Family & Relationships - 24 December 2007

What can i do to make my gf to really love me and maybe even have sex?

2007-12-24 08:20:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex wife took my son to meet my parents for the first time. He is four years old and has never met them as I am estranged from them for 14 years due to my unpleasant and abusive upbringing. I took her to court over this and the outcome was that she needs to facilitate any meetings betwen them and this can only happen once a month. More importantly the first three meetings are to be at a visitation centre. This is in a county court order. Today is Christmas eve and I have found out that she has taken him to meet them at a coffee shop. This is the first meeting and no meetings have taken place at the centre. The order was made only 3 weeks ago. Are there any reprecussions to her breaking the court order? What can I do? Thanks.

2007-12-24 08:16:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I want to make our thank you cards now (wedding is in February) so that we will have them ready to send out and don't forget about them. Is their any specific wording we should use that would make us have to wait until after the wedding to make them, or could we just state something like "thank you for sharing this day with us." ?

2007-12-24 08:15:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

do you think women should be given the same right as men and be allowed to go topless why cant we

GUYS would you be offended if we did

2007-12-24 08:13:52 · 5 answers · asked by LeeAnn 1 in Singles & Dating

i asked my girl friend who she is going out with on new years eve, she said that its none of my ******* business. so i dumped her felt bad about doing it but she treats me like yesterdays newspaper. was i rite in kicking her to the curb?

2007-12-24 08:06:43 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we get questions constantly if we are twins or sisters
but i honestly dont think we look alike.

what do youuuu say?

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thankss

2007-12-24 08:05:01 · 16 answers · asked by daniellesoda 2 in Friends

I still love her though and don't want to lose her. She is so hurt though. How can we get through this?

2007-12-24 08:03:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I sit next to this really cute guy in all my lessons. The only problem is that hes a popular and all the girls fancy him. im the only sane one who doesnt drool over him. We talk now and then but he doesnt know im alive most times! HELP I REALLY LIKE THIS GUY!

2007-12-24 07:59:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guys who do this to young girls, young women, they make me more angry and feel more hatred then anything else I can think of. I just cant understand why you do it, and if you do, it bothers me even more that you dont use protection, then there is rape, there is no justification or forgiveness i can think of.
These are daughters, Mothers, Aunts, Nieces, Sisters, how would you feel if it was done to them, so Why do it, have you no concept of Honor?

2007-12-24 07:55:51 · 2 answers · asked by Wes: i dont give thumbs down 7 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend asked me what I wanted for Christmas (cause I never talk about material things that I want, so he had to ask), and I said an external hard drive (cause I don't have one). Last week he told me that he is getting himself a brand new external drive, and that for Christmas he was just going to give me his old one (which is at least a year old, and 80 gigs).

I said, "Are you serious? You're going to give me your cast-off for Christmas?" and he said, "yeah, what's the problem?" and I said, "Can you at least gift wrap it?" and he said, "I didn't know you were going to get so snooty about it - that's a $200 drive! It has firewire!"

Every time I've talked to him since then he's talked about how he's not going to give me the drive anymore because I "snubbed" it.

Was I being snotty? I don't feel like I was.
(Just to give you the other side of the coin, I got him a brand new Wii game, a new DVD, four record frames, and a framed poster).

2007-12-24 07:54:06 · 25 answers · asked by not_you 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's 22 and i'm 18. We both are college students. I broke up with him for too many reasons. He was selfish and wanted to be with his own friends most of the time. He never had time to spend with me. He didn't have respect either. I didn't get enough love and attention from him( i'm not ugly or fat at all. I'm 5.3 and 90 pounds and people tell me that i have beautiful face, i don't wanna be rude...that's what they say.) I was always nice to him and helped him alot at school and with his homework even though English is my second language. A lied to me about a few things. And i finally decided to leave him. I was tired of being nice all the time and get nothing( i mean love)..He didn't care about me. And he was sorry all the time but what was the point of being sorry?...I think i ended everything in a nice way..I text him" let's be freinds and have good holiday"..But now he doesn't act like i'm his friend...He acts like he doesn't know me at all. Or he doesn't see me. Why is that?

2007-12-24 07:49:41 · 27 answers · asked by Elena_Jolie 1 in Singles & Dating

Or would you want a guy that had partners before rather than a virgin?

2007-12-24 07:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by SuperCobra 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I slept with a guy and afterward realized it was a huge mistake. I don't want anything more to do with him, but he keeps calling and texting me and basically acting like he owns me now. He hasn't threatened me about the pics but I'm afraid of what he might do once he realizes I'm not going to give it up again.

2007-12-24 07:39:14 · 22 answers · asked by Amanda J 1 in Singles & Dating

you have sex in a relationship. i know it varies between people. so i just need some opinions.

2007-12-24 07:37:22 · 23 answers · asked by Nany 1 in Singles & Dating

i hear it alot by men they say that we (woman ) are wierd creatures ..so why is that??????????????????

2007-12-24 07:36:32 · 26 answers · asked by Tekoo 3 in Singles & Dating

A good male friend I like started talking about farting..just joking around. I was like eww.

He laughed too.

I was hoping he would have romantic feelings for me...

Does him taking like this mean he only sees me as a friend?

2007-12-24 07:35:53 · 18 answers · asked by Autumn 2012 3 in Singles & Dating

I just turned 55 and I am starting to get this feeling that it's time to move out of my parents house. I don't know! I know it's kind of stupid to feel this way and I should just be comfortable with my self, but I don't know... maybe it's time to get my own place. I have lived here since I was born and I have never been gainfully employed, I didn't finish college either so I don't believe it's appropriate for me to try to move out. More importantly tho, I am not emotionally ready. I remember someone telling me how I should move out when I am ready as a young adult and I have followed that advice. I have actually been thinking about moving out in about ten years to live with my children or something. Most people are moving in with their children at about 65 nowadays. Yea, yea, yea! Maybe I should stop this crazy thoughts and just decided WHEN I'm ready... u know. It's not up to anyone but me. Hang on! g2g my mom just came home. I am going to sneak and see what she got me for christmas

2007-12-24 07:29:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i get this just about everywhere i go with family members. whenever a family member see an attractive woman they say to me "there you go" or those attract women" or something similar to that. in order to talk to these women that they see i need some type of conversational skills which i dont have. i tell them that and they say no you dont. help me out

2007-12-24 07:28:54 · 3 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

i want women who honestly want more (seek it out). or are there women out there with a man whether boyfriend or hubby... that cant help but fantasize or look at other men wanting a 'bigger' size?

2007-12-24 07:26:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you be mad if your husband/wife went out for lunch with a guy/girl that you didn't know?

2007-12-24 07:23:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

People who have been mean to you...treated u like crap for no reason....do you REALLY forgive them?

2007-12-24 07:23:47 · 7 answers · asked by S i r i 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do they notice or not?

2007-12-24 07:23:08 · 28 answers · asked by y00h_Kn0_y00h_luv_Me! 1 in Singles & Dating

we met at a party, and talked all evening. but my brother was there too and told me not to flirt with him, but we continued to talk. and we had a really good conection and he told me i was funny and pretty. and then we talked a bit about facebook, and he said he wanted to register to talk to me. but i dont think he will do it, maybe hes too shy. should i invite him to join? i have his email. i have liked him for ages and we had a good connection

2007-12-24 07:20:44 · 12 answers · asked by KAY9090 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, i just turned 18, but the thing is like i don't get along with people very well....especially because of my stuttering (which i'm doing my best to rectify), i always feel alone and left out, and angry and depressed most of the time because of this....I don't exactly go over the top when i meet people, i'm usually polite, but alot of people tell me that i don't "open up", how can i do this? This happens anywhere i go, i'm always the loner, but now i'm making some serious efforts, but i feel most of them are going to waste....Sorry to sound like a pessimist, especially in this joyous holiday season, but that's the way i feel ........

2007-12-24 07:19:46 · 17 answers · asked by D Padua 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been deployed overseas for 15 months. My wife and I got a house in another state and I came back to my duty station afterwards to start my out process from the military. I haven't seen her in 15 months and I want to do something really special for her when I get home on the 2nd of Janurary. I was thinking of buying her a a bath robe, putting it next to the door so when she comes home a trail of rose petals lead to a card in the room with some message and a nice bath prepared for her. Maybe some small sort of dinner afterwards and a night infront of the fire place doing marriage stuff. How would this be if your hubby did it ladies? And dudes got any other ideas that might help? Something you might have done.

2007-12-24 07:19:20 · 3 answers · asked by A55H0L3 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-24 07:18:47 · 13 answers · asked by orange c 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-24 07:18:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ever since my wife and i have been together, she has treated her like dirt. she doesnt accept her and always has something negative to say about her. my wife has never done anything wrong to me or to her. the rest of my family loves her, but she has a big problem with her.

2007-12-24 07:18:05 · 13 answers · asked by sugars peanut 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the short story...

Left my girlfriend's (of a year) house early in the morning to get changed. She got a call from her ex before I left. I didn't think anything of it. The plan was for me to go home and come back in 30 or so minutes. I did..only to find his car in the driveway. Ok..fine..so her ex stopped by. I'm confident I can deal with it. So I go inside..and they are exchanging this stuffed animal they used to share together. When we first got together..I knew they did this. They have "joint custody" of it. (we are in our 30s by the way.) But she knew it bothered me as I saw it as away for them to hold onto "something." They stopped doing it for awhile until today...the night before out first Christmas together.

Is it weird that I am so incredibly angry about this? I don't want this to blow up right before the holiday because I don't want to ruin anything...but I feel so humiliated that they did this again..and did it in front of me when they both know it bothers me.

2007-12-24 07:17:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-24 07:14:41 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating