Family & Relationships - 24 December 2007

I love him, but it's not reciprocated that way, and am trying to be his friend. It's really hard but I do want to try.

What do I need to keep in mind so he feels comfortable. Yes, he is very much aware of my feelings.

2007-12-24 16:55:31 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Just an observation, not necessarily fact.
What are your views on this?

2007-12-24 16:55:27 · 11 answers · asked by Lettuce 3 in Singles & Dating

Should i phone or sms my crush?

We graduated from school already so theres no chance for me to approach her in person , im planning to get her number from a friend of hers. Were schoolmates but we dont really know each other and ive approached her once b4 but it was kinda bad. Just wanna get to know her.. were both 16 btw ... only thing im worried about is she freaks out and hang up,

if it was you being called , would you freak out?

2007-12-24 16:54:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

K iam a univeristy student 3rd year science major (want 2 b a doc). I have been dateing my high school sweet heart 4 5 years and want to propose. Here is the thing, I work part time and live at home. SHe grew up in a some what rich family (dad was a lawer). I grew up in an upper class society, but I don't have the money right now to buy her the ring she deserves. I have a few hundread dollars saved up but that could only get me an extremly smallstone, I don't want to make her feel obligated to wear anything that might show her up. I love her sooo much she is such an sweet person and would still probably go crazzy with anything I give her. I don't want to swollor my pride and ask my parents for any money please help. lol, need advice.Ladies how important is an engagement ring?

2007-12-24 16:53:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Here's a list of things that've happened 2 me. I just want 2 know if a guy can run game so well that it seems like he's interested when he's not or are these things a guy just can't fake?

- Always looks @ me and smiles big time when he walks in front of me 2 the point people look 2 see who he's looking @
-Ran his fingers/hand across my back 1 time when he passed me from behind, when I looked, he stopped & smiled
-When we see each other, he hugs me & sometimes we say goodbye twice w/ hugs when I leave
-Tries 2 make small talk & jokes when his english isn't so good. Always laughs hysterically when something funny happens or when I laugh.
-Finds reasons 2 call me. 1 time he called & then there was this odd silence like he wanted 2 say more but couldn't, yet he didn't hang up
-Always tells me he's been waiting 4 me when I get 2 class
-Spent 15 min. trying 2 find a wine I liked
-Makes me feel special each time we're together
-Lately gives me tight 1 arm side hug but used 2 full body hug

2007-12-24 16:52:19 · 3 answers · asked by darney s 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 28 male but i'm shy(very).. so at work or whatever i can act like adult but with my parents i can't cause maybe because i was mentally scared as a child being shy and my parents always getting mad cause i was shy and they wanted me to be outgoing talkative but i never was ...so i feel shy t o act like an adult with them.

I know many of yu talkative confident people dont have this but how about other fellow shys?

im even scared to look at my father in the eye

2007-12-24 16:49:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok my bestfriend said this guy i met didnt have a gf we started datin an 2 days later i found out other wise. his gf was my bestfriend and someone told her bout me and him he told me he loved me an would only b wit her for a week longer cuz he said he wouldb there through her grounding cuz they got caught havin sex. he tells me he loves me an he always talks to his friends bout me. i am bestfriends wit his one friend and the guy is falling in love wit me. he tells me everything they talk about (best friend) idk wat to do i am tired of cryin an tired of being confused an hurt someone please help me i need it now more than ever thanks

2007-12-24 16:48:40 · 18 answers · asked by tired of being hurt by him 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 16:45:02 · 15 answers · asked by mecca 1 in Singles & Dating

In my younger years, but then we don't want to go there!

2007-12-24 16:41:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfiend just moved an we have been talkin on the comp for awhile. he didn't move far away, just across town. wen ever we talk he always brings sex up. all he ever wants to do is have computer sex. wat can i say 2 him 2 let him kno that i don't want 2

2007-12-24 16:41:29 · 18 answers · asked by sexy girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Last year my mom (wrongly) accused me of taking and losing her digital camer which i did not.. well she kept on insisting that i lost her camera even though i knew i did not. in the end she told me to buy her a new camera and if she ever found her old camera she would give me the camera that i bought for her and my money back.. Well it turns out she DID find her camera but she lost the one i bought her!! To make Shi*t worse she will not give me money back after she wrongly accused me of losing her camera which i didnt!! What do you think i deserve or how to make her give me my money?? Everytime i mention it she gets an annoyed look in her face and always gets out of it.. making me feel like im just annoying. I wouldn't be asking her for my money back if i had a job right now but i got laid off and i have no types of money and i have been wanting a mp3 player since i didnt get a christmas gift :'(

2007-12-24 16:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by ♥PRECIOUS♥ 1 in Family

here's the situation.Im try my best to make a long story short.
Im 23 and my girl is 20.we been together for a year and 3 months.She has my name tatooed on her back.She had a hard life,mom died when she was young and her father was abusive.She has a godmother though that she considers her mother and her family.
Her fam didnt like me for a while cuz I never came and seen them before.They used to say negative stuff.But now they realize that my girl really loves me and now they said they still willing to meet me.My girl said that they never said they didnt like me,they was just mad cuz I aint come see them.She spoke 2 her godmother and she said that she asked was I coming with her to see them on christmas?
Im really nervous cuz I never met a girl family before.Im afraid I might say the wrong things and I dont wanna look stupid or anything.would it be a good idea to go or should I just wait a lil longer to see them

2007-12-24 16:39:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok heres the thing i have family member that lives with me and all he everdoes is think my hubby is a free cab and eats the food doesnt clean upafter him self has disrespected me by callin me a ***** caus ei dont likehis sluty girlfriend talks **** about me and my man doesnt pay his rent half the time now he has caught herpies from his girl and it is contagise ihave a lil one and i really need to kick him out before she my husand or igets it none the less he is already bringing stolen **** in my house. whichcan get us in truble to but since it is christmas eve and right around theholidays me and my husband cant ring our self to kick him out cause wearent mean people i need advice what should i do

2007-12-24 16:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by Alesha M 2 in Family

I do thinks it is.

2007-12-24 16:37:19 · 13 answers · asked by D 7 in Friends

Like can a woman tell just by talking to a virgin that he is a virgin. Or while they are having intercourse or afterwards can a woman tell if he is/was a virgin if so how??

2007-12-24 16:36:28 · 10 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I understand tipping for the wedding day but what about for your trial?

2007-12-24 16:36:08 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

i like this boy he is a lil bit older than me and we talk everytime we see one another.He's always smiling when he talks yo me and makes me smile. So what I want to know is how to know a guy likes you?

can you give my details like tell me things he would do or just ask me questions and give me the answers so i know. Like ask if he does this then you can say for the answer that if he does that then he doesnt like you or if he does do that then its a good thing. and if you can give me things i can look out for...

please this is important that i know this...thank you soo much to those who helped

2007-12-24 16:34:15 · 9 answers · asked by ♦sweetest mamita♦ 1 in Singles & Dating

MY QUESTIONS: (1) So do you think Stacy overreacted and (2) do you think Stacy read into what her mother meant and (3) My friend Stacy told me that she starts to think "What if" her mom meant. Oh I think you would pick out things that look like crap." even though Stacy knows that isn't what her mother meant. So what do you think? STORY: Today Stacy and her mom stopped at the 99 cent store at her mothers suggestion. Stacy grabbed a beautiful dark green cardigan and two other items (which her mother did not like). Those two items Stacy looked over and decided she didn’t like either. Well actually one her mother did not like the other one her mother said was too short (and Stacy hates short items) Then Stacy also saw royal blue turtleneck to wear under a sweater. When Stacy was on the line to pay her mother noticed the royal blue turtleneck wasn’t in great shape so her mom pointed that out. Stacy got upset and in her mind she thought that her mother was saying that Stacy would only buy ugly things. Stacy said “I just wanted to wear that under a sweater - this one I just needed the collar” Her mother said “Maybe so but you would be able to see that it wasn’t in such great shape” As they were walking to the car her mother said “The dark green sweater you brought is gorgeous” Stacy said “But it sounds like you are saying that I would have brought crap as well”. Her mom “Well you were going to buy that turtleneck. I even told you to get rid of things like that” Stacy “I was just going to wear this under something.” Then about two hours after they got home her mother came into Stacy’s bedroom to ask her something. Stacy said “The dark green sweater I brought is gorgeous” Her mother said “Every thing you brought in the past at the 99 cent store is gorgeous - I even told you that, you just have to stop being so insecure.” Keep in mind Stacy brought many sweaters in the 99 cent store and each item would have sold in Bloomingdales, etc for $100 a piece. These were closeouts. I saw the sweaters: Ralph Lauren, Talbots, etc. NO THEY ARE NOT JUNK. AND her mom loved every sweater Stacy brought at the 99 cent store. Stacy even wore one of the sweater two weeks ago when her family had a fancy dinner party to go and every one wanted her sweater

2007-12-24 16:33:24 · 8 answers · asked by lover454 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

he says he likes me after i told him i liked him. but now he seems to be distant. i am not running after him we just enjoy each other company but. of course i would like to have more. i am a sagittarius.

2007-12-24 16:31:46 · 2 answers · asked by mecca 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an 18 month old baby..me and her dad aren't together. So we made a plan that the baby would spend time with him and his family from Sunday until Christmas day around noonish. (We also spent Christmas eve and day with his family last year.) So this year I obviously wanted my daughter to spend Christmas with me and this side of the family. But his mom has the nerve to call me today and say she wants to keep the baby another 2 days! Is it just me or she being pretty inconsiderate? I obviously want to spend time with my daughter and have her open her gifts from santa.

2007-12-24 16:30:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have been dating for over seven months and its pretty serious. He said he spent all his money on my promise ring he bought a few months back. Is it okay to be mad/ upset/ hurt? Or is it just me over reacting?

2007-12-24 16:28:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HONESTLY:
do you think they are stupid?
do you think they are just hot?
do you think they are stuck up?

plus feel free to add in any other thoughts...

2007-12-24 16:26:45 · 9 answers · asked by -=-==-=-==-=- 4 in Singles & Dating

Like can a woman tell just by talking to a virgin that he is a virgin. Or while they are having intercourse or afterwards can a woman tell if he is/was a virgin

2007-12-24 16:26:08 · 10 answers · asked by One Day 1 in Singles & Dating

my bff's mom doesnt think blacks and whites should date and she told my friend shes not aloud to date anyone unless there white,,i think that is the dumbest thing ever,,why does it matter???i just dont get it and it makes me so mad that some people think thats wrong,,in my opinion its like saying you should stay with ur hair color or somthing lol,,maybe not so much but u get what im saying lol,,i just think as long as the guy/girl is a good person and good to their bf/gf it shouldnt matter,what do you all think???oh and merry Christmas lol

2007-12-24 16:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Emily♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you like? In the way of Foreplay?

2007-12-24 16:25:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One day he will be an amazing boyfriend....the most amazing boyfriend a guy could be.....and the next he will have his cell phone turned off so noone can reach him and he wont care that we haven't talked in days. He thinks that people are constantly against him, he is insecure and slightly paranoid, always thinks low of himself....but then gets extremely hyper and active. I love this guy, but his mood changes get me depressed and then once I am feeling stable about the relationship it gets me depressed again bc of his moods. What do I do?

2007-12-24 16:25:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

see he recently got a gf but he flirted with me a couple times before soo, i like him, and idk what to do,

i dont want to take his gf away from him i kind of want to wait for him if its not to long, how should i act in the meantime?

i want to let him kno i like him but i dnt want him to think im clueless that he has a gf.

but at the same time once they breakup i dont want to seem all over him, how should i go about this situation?

thanks <3

2007-12-24 16:24:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've liked this girl for a long time and she liked me back for an even longer time. I was just never physically attracted to her until we got older. Now, time has passed, I never made a move and someone else did. She has a boyfriend that she is in love with and they spend every minute of their free time together. It has been a really long time and I have not moved on....What should I do? It's almost impossible to try to just be friends with her, she doesn't want to hang out with me now that she has a boyfriend......??

2007-12-24 16:23:41 · 12 answers · asked by Pure122 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in 10th standard and my elder sister is in 11th.
Everyday my sister starts an argument with my mom and prevents me from studying.
I can't advice my sister as she is totally out of hand.
My mom can't help it either.
None of my friends stay close by to study in their house.
Please Help!!!!!

2007-12-24 16:23:29 · 8 answers · asked by vighneshbirodkar 1 in Family

I feel like guys only want girls with perfect bodies. What if you just have an average body? Is that like really gross to you?

And ladies if your body is average do you feel really unattractive because it not "really good"

Thanks for any honest opinions

2007-12-24 16:22:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating