would you marry a women with experience that has had many men before you and while you are having sex she might compare you to other lovers she's had, or a women who has had no experience before and you will have to go through the trouble of teaching her how to please you???
2007-12-24 10:58:30 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Virgin.
Experienced or not, I do NOT want used goods.
2007-12-24 11:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
Let me tell you something. The sexual experience means nothing at all! It is what is in their heart that matters. Personality, and character matter more than a silly thing like chastity. If that were the case, wouldn't a woman have the same concern with a man? And how in the world is a man going to prove he is a virgin? No way in hell, that's how. Look in the heart my friend, don't worry if the dear woman was married or had a previous lover. The same thing applies to men too. Good luck!
2007-12-24 11:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Paulus 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think if you really love the person it shouldn't matter unless either one of you is jealous and will be bothered by previous lovers. Never compare lovers--each one is different and you will enjoy them in different ways. And if you wait and give someone special your virginity then it will be a priceless gift. You should wait until you are mature enough to make good decisions about having sex. I think you are on the wrong track about going through "the TROUBLE of teaching"... trust me, it's no trouble to learn how to please each other!
2007-12-24 11:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you know that she is a virgin then go ahead and marry.
If you know that she is a non virgin then you should take a risk of getting married, My friend this depends on how you approach with her. You have to take a serious promise and talk to her openly about your relationship with her. Since you will be getting married to her you should explain certain things and make her realise the reality of husband-wife relation.
And also talk to her politely and find out what she was happy in her previous relation. Sex is not the criteria hear. It depends on how happy she will be with you and your family. The more happier you keep her then she will slowly forget about the previous relation.
2007-12-24 11:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not being a lover, many of the women that I've gone to bed with or married and had previous experience. And after a while, I had had previous experience. The women who loved me thought I was pretty good, that's because they loved me. And I thought they were pretty good for the same reason. By the way, you didn't mention that they might have to teach you what feels good to them. I'm sure you just overlooked it.
2007-12-24 11:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by krowtap 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you may also be surprised that a Virgin may know about what she wants from a male than you do a female. If there is a geniune love affair, and trust. To me it wouldn't matter. Just remember that about 80% of the male and female population has already experimenting with sex after the age of 18...
2007-12-24 11:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Experience.
2007-12-24 11:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by guyster 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Virgin, all the way.
Instead of being caught up in the whole "he/she doesn't know how to have great sex" doesn't mean they can't learn in time. The better question is, would you rather be with someone who could potentially have sexual translated diseases or someone who might suck at sexual pleasure at first but has the potential to learn as long as you're willing to not give up?
2007-12-24 11:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by Goose Feet 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am a virgin and saving myself for my special girl. Likewise, I require my future-wife to be a virgin. I do not want a non-virgin for many reasons.
You say, "...a women who has had no experience before and you will have to go through the trouble of teaching her how to please you?" - Wait a minute: Why is it a "trouble" to learn sexually together? Really, I think it's kind of a turn on: learning together sexually.
2007-12-24 11:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
either would be fine BUT its really not necessary 2 "compare" previous lovers while having sex...guys wouldn't care 4 that any more than gals would.
kinda makes the party go "south" and the "want to continue" to not happen.
2007-12-24 12:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this question must be for men but i'll answer it anyway. i've been with inexperienced men that were great and experienced men that were terrible. that's not really the issue as i see it. the guys who are not all hung up and immerse themselves in sensuality are the best. but i guess that's not your question is it? you want to know if other guys would feel self conscious about their adequacy with an experienced woman. a really experienced woman wouldn't make him feel inadequate.
2007-12-24 11:05:41 · answer #11 · answered by gormlath 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋