girlfriend..or he's annoying & likes to hang around you all the time.

Females it might be because the other female is trying to look cute, OR she's representing females in a bad fashion.

2007-12-24 18:54:40 · 4 answers · asked by Jay B 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad is a great dad, and always does what is the best choice for the family at the time.
But, ever since I was little, sometimes my dad would get really upset over nothing, and throw things. It makes me so angry and upset at him, at how he can lose his temper over nothing, and flip out at me.
Like, today, he freaked out since I didn't hear the phone ringing (I was blow-drying my hair), and he was playing his XBox360. So, he took one of the phones and threw it into my room, smashing it instantly. Then, he started to yell at me.
Everytime something like this happens, I'm upset, but stay positive. I don't want to let his anger get to me, and make me upset either. But, I hate how he can just tug me around like this too.
How can I fix this?

2007-12-24 18:53:52 · 7 answers · asked by Cinders 4 in Family

My boyfriend wanted to try anal sex and although I don't do it because to me it's painful, and I have always forbidden it to my former partners, at first I said no, and then I agreed. All I asked him was "please be very very gentle". Thing is he acted all impatient and was the contrary to gentle, which caused me physical pain. When he asked if it hurt, and I honestly answered yes, he stopped though. I still feel he disrespected me in some way, because I DID tell him no (I also told him why), and then I ASKED him to be gentle, and he wasn't, and he never even asked if I was okay afterwards. It bled, but I never uttered a word.
I'm thinking (for later in life) if we end up having a family, HOW do you trust a person with something, if you asked them not to do it because it causes you pain, but they go ahead and do it. It's been three days since the incident, and I didn't have the chance to talk to him yet..
How do I tell him that i need him to respect my wishes, without offending him?

2007-12-24 18:52:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the most striking/attractive thing about redheads, in your opinion, or if you don't like them, why?

2007-12-24 18:52:41 · 7 answers · asked by that redheaded chick 2 in Singles & Dating

1 what profession are you both in?
2 how long did you date?
3 1st marriage?
4 how old were you both when married?
5 how many years married?
6 happily divorced?

Write as much as you like.

Thank you.

2007-12-24 18:51:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its so depressing, im feelin pretty empty, how bout you?

2007-12-24 18:50:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are korean girls unattractive?
BE HONEST. i DONT CARE.
im just really wondering because i usually dont have white guys asking me out or w/e only a few. just tell me the truth. :) kthnx

2007-12-24 18:47:29 · 8 answers · asked by jenn 4 in Singles & Dating