My boyfriend, always hangs out with "friends" without me. We do very little with friends together. He hangs with friends without me. He hangs with me alone. Is he cheating?? He shows ALOT of interest in his one friend's wife. I suspect them. Yet he assures me he would not have an affair with his friend's wife. I'm still not satisfied. How can I CATCH him. I wanna set him UP !! How can I do that??
Tired of being home alone, while he's "OUT" without me.
2007-12-24 03:08:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He doesn't respect you. You are giving him everything for free. There is no value for hime to make you happy or treat you good. You are living with him and having sex, without marriage.
Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
This may not be what you want to hear, but it is true.
2007-12-24 03:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by heartsarebad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the setting up part, but why are you home alone when he goes out...don't you have friends of your own that you can go out with. if you are not the partying/clubing type, i can understand, so spend time going shopping, meeting up for a coffee with friends, or have a get together at your place or their once in a while. Also, ask him if you can come along sometimes and if he says, no then ask for the reason behind it. tell him how it makes you feel when he goes out with his buddies, and no invitation at all to join them from time to time, also ask if there are other girls that hang with them..you know, his friend's wife or something, because if there are then he it should be cool to bring you with. if it is only guys night, i can understand why he doesnt want to include you but this should not be the case every time he goes out. bottom line is, talk to him about it and if he doesnt change, move on.
2007-12-24 11:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by mama2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By him hanging out with his friends all the time means he enjoys being with them more than you! He maybe hanging out more with his friend amongst friends because of his wife that he has taken a liken to!
Maybe they like each other. Why are you with him? Especially home alone! Bounce...find your own party and have some fun...meet someone new..
why torture yourself by trying to catch him with someone else...you already know that he is interested in someone else. Move on, find someone else to play house with.
2007-12-24 22:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In stead of acting immature, why don't you just dump him already?
You do know that you are a beautiful woman who deserves better than this guy is able to give you, right?
Then be the adult and solve this problem by finding man who loves you and treats you like princess.
2007-12-24 11:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES he is cheating. you need to start going out and see what he does. IF he cares he will let you know.
2007-12-24 11:53:29 · answer #5 · answered by bear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋