Im nervous to have sex with my boyfriend because he has more experience than me, and im afraid he'll think i'm bad or something! Should I tell him how I feel?!!
2007-12-24 03:39:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had this issue. Me and my boyfriend agreed to talk about it. I told him I thought I would not be good enough for him. He told me to stop worrying about it. You should tell him before you have sex with him how you feel honestly about it etc. If he is a good loving boyfriend he'll be nice and acknowledge the fact of you being scared etc. Also do not worry about it so much. The more you worry about it and the more you think about it the more you feel that you will be bad etc. Be careful as to who you have sex with. I am not going to tell you to wait till marriage etc. I am just going to tell you to be careful. You could end up pregnant even if you are on birth control and using condoms. Make sure if you did end up pregnant that this guy would be there etc. Be careful.
2007-12-24 03:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Caitlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain your reservations. It will make him feel more important. He will take extra care.
Before you have sex w/ him, know that 1 of 2 things will happen. He'll dump you, or he'll want sex all the time.
You're relationship will change, and you probably won't like the change.
2007-12-24 11:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by beckoningsubstitutes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he'll think its cute. Just tell him that you want to pleasure him the best you can, but don't know how. And just kinda sink into yourself. and let him open you back up and reasure you. I've been there, the experince part. Its his job to teach you what he knows, and for you both to learn from each other. Sex is teamwork.
2007-12-24 11:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by under1system 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has the first time jitters. Talk to him about it. If he sensitive to your feelings everything will take care of itself. If he isn't then you know it's a bad idea to have sex with this person.
2007-12-24 11:45:28 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...you should tell him how you feel and then just let him take the lead and just try to go with the flow and learn from him. And as cheesey as this sounds, reading romance novels can also help.
2007-12-24 11:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to what you think, there is no such thing as "bad" sex if you are a guy. He will not have a problem with your inexpereince.
2007-12-24 11:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by rdrfan4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about it. He probably won't be worried. He most likely will be understanding and willing to go slowly. If he is a jerk about it then I would say he is not worth your time.
2007-12-24 11:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by PinkPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes do, if he truly cares for you, he'll understand.
2007-12-24 11:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Jen_n_TX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u must talk to him and actually dont have sex at all before marriage...
2007-12-24 11:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him aware I think
I doubt he'd hold it against you
2007-12-24 11:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋