Family & Relationships - 24 December 2007

What type of guy do you go for most?

2007-12-24 04:04:09 · 16 answers · asked by hi 3 in Singles & Dating

I know this question is posted in Family and Relationships but this is where everyone goes.

I have been searching all morning for "Above the Northern Lights" by Mannheim Steamroller LYRICS and I can't seem to find it. I would really appreciate it if you could possibly find the lyrics for me. Thank you so much!

2007-12-24 03:58:22 · 6 answers · asked by Rebecca C 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 03:57:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like calling her names & stuff? saying mean stuff, then be nicer the next day.until he erupts again..?
.is this normal?

2007-12-24 03:57:27 · 21 answers · asked by snozzberries 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I are barely making it financially right now. We have a 7 mos. old and he just started a job Friday. He's been out of work for over 30 days and I only work part-time. I bought our son a ceramic stocking for $1.00 and painted it for Christmas, that is all we could afford. My fiance keeps joking (I hope) that he is excited about his gift from me on Christmas. I've tried telling him I have no money and no way to buy him a gift but he acts as though I'm just building to a great surprise tomorrow morning. Any suggestions for a money free gift? I feel terrible but it's just not possible to buy anything. I think he knows this, but I know his mother will buy something for me and say it's from him, making me look even worse.

2007-12-24 03:56:25 · 25 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

expects me to swish around in this?
What would you say or do?
http://www.birchplace.com/secure/shop/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=42&products_id=336

2007-12-24 03:55:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a 13yr marriage and we very rarely do it anymore, so its my outlet

2007-12-24 03:46:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so theres this guy at school and I really like him. And well everyday during orchestra I bring him gum. Were kinda friends but not very close. He also asks my friend for money. He usually talks to me when he wants candy. But recently we have been talking more. So heres the Question: Do you think that he is taking advantage of me for my candy?

2007-12-24 03:46:01 · 26 answers · asked by Just me 1 in Singles & Dating

I have heard many women tell me that they have a rape fantasy. Not one of the violence and brutalizing. More of a loss of control to someone. Is this common? My wife has told me that she has had this before. I am trying to understand this.

2007-12-24 03:44:50 · 43 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy on yahoo 360, is a bit too friendly with me...he sends me too many emails, comments on my blogs...now he has written a creepy poem about wanting to be with me.

I haven't really been anything other than cold with him...perhaps distantly friendly, I mean I signed his blog once out of politeness...but anyhow, he's getting obsessed with me.

other than staying off 360, what can I do, will he just forget about me in time? or go crazy mad obsessed? he's already sent me 'where are you? is everything ok???' once.

I probably should have seen this coming INTERNET PPL ARE CRAZY. right?

2007-12-24 03:44:45 · 14 answers · asked by GEISHA 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok last night my family and my mom's friend's family came over to have dinner with us and play games.... So anyways while we were playing the game I was starting to feel very hot in temp wise.... Even though it's freezing outside lol....but yea so i was really hot and my mom's friend's son says yes "Joy u are hot"! He didn't even feel me to see if i was hot if your thinking he was talking bout that... but yea i think i know what he was talking bout....hbu??

2007-12-24 03:44:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are both currently seniors in college. We have been dating for almost two years, and are in love. I go to school out of state, wheras he is a local student.

We want to get an apartment together after college, but are in disagreement about the level our relationship should be at before we take this next step. We both know we want to spend the rest of our lives together. but he doesn't want to get engaged before we move in together. I am the kind of person who believes in long engagements, and doesn't necessarily think that an engagement means the couple has to get married right away. I don't even WANT to get married until after college at least and we both have steady jobs. On the other hand, whileI don't want to pressure him into anything, I want to see some sort of commitment before I move in with him. What does everything think? How can I approach him about this without pressuring him? Every time this comes up in conversation he changes the subject.

2007-12-24 03:43:54 · 4 answers · asked by Citygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad and I have had the hardest time getting in touch with my little brother solely because of his mother. They live in a different part of the state and she's always saying their moving across the country and when we call and she picks up she acts like he doesn't want to speak to us, but she feeds him lies. Many times we call and no one picks up or returns our call. I knew So it's really hard to get in touch with him. Now it's gotten more serious because he tried to commit suicide and was in the hospital. The mother blamed my dad for it and told him to stop trying to contact him. My brother thinks we don't care about him. It's the mother's fault because she keeps him away from us despite our many efforts. When my dad gets things in order where he can drive out to see him he's gonna take this to court for father's rights, but in the meantime my brother is thinking we don't love him or care about him. How do we convince him? He's 14 and somewhat spoiled, but troubled at the same time

2007-12-24 03:42:47 · 10 answers · asked by Story Unknown 5 in Family

Im nervous to have sex with my boyfriend because he has more experience than me, and im afraid he'll think i'm bad or something! Should I tell him how I feel?!!

2007-12-24 03:39:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i got a happy healthy relationship.. we are getting married this march. Now we usually meet once in a week because of our work schedules and are simply dying to be with each other..i wonder will things change after marriage when we will be together under one roof...most of the time? or at least every day..?

2007-12-24 03:38:50 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello dears, Doris here. My husband Boris of 28 years near wedded bliss has asked me for a divorce. He tells me I snore too loudly. Not only that-he says I have lost my "hourglass figure." All the sand has run to the bottom he says. I told him all my clothes are made to measure, but he asked yes but who for? I said "well you have faults you know; You listen to too many of the young wives tales rather than the old wives tales." So dear readers, my question is can our marriage be saved? If you could give me some tips I would be most grateful. Thank you. A very happy Christmas to you all. xxx Kisses from Doris

2007-12-24 03:37:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A girl who is wild, into partying like lindsay lohan

Or

A more tame, sensible kinda girl like hilary duff

2007-12-24 03:36:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I was at a party and was deeply hurt when I saw my bf sitting on another girl's lap, cuddling her, and ignoring me completely. He then went home with her and didn't call me all night. I asked for advice and my friend told me I was too needy and that I needed to "share" my man. There are certain boundaries in relationships, but in my opinion, this shows great disrespect for me. What do you think?

2007-12-24 03:36:06 · 13 answers · asked by strawberrylemonadecupcake 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, here goes. I am a 13 year old musician who plays cello. I just finished the 8th grade in a preforming arts middle school in florida. I thought i would be going to the school next door, because we were a middle class family, and my mom couldn't really afford some fancy school. My mom is a very experienced photojournalist, with 20+ years of experience. She love doing photography, but for some reason gets very depressed when she is forced to work with something else besides photography. Before I graduated, my band director (I play clarinet 2, plus lots of other instruments) gave me this wonderful scholarship to French Woods Festival of the performing arts in New York for that summer. So i fly up, and i join the symphony within the camp. The conductor likes me so much, that he gets me an audition with La Guardia high in NY! My mom desperatly struggle to find a house, but found one in Staten island. I got in, all good right? no. i have to finish in dif. q. find it through my account thx

2007-12-24 03:34:42 · 3 answers · asked by shadow2945two 1 in Family

as a single mom back in 2000 i signed over temporary custody and now my mom refuses to give her back to me after begging since 2001. It's now 2007! How can I get her back? Call social services? Cops? This was done in VA and mom packed up my daughter and moved to FL.

2007-12-24 03:31:33 · 6 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Marriage & Divorce

said "are you jealous" i said "o' no" but i was and he said" you don't have to be" and like two minutes later i told him that i was jealous and he said "why?" i said"because that's like me going to the mall with some guy" he said "thats different" i said "how?" he just kept on saying"that's different" i asked what they did and he told me everything and dat her cousin was with them and she was shopping for one of her friends thats a guy and yea that girl likes him but my boyfriend said that she was ugly and he told her about me like we don't know if im pregnant yet so im upset you know but not angry because he told about it he's very honest and o'yea his 18 and im 17 and for all you ppl out there who give stupid answer don't even tell me what you think

2007-12-24 03:31:14 · 11 answers · asked by american girl 2 in Singles & Dating

but are there any songs, besides "i wonder" about difficulties in a relationship with a mom.? just wondering if there are anyones out there i can relate to?

2007-12-24 03:30:19 · 1 answers · asked by labambalove 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

so my name is juliana, but not the way you are thinking. It sounds like "Huliana" because i am colombian and it is in spanish. Is my name ugly? because i get made fun of a lot. I used to think it was cool to have such a unique name but i just dont know anymore...

2007-12-24 03:27:55 · 33 answers · asked by hello lovely123 1 in Friends

that their father will never come back (he left, and dosent communicate, and dosent even pay child support) he has never payed a dime for my daughters expenses, i payed for everything, he was gone by the time she was 2, now shes 12, i remarry and my new husband is an excelent father figure and cares very much for the both of us, he wishes she would call him dad or at least pops, but she still loves her dad very much and feels like shes betraying him, shes content with my relationship and our new family, but she still has very hard times, specially on her birthday and holidays accepting the fact that her dad is never around, what can i tell her that would make her feel better??

2007-12-24 03:26:56 · 6 answers · asked by suehellen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-24 03:25:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my bf been together for a year.
hes 18 and always suggested marriage.
I have this thing where i pretend to him that i dont want marriage and that i wont marry him when really i do.
So, one day, while we were talking, he asked me if i was gonna marry him, i agreed, he was happy and started planning our future. The next day, he started to talk about our marriage again, but i dont know why myself, but i disagreed, he was, i dno, quiet? Then after a while i agreed again, after some persuasion. After a few days, me and him were together, and again he was touching me and telling me how we were going to get married anyway. Again I disagreed and harshly told him that i dont want to marry him. I also lied to him and told him I love someone else, he went quiet. A few hours later, I asked him for marriage, but he disagreed, he told me he wants to stay single, i dont know why, but it hurts, he keeps telling me now that he dont to get married!! I dont get it, is my fault, or is it him?

2007-12-24 03:23:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Or is it always intentionally?

2007-12-24 03:23:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He used to be perfect! We were going to be married at any second... but....

Now, We have a baby! (yikes! I know! We are not married! It is devastating to me!!) He never hurts me or the baby, So, Do I have to stay with him? He is morbidly obese and I am afraid he will eat all our food! (I am dead serious! please do not think this is a joke!) I am afraid to marry him because they will base my food stamps on his income too! (hey! I paid INTO the system for like 20 yrs now! If I need foodstamps for a year or two, that is OK! it is NOT permanent! I will work again!) We live in a state that has one of the top three unemployment problems in the US! What should I do?! I do not want to put the baby in daycare! I want to be a Stay at Home Mommy! This man acutally creates more problems for me! I have to go around cleaning up after him! (he.... uh... misses the toilet? on a regular basis?). I can not send him out to buy TP or toothpaste or laundry detergent because he will misappropriate funds

2007-12-24 03:12:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend, always hangs out with "friends" without me. We do very little with friends together. He hangs with friends without me. He hangs with me alone. Is he cheating?? He shows ALOT of interest in his one friend's wife. I suspect them. Yet he assures me he would not have an affair with his friend's wife. I'm still not satisfied. How can I CATCH him. I wanna set him UP !! How can I do that??

Tired of being home alone, while he's "OUT" without me.

2007-12-24 03:08:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i will give the winner my best line

2007-12-24 02:42:00 · 2 answers · asked by irish_matt 7 in Singles & Dating