Ive been dating a guy for about 2 years...sad thing is that for the most part of our relationship, he has been in another country. I visited once, we keep in touch via email/phone. It has been a roller coaster. He didnt treat me well when he came home (twice) i was not a priority at all. Ever since i went to visit things have been different...but i keep questioning things. I love him...the sex is great, he will be home in a few weeks for good. Why oh why am i now thinking this wont work out? I'm 29, he's 24...i just dont see this lasting. He has no clue what he's really doing in his life...I just dont know!
2007-12-24 11:15:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know i dont have it figure out! I just dont think this guy is the answer...i dont feel secure with him
2007-12-24 11:23:31 · update #1
See how things work out when he comes home, and then take it from there. If you are having doubts, it could be the distance between you. You might want to read up on long distance relationships, and how to cope. Just a suggestion.
2007-12-24 11:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by redsox41004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 29 and you think you got it all figured out! Sounds like you don't!!
Edit to your additional info:
What only a wealthy man on a white horse that has all his ducks in a row is good enough, the best part of life/relationships is the journey and we all got to start somewhere. A lot of women over look guys because they don't have it all figured out but many of those woman want to be saved and not fight and grow along side of their man. Many women miss out on great guys with this mentality-your only mature if you have a great job and lots of money!
2007-12-24 11:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lv Dr. 4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do, if you only re-read between the lines of what you just wrote. You havent really given one good reason for staying together but many reasons for not. It sounds like he is immature and still has alot of growing up here before he could ever commit to a real and long relationship. Move on and find someone better suited to you. Good luck and Happy Holidays
2007-12-24 11:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't build a real relationship this way, and if during the FEW times you've gotten to see each other he treated you badly, that's an indication that you aren't that important to him.
Great sex doesn't excuse bad behavior.
Get a REAL guy.
2007-12-24 11:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
29 is young , silence is very atractive , the dog wags his tail , so long as he doesn't bark , he is loved by all , think about the dog ,, quietly ,,think about the dog , what would he say if he could speak ,, what would he say ,, Now ,,,what does he say ,, silence is very atractive ,, it's nearly imposable but it is atractive,, and although no one wants to be the one to shut up and wag , it will get you a hug ,, I know thats not what your question was but ,, I thought I'd get ahead of you .
2007-12-24 11:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should want a guy thats actually there for u and a guy that u matter too
2007-12-24 11:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't stay with you u need to be sercure
2007-12-24 11:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by jlovejesus2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋