I love him, but it's not reciprocated that way, and am trying to be his friend. It's really hard but I do want to try.
What do I need to keep in mind so he feels comfortable. Yes, he is very much aware of my feelings.
2007-12-24 16:55:31 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I suppose each of us (age depending) have loved and lost. I feel it best for you to not try so hard at being his friend. You need time to get through your feelings about him. I would give it some time and later it may work out that you can be friends. That is something we can't force----Both love and friendship. Good luck.
2007-12-24 17:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jan C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If everything you say is true,Tocca,you're a terriffic friend.Trying to continue the friendship would be a great thing for him!Is it really the best thing for YOU right now?If I were to find out tomorrow that I was diabetic,and I asked you which pocket I should carry my lollypops in,KNOWING I'm not allowed to have them anymore,what would your' advice be?
Maybe one day,you can just look at him as a friend that you had a 'thing' with once,but you can't kid yourself into thinking your'e anywhere close to there.Don't carry lolypops around with you yet,Tocca,you'll just walk around all day wanting one.
2007-12-25 01:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im going through the same dilemma however i am opposite of you. A girl who i am really good friends with likes me and after our 2 year friendship, she told me she needs a break. Your only going to get hurt because you will feel like hes leading you on.
2007-12-25 01:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by daniel u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋