In the meanwhile, I have been talking to this wonderful man and we have a good connection. I told him i am separated, but i am "technically" not. I am of asian descent and it is forbidden to get divorced in your 30's. I am going to spend a wekend with him, to see if there is anything there? I don't like lying to him, but i don't think he would understand if i don't start this off this way. Should I go and see what happens, and then tell him. and honestly i am almost at that point where i do get separated? what should i do, i don't want to start off a new relationship with a lie, but i can't imagine he would give it a shot otherwise?
Also, if i am spending the weekend with him, do I ask him what are the sleeping arrangments?
I want to do what is right, but want to give this guy a shot.
My marriage is over in my head, just in it for a formality. I haven't slept with my husband in over 2 years and I don't sleep in the same bed with him anymore.
What do i do?
2007-12-24
04:18:12
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Marriage & Divorce