Would you be mad if your husband/wife went out for lunch with a guy/girl that you didn't know?
2007-12-24 07:23:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not but I would be asking some questions ...
2007-12-24 07:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by diva102288 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would have no problem with it. I trust my husband and he has never given me a reason to. The way I see it is people that do not trust their spouse (that has never cheated or thought of it) are very insecure about their relationship. My husband travels for work a lot and I knew this before I married him. He knows that any other woman would have left him a long time ago but I haven't. He trusts me to be faithful as I do to him. Just celebrated 17 yrs of marriage!
No trust=no love
2007-12-24 14:08:57 · answer #2 · answered by califdreamer_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset especially if I wasn't invited and if I did not know this person..And I know for sure that my hubby would be very upset if I did that..We have a very trusting relationship with mutual respect and a lot of communication..But we are married and have no business going to lunch with someone of the opposite sex..We live in a relatively small town so of course the rumor mills would be going at high speed..If it was for a business lunch then that would be different..You need to talk to him and let him know that this really upsets you and why you feel that way...Good Luck
2007-12-24 07:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by spldharleymom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience that these business lunches are no big deal. It is quite healthy to spend time with the opposite sex, as long as you take your marriage to lunch with you. It has also been my experience that you don't have to worry as much about someone you don't know going to lunch with your spouse. You have to worry about someone you DO know. If your best friend isn't answering his phone, he is probably making out with your wife.
2007-12-24 07:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad if my husband didnt talk to me about it first and if i didnt feel comfortable with it than my husband should cancel lunch with the woman. If he did with out talking to me i would be mad and i would be hurt cause my husband didnt come to me about it first and did it anyways!
2007-12-24 09:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but I do think I would have changed the schedule and gone with her to meet her friend.. You could have them come to the house. There is no reason a person can't continue a friendship but I do think you should at least be able to meet them.
2007-12-24 07:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Linda S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Try to get to know the people they're seeing on friendly outings. If you get a bad vibe from them ask them to stop seeing them. If they choose their friends over your then you really need to reevaluate your marriage.
2007-12-24 07:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by A55H0L3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. That in and of itself doesn't give me justification to think anything other than it could be on a business/professional level.
Unless there's something here you aren't telling everyone.
2007-12-24 07:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it's just lunch, besides I trust my wife and she gives me no reason not to trust her.
2007-12-24 07:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope-i trust my husband
2007-12-24 07:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to look at what they have done in the past... in other relationships, did he/she cheat, lie, or sneak around? you have to figure it out by the specific situation and person.... good luck
2007-12-24 07:37:28 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋