So I was at a party and was deeply hurt when I saw my bf sitting on another girl's lap, cuddling her, and ignoring me completely. He then went home with her and didn't call me all night. I asked for advice and my friend told me I was too needy and that I needed to "share" my man. There are certain boundaries in relationships, but in my opinion, this shows great disrespect for me. What do you think?
2007-12-24 03:36:06 · 13 answers · asked by strawberrylemonadecupcake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really dont think that sharing your man will mend the problem if he loves you he will stick to you rather than be sitting in order girls lap and sleep with her.I dont know if you are content with my answer but another thing i'll tell you is to be aware that the person he slept with can be an HIV AIDS carrier he should take an hiv exam as quickly as possible and he should see the beauty in you and stick to you.
2007-12-24 03:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
History is replete with example of polygamy, As in keeping with Hindu mythology, even Lord Rama's father had 4 better halves and Lord Krishna used to be shared by way of his spouse, Radha, Meera and the Gopis So you notice, females have all alongside being sharing a person, extinction or no extinction.......
2016-09-05 18:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by bubb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shows tremendous disrespect for you. You don't need to share your man like that! You'd best have a long talk with him because, if hes going to keep doing this, you're gonna have to dump him.
2007-12-24 04:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL TO THE NO! why would you share your man with another female. i can understand one of his family members but someone like a friend i don't think so. you should either put him in his place or cut him lose. i mean whats the purpose of having a man for you and, you got to share him. give me a break
2007-12-24 03:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to have to agree with you on that. That's totally disrepectful. You should leave him and your disfunctional friend alone. You deserve to have exactly what you want in a relationship, and if he cant give you that he doesn't deserve your time. There's certainly someone else out there more than willing to fulfill your needs.
2007-12-24 03:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by koko kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After that I'm surprised you're even calling him your man.
That is completely disrespectful and it shows that he obviously doesn't care about your feelings, and is cheating on you emotionally, and probably physically.
You deserve somebody who wont put you in this position.
2007-12-24 03:40:38 · answer #6 · answered by ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have an open agreement that you are both free to see other people and sleep with other people, you need to kick him to the curb. If you do have an open agreement, it was disrespectful for him to do this in front of you.
2007-12-24 03:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Share your man? Heck no! He was cheating on you! You need to dump him asap! He is a cheater, you want a man that is there for you and only you. Good luck!
2007-12-24 03:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Jessica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that this is not ok. I think that this is disrespectful towards you. I would talk to him about it ask him why he thought it was ok and what was going on. and tell him that it is not ok, and that if it happens again it will be the end of things.
2007-12-24 03:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by PinkPrincess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up w/ him, no girl should have been treated like that!! but before you do that, i would talk to him about it, there might be a good excuse, however outlandish that may sound
2007-12-24 03:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Bosquet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋