my fiance and i got a happy healthy relationship.. we are getting married this march. Now we usually meet once in a week because of our work schedules and are simply dying to be with each other..i wonder will things change after marriage when we will be together under one roof...most of the time? or at least every day..?
2007-12-24 03:38:50 · 16 answers · asked by Sarah S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"Now we usually meet once in a week because of our work schedules"
Your life will change. It will not be once a week, but everyday.
You will see your mate in a way you have never seen him before. From toenails, to the way he doesn't put the toilet sit down. From his daily routines. His good and bad habits. You will see his hair undone and you will smell is morning breath. You will be his intimate friend and confidant, and he will be yours. But is not going to be easy all the time. Challenges, and many. This is the person you decided to give the ultimate commitment too. The person you chose, no matter how imperfect. Remember that!
2007-12-24 03:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course things will change. You will be spending more time together, which can be amazing and bad at the same time. You will have a lot of growing and changing happening during the beginning, but if you love each other enough to get married you can work through anything that might come up. Just remember the love that you share and be understanding of each other! Life is full of changes and it is best to go through them with the person you love.
2007-12-24 11:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by TG 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you both say "I do" kiss your happy healthy relationship goodbye!!! Some people realize this in weeks and get divorced others lie to themselves for years and stay together. Whatever you do don't have children right away or you will have to lie to yourself even more. Wait 2 years and then honestly ask yourself if you are still in love!!! You can still save your relationship DON'T GET MARRIED!!! Take an honest look at all the married couples you know!!! Can you honestly say that even one of those couples are truly still in love with each other?!?!?
2007-12-24 11:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes thing will change after the two of you are married. Isn't that obvious?
My advise to you is realize that once the two of you are married, the hard work is not over. In fact, it has just begun. Enjoy keeping your marriage healthy by remaining selfless and true to your spouse.
Also, wise and happy married couple know how to "pick their battles.'
Merry Christmas.
2007-12-24 11:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All things change over years. Marriage goes in 'combo' with the words 'responsibilities' and 'obligations'. How sweet it is to be lovers forever.
Lovers don't talk about electric bills, telephone bill, kids' tuition, credit card payments, taxes, house rents or amorizations, etc. But, we cannot be lovers forever throughout our lives. It's a reality that we have to go through. If we get to rise over these challenges, the stronger the foundation of marriage becomes. But, not all are able to weather the storms.
Go for it, accept the challenge!
I have been married for 33 years and my website name speaks for itself: "A Proud Mom"
2007-12-24 11:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by MoreOfMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a week is much different than living together. right now you see each other only when you want to. When you are together 24rs a day, the other person will be around even when you dont want to. You will discover little things about the other person (some good, some bad). It will take alot of getting used to....
Eat Funyuns.
2007-12-24 11:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people change after marriage, some do not. In you case since you going to move in together, their will be some changes. You will be together more and living together, you will find your husbands habits, some good and some bad. He may leave his cloths on the bathroom floor or leave the seat up. You will defiantly find more about him.
2007-12-24 13:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Duncan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it will change. However, you have to work at a marriage constantly to make it great. If you're starting off with a good relationship now, your chances look good for working on a wonderful marriage. Good luck. Godloveya.
2007-12-24 12:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I would say so, you are spending one day a week with the man your going to marry. You are going to be sleeping in the same bed, you will need to make time for each other.
2007-12-24 11:43:27 · answer #9 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your case, absence makes the heart grow fonder. OH PLEASE spend more than ONCE a wk, before you take on the life of MATRIMONY. You really dont know each other at all.
You are in for a strong awakening....And that doesnt mean that it will all be positive!
2007-12-24 11:46:41 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋