ok my bestfriend said this guy i met didnt have a gf we started datin an 2 days later i found out other wise. his gf was my bestfriend and someone told her bout me and him he told me he loved me an would only b wit her for a week longer cuz he said he wouldb there through her grounding cuz they got caught havin sex. he tells me he loves me an he always talks to his friends bout me. i am bestfriends wit his one friend and the guy is falling in love wit me. he tells me everything they talk about (best friend) idk wat to do i am tired of cryin an tired of being confused an hurt someone please help me i need it now more than ever thanks
2007-12-24 16:48:40 · 18 answers · asked by tired of being hurt by him 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell them th truth..
DO you really love this guy...
Hey, he is being dishonest to you.
How can a relationship works when he himself did not tell you the truth about his status...
I mean.....
what you should do is dump him...
The best option.
Why should you waste your time and your tears for this kind of guy.
If he can broke your heart less than a week, then how about in 1 year or 10 years time?
Come on... get over him and find a better one for your own good.
Tell him the truth that he broke your heart... confront with him and your friend.
2007-12-24 17:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by syasya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted to be with you and loved you as much as he claimed he wouldnt wait a week till the chick is off of punishment... she shouldnt even matter to him if he wanted to be with you, it sounds like he's just making a excuss to buy him some time to make up his mind... well make it up for him girl leave him alone it's not worth it plus you might miss out on a good friendship with the other girl.. trust me when i say a good friend will always be there and guys will come and go.
2007-12-24 16:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by mocha_luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you mentioned sex, the warning bells went off. Think about it. The guy is breaking up with the girl he got caught having sex with a week ago....Doesn't that strike you as odd? He just had sex with her last week....and now he's suddenly in love with you? In this situation, it looks like he's hopping from one girl to the other. He may say he loves you, but what's to say this situation wont happen to you later?
My advice is to have nothing to do with him. You may like him, but he is DEFINATELY NOT someone you should get involved with. Think about what could happen if he breaks up with your friend. He could leave you in the same position your friend is in and then he's screwed you both over. Your friendship will be ruined and so will you.
2007-12-24 17:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dudette you just need to dump this guy cuz he doesnt really like ya at all he just wants to sleep with ya (take that part as a compliment lol). Friendship is way more important than relationships ALWAYS remember that. Sisters before Misters and Bros before Ho's lol. good luck and merry christmas
2007-12-24 16:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that you are much too young to even worry about all that stuff. You sound like you are only about 12 or 13. Just move on and wait till you are older.
2007-12-24 16:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your bf why would you not know that she was seeing the guy in question? Obviously, he is in to having sex and tells girls that he loves them in order to get it. I wonder how she feels. I'm thinking he's gonna treat you like a queen too that is until he gets his way and then ba da bing, you to will be yesterdays news.
I would not pursue a relationship with him.
2007-12-24 16:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP the drama......his sounds like bad news.Drop him and with your best freind OK ladys rule number # 1 you dont go out with your bestfriends boy friend thats just not right thers needs to to be laws on that.....
2007-12-24 17:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by kazz55 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
easy go to the guy with the girlfriend (he obviously should have told you that he has a gf before you guys dated) anywhu tell him we will break things of until you break up with that girl. this way you wont hurt anyone and ull feel good
2007-12-24 16:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Create yourself a myspace account, and find someone else... I heard Tom was single.
2007-12-24 16:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by hubbawubbub 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be with your boyfriend. If he's dating one of your friends then that's her drama. Leave him, you don't deserve to be cheated on.. he just wants to have his cake and eat it too.
You deserve better.. and you need to warn your friend about what he's doing too.
2007-12-24 16:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋