I've liked this girl for a long time and she liked me back for an even longer time. I was just never physically attracted to her until we got older. Now, time has passed, I never made a move and someone else did. She has a boyfriend that she is in love with and they spend every minute of their free time together. It has been a really long time and I have not moved on....What should I do? It's almost impossible to try to just be friends with her, she doesn't want to hang out with me now that she has a boyfriend......??
2007-12-24 16:23:41 · 12 answers · asked by Pure122 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over it Sean, life is to short to broad over spilled milk, go find some fresh stuff.
2007-12-24 16:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by mariano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on buddy. You obsessing over her this way isn't good. If she's in love let her be in love. If you can't just be her friend (which I know from personal experience is really hard) then I suggest just let her go. Find someone else and when you do DO NOT PROCRASTINATE! Make your move so that way you won't lose a potential girlfriend to someone else.
2007-12-24 16:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by Inspired Beauty 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Date an ugly girl. Do it at night with the lights off so you can't see her , pretend fatty is that girl you like sooooo much. This trick has worked for me hundreds of times.
2007-12-24 16:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by MUFdvr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her on the phone were she’s not by her boyfriend and tell her that you still like her and if she feels the same way, act on it (make your move) BUT make sure that she dose have the same feelings so it doesn’t back-fire
2007-12-24 16:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a new girl to obsess over. Preferrably one without a boyfriend.
2007-12-24 16:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you're SOL. Sorry, but you had you're chance and it would be pretty sh itty to try to break up a happy relationship. You'll just have to move on.
2007-12-24 16:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by cindos_69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but my answer would have to be, too late. You just denied your chances with her and that's it. There is a loop hole though. If she EVER breaks up with dis guy than MAKE YOUR MOVE!!! Elementary my dear Watson, Elementary.
2007-12-24 16:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Mike R. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is a really hard question. I would say to talk to her boyfriend. I know that sounds really weird, but if you can't get to her, get to the guy. See what he says. If he is uncomfortable with it like you are, then let things go.
2007-12-24 16:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should call her & ask her to dinner as friends & at dinner tell her how you feel & tell her you dont want to mess up her relationship you just had to tell her how u feel. if she ends up not liking you back ask if you can still be friends.
2007-12-24 16:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sunni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur toast. time to go. look for a new girl.. remember what you learned
2007-12-24 16:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by bardmere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋