Family & Relationships - 24 December 2007

For example: Christmas I work extra hours to make extra money to give gifts to our family, he thinks we should keep the money for our bills and not purchase gifts. It's been a famly tradition to give gifts, his family too, except he just doesnt make any effort, every year. I want to buy a gift for his birthday but he never buys me a gift for my birthday or plans anything. Valentine's day comes and goes. Christmas comes and goes (I feel embarrassed to show at family gatherings and have no gifts because I listen to my husband) This year I purchased gifts and he sat outside the store with his mp3 player in his ears. I don't know what to do? Follow his lead and give up on this??

2007-12-24 12:16:30 · 6 answers · asked by suninmyeyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel guilty when I watch porn or masturbate and I also feel guilty when I have sex with my fiance. Why would I feel guilty about sexual activities? What can I do to change this? And this is a serious problem for me.

2007-12-24 12:00:24 · 2 answers · asked by Steve C. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-24 11:59:11 · 5 answers · asked by sexylatina95 1 in Singles & Dating

how high is the possibility for that to happen? or it is impossible??

2007-12-24 11:54:42 · 10 answers · asked by lemonade 2 in Friends

Sometimes during sex this can just happen to a women....ladies what did you do just clean it up, were you embarrassed? how did you fix the problem...?

Men did you comfort her or make fun of her? did it gross you out?

2007-12-24 11:52:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how would u ask ur boyfriend to take a bath or a shower with u when his parents r home and ur leaving with them

2007-12-24 11:46:45 · 24 answers · asked by Someoneslilgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my girlfriend likes both male and female and it has never bothered me but as i was speeking to someone on msn they don't really think it is good for a guy to go out with a Bi. i don't see a problem unless she cheats on me (i don't think she is that type of person to) and i find it funny when we walk into town and we both say "oh she is fit aint she"

well i think ill be falling out with my mate who don't like it but what is your opinion

2007-12-24 11:36:44 · 12 answers · asked by washable mist 4 in Singles & Dating

Or are you such a compuslive liar that you lie even to yourself?

2007-12-24 11:28:13 · 7 answers · asked by 6th Finger 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married 3 years - my second marriage, his third. We have little in common...he likes racing, I like football. We were fine and happy for the first two years and then I became sick. It wasn't a serious illness, but it could have led to one. I spent a lot of time going to doctors trying to get a diagnosis. When I finally got one and got surgery, he accuses me of not caring how my illness affected him. He sleeps on the couch and works all the time including on Christmas. What do I do to save the marriage or is it too far gone?

2007-12-24 11:26:00 · 25 answers · asked by bernie1701 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Once I say I am a christian and that I dont have premarital sex, they are out the door. I dont understand... I am begin told that I will an old maid before I find a man willing to wait till marriage.

2007-12-24 11:25:51 · 10 answers · asked by DconS 1 in Singles & Dating

I guy I met months ago whose in another country recently exchange some pics of each other. And he said that I'm so pretty! LOL cuz I don't think I am. I don't know if really meant it cuz someone who knows him told me he's a player and has a beautiful GF.If I knew he had a GF wouldn't have bother. Why are men like that I never asked him to what he thought about the pics. Why bother and lie or is that the womenizer wants some action that's never gonna get from me anyway. What you think?

2007-12-24 11:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

HELP HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-24 11:19:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating a guy for about 2 years...sad thing is that for the most part of our relationship, he has been in another country. I visited once, we keep in touch via email/phone. It has been a roller coaster. He didnt treat me well when he came home (twice) i was not a priority at all. Ever since i went to visit things have been different...but i keep questioning things. I love him...the sex is great, he will be home in a few weeks for good. Why oh why am i now thinking this wont work out? I'm 29, he's 24...i just dont see this lasting. He has no clue what he's really doing in his life...I just dont know!

2007-12-24 11:15:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me & my boyfriend have been together not even a week
& I feel like he's pressuring me to makeout with him or even have s3x =/

I know I'm wayy too young, I'm only 14 & I'm not down to do any of that...

I'm still learning to makeouttt! Hahahaha :)

If he tries to make a move on me, or moves too fast I'm gonna have to breakup with him..

Good idea?

2007-12-24 11:10:52 · 24 answers · asked by Brii. 3 in Singles & Dating

My bf's ex came back into his life, and he just recently told me that hes not completly over her. He basically told me that he's still in love with her. But he says that he does love me, and still wants to be with me. I love him, but I dont know what to do. Should I end it with him?

2007-12-24 11:09:35 · 17 answers · asked by Ally C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 11:08:16 · 4 answers · asked by cas 3 in Singles & Dating

I liked this guy for ages and i had a feeling he liked me back but we never talked (gave lots of signs though). After 2 weeks vacation, one of his best friends (a girl) who's kinda friends with me told me he said he liked her (she didnt know about me liking him) and i was so shocked, but she didnt like him back in that way and told him so. Then i told one of his friends i liked him and he went and told him (without me knowing). Then the guy i like started talking to me a lot online then confessed that he liked me! I asked him about the other girl he liked and he said that had passed, he liked me. I think he only liked her because he thought he couldnt have me and that she was always acting as if she fancied him.
Anyway he has been spending a lot of time with me and is really sweet and talked about us going out etc so should i believe that he does really like me?
And could i be right in him only liking the other girl because he thought he couldnt have me and cause she flirted with him?

2007-12-24 11:07:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

her parents are crazy, she cant go anywhere and its christmas break
but she wont come

2007-12-24 11:05:07 · 23 answers · asked by johnny B 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't really understand why guys do that. :[[ Anybody wanna clarify?

2007-12-24 11:04:53 · 11 answers · asked by Natalie 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine is a stuffed monkey that my granny gave to me in 1968. It's losing it's hair and the hands are trying to fall off.... But he's still here after all of these years. I was about 8 years old, so that makes him 40 years old. I also have a Raggedy Ann that my granny made for me back in the mid-70's. Both were Christmas presents......

2007-12-24 11:02:16 · 8 answers · asked by Brenda 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

as some of you may know i posted a question related to this before. so today my wife left with her parents to go to her ex husbands house for christmas and she will be staying there until new years. i have tried stopping her but she refused, as she said she wants to stay friends with him. there are no children involved so the only gift i had to give her was her own. i couldnt come as her ex husband wouldnt allow. i asked her about cheating and she got mad and said no she isnt cheating and she said that i could stand outside and watch as proof but couldnt come inside as her ex husband doesnt want me there. this would have been our first christmas together. im all alone me and my family haven't spoken since i was 16. what am i to do to pass the time?

2007-12-24 11:01:39 · 17 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

would you marry a women with experience that has had many men before you and while you are having sex she might compare you to other lovers she's had, or a women who has had no experience before and you will have to go through the trouble of teaching her how to please you???

2007-12-24 10:58:30 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-24 10:58:23 · 12 answers · asked by DR.MARTENS 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance lives in South Carolina. I've traveled my whole life and have only ever lived in one place a maximum of 2 1/2 years. Needless to say, my friends are all scattered pretty severely. The majority of my family is in Minnesota. With the majority of my relatives on fixed incomes, I know they'll need quite a bit of advance notice to save money to make the trip. We aren't getting married until November. Would it be okay to order all of the invitations now and only send the ones to my family and friends who are far away (I have quite a few friends in California) who would need the advance notice? Then I could send out the rest when we're about 4-5 months out.

It's important to me that my family actually gets to attend the wedding, and I'm sure lots of advance notice is the only way to get them there. Would it seem rude to the people who didn't get an invitation right away if they found out somehow?

2007-12-24 10:55:01 · 6 answers · asked by Feather B 2 in Weddings

i have a bf who are 3 month separated and two children it is hurting me to have this relationship because i know the fact that he would never put me 1 and i would never be his priority? and miserable feeling soround me everyday he werent there for me when i needed him most very sad,,he goes to me i will introduce you to my kids in two months time and this and that i am sicking tired of his excuce what should i do? we been out for 5 months now but i never felt happy of this relationship from day 1 i called it off most every week and change my number and everything but i ended up coming back to him why? do u think i love him? or just scared being alone or lonely? i am 24 and he 43 btw.he`s very insecure,posesive,obssesed too i am so confused what i should do ? i really want to end this craps for goods but he always say u need to be patience everything will be ok,,dont throw something good that we mingh have in the future this and that and that`s melt my heart,,, please help,,!!!!

2007-12-24 10:51:48 · 2 answers · asked by milarosa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 10:49:51 · 12 answers · asked by shelly.lamb 2 in Singles & Dating

I cant prove sex, but I can prove they were dancing sexy and makiing out on the dance floor.
Will that count as adultery -- if aout of the blue after that -- he says he fell out of love with me?

2007-12-24 10:49:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-24 10:49:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I live in NE and the father lives in MO. He wants joint custody but I don't want him to be able to take my child through Iowa down to MO every other weekend or whatever the case may be. My friends have told me that in NE, you cannot give joint custody to a parent who lives outside of the state because they cannot legally take the child across state lines, at least not without the other parents permission. I was just wondering if there is any truth to this or if anyone else has been in a similar situation.

2007-12-24 10:48:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-24 10:47:08 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating