said "are you jealous" i said "o' no" but i was and he said" you don't have to be" and like two minutes later i told him that i was jealous and he said "why?" i said"because that's like me going to the mall with some guy" he said "thats different" i said "how?" he just kept on saying"that's different" i asked what they did and he told me everything and dat her cousin was with them and she was shopping for one of her friends thats a guy and yea that girl likes him but my boyfriend said that she was ugly and he told her about me like we don't know if im pregnant yet so im upset you know but not angry because he told about it he's very honest and o'yea his 18 and im 17 and for all you ppl out there who give stupid answer don't even tell me what you think
2007-12-24 03:31:14 · 11 answers · asked by american girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That was a very long run-on sentence that did not contain a question to be answered, but I'll give you a few of my own.
Why did going to the mall with one of his co-workers bother you?
Why would you going to the mall with some guy bother him?
Why did you tell him that you weren't jealous when you were?
If he's honest about his activities, then what are you so worried about?
You both have trust and communication issues, either work on them together or break up. Going shopping with or having friends of the opposite sex should not pose a serious threat to a healthy relationship. Clearly, you two don't have one.
2007-12-24 03:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be kinda upset too. It's not cool that he's going to the mall with some chicks from work. If he needs to go to the mall he should go with YOU! Hun my best advice to you is no matter what in any situation like this DONT yell or get angry b/c men don't like that and it will likely make him mad and send him off to do it again... instead talk to him and tell him that its not ok with you and if he loves you he should respect your wises... maybe sugest to him that next time he wants to go with his co-worker to the mall he should bring u and you all should go... see how he reacts if he says no problem thats cool then you know there is nothing to be worried about and that he really is just friends and is doing nothing wrong but if he hesitates then you know u have a problem there b/c then why wouldnt it be ok 4 you to come...is he hiding something...? and did u say your pregnant... ? if thats the case he should be by your side not stressing you out all the time.... I hope this helps.. happy holidays!
2007-12-24 11:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by beautiful stranger 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, he should have invited you to go with him. Your his girlfriend. There are certain guys that I am allowed to go out with to the mall etc. but I have to let my boyfriend know in advance. He trust them and knows them and also trusts me. It was wrong for him to just go and not tell you especcially when you might be pregnant. Its honestly not different from you going to the mall with some guy. If the girl likes him I do not understand why he would go alone with her to the mall. I would be cautious. I do not see why he is trying to make you jealous at all. I would watch him and be careful. He could possible be going behind your back etc and just telling you part of what actually happened. You never can actually tell with people. But set boundaries say you can go out with these girls alone as in people you trust etc. but if you want to go out to the mall with these girls I would like to come with you. If he will not let you go with him to the mall then there is a situation there that he is hiding from you.
2007-12-24 11:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he thinks its ok for him to go somewhere with a GIRL ( co-worker) Its got to be ok for you then .ask him how he would feel if the shoe was on the other foot and that you dont wont to hear thats different or If I was up to something I would'nt have told you . dont believe ever thing and never under estimate NO ONE
2007-12-24 11:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Robyn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he needed a girl's help to pick out a Christmas gift for you. There could be a perfectly logical explanation. Sometimes you have to step back and try to see the whole picture instead of just feeling what you feel.
2007-12-24 11:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so you are knocked up from a guy who is not your husband, is 18 and going to the mall with someone else right? get real this guy is looking to cheat, honest my backside how do you know they went to the mall maybe it was her house and he spent a couple hours there, what do you think happened then
2007-12-24 11:35:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok just talk it out and be really sincere maybe the best thing to do is to have sex with him and flaunt it for his co worker.. thats kinda slutty but try it... if hes a smart guy he'll understand
2007-12-24 11:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Seth Clearwater 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah like I hate when that happens and stuff, like OK. I mean WTF, he said that and I was like all oh yeah, that was what he said and I was all like , i'm ok with that but then I said I wasn't and it was like, I was but not really, oh yeah, i'm all for that and stuff, but I was going to go but then I found out I already went, and stuff, oh yeah, i forgot to tell you the last part, so if you know what I mean, then Ok, but don't give me that , cause I don't even want to her that kind of stuff, oh yeah, that's right I was just thinking that I forgot about that. yeah, well, let me know what u think ppl.
2007-12-24 11:40:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am confuse, what answer are you looking for?
2007-12-24 11:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by vincent_choo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
...in the first place, how can we answer? u don't even have a question...
2007-12-24 11:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by my 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋