how do i get my ex girlfriend to believe me when i tell her its not her fault that we broke up, actually she broke up with me but its ot her fault and she keeps arguing but doesnt have any examples of why it was her fault while i on the other hand have tons on why its my fault, she just wont believe me what should i do or tell her, i have to do something she is my best friend now i just want everything to go back to normal
2007-12-24 04:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is also trying to tell me taht she wasnt good enough for me which is bull and she said she wasnt best for me and i argued with her of why it didnt matter if she was "the best" for me or not
2007-12-24 04:12:48 · update #1
tell her that
2007-12-24 04:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by it stinks in here! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay you are making yourself tired and depressed about absolutely nothing. Why did you break up with her? You didn't tell us that....anyway, if you guys broke up, it shouldn't matter at this point....and further more, for the record, you can not have a friendship with someone that you were romantically involved with. Because usually the relationship thing will happen again. So either get back together or do not keep a friendship. It's been many times I have heard of ppl trying to be friends after a romantic relationship and they end up having sex or getting back together, it's a cycle. Believe me I have been there before. So no, it will not be normal again....
2007-12-24 12:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by MadameJazzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK bro the issue is that she doesnt want to be with you because you are a snivelling spineless whimp. Next time you argue with her tell her you know what I was thinking about what you said and you know what you are right it is your fault we broke up. I was a great guy and you really screwed up. then you say hey i have another call coming in let me call you right back ok? Then you dont call her back and shell call you back and say hey why didnt you call me back? And then go oh man i fell asleep on the couch. Hey im taknig a nap can I call you in a little bit? Then dont call her til the next day and then when you call her you say yah so what were you saying? And then you let her ask you to pleaaase be her bf again because now you have some balls.
2007-12-24 12:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by Yeppers! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is that you need to quit trying to assign blame to one and other. This goes a long way to making things better. What purpose does it serve to say whose fault it is? Next you need to communicate without expecting anything in return. This dispute that you are having is all about winning and that should not be a part of it.
2007-12-24 12:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by eyecue_two 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No normal here you passed friend when you dated her. Just give it a little time to pass breaking up is such a bit**, if she wants to be your friend then she will have to get over it. Besides there are plenty more potential friends out there in the world.
2007-12-24 12:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by TIMM M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the only advice I can give you both... let it go, no matter whose fault it was its over and done with and you can't change the past. Good luck
2007-12-24 12:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by adriannk4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok either you two want to get back together but are fighting it ... or she loves you as a friend and doesnt want to hurt you by going back out with you ...just to break up later .. telling you shes not good enough is a way for her to ease her guilt ..
2007-12-24 12:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by autumn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you guys argue about that? Sounds like you don't want to stay "broken up". Am I wrong?
2007-12-24 12:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you forgive her and that you desperately hope that she'll forgive you too.
Don't think just do.
2007-12-24 12:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by seemorebetter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋