Family & Relationships - 24 December 2007

2007-12-24 10:43:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 10:42:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think that a 42 year old man is too old for a 21 year old woman?

2007-12-24 10:39:31 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i get asked to have sex by i guy that likes me and i really like him should i just tell him yes or to wait because im kinda ready but im kinda not

2007-12-24 10:38:13 · 23 answers · asked by Kara_Sue 2 in Singles & Dating

Wife wants to get a legal separation and says that when/if I find another woman I want to marry then we can do the actual divorce (FYI she wants out). She knows I want to date and hopefully remarry at some point because I want to have a wife that loves me forever (things are ending amicably and without drama or lawyers). She doesn't plan on dating until much later, when the kids are grown, so she sees no rush and we really are like each others best friends.

Should I do it this way? What will future prospects (dates) think about this? We are also planning on living near each other so we can both have unlimited access to the kids. One reason I considered this is because of the stigma of divorce! What do you think?

2007-12-24 10:35:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im Tiny
Just under 5 foot.
I have blonde hair and blue eyes
but i am much smaller than all my friends.

What do you guys think of small girls?
Im 15, from england.

2007-12-24 10:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-24 10:32:30 · 11 answers · asked by lilsam2662 2 in Weddings

ts a funny thing really...
i had so much hope put into you
i wished and crossed my fingers
it was useless, now that i look back
we closed our eyes and consumed
yet i think i knew all along it wouldnt be true
i thought you might care enough though
to spare me
you tore away my heart
blood and all
you didnt know you were a monster
but you chewed me up and spat me out
broken
i mended in time
but i can never be the same
i know now that it is possible to fear what you want to the most
its hard for me to get close to anyone anymore
... i think im afriad ill be broken agian
does that make me afriad of love?

written by me.
11.24.07

2007-12-24 10:32:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

New York Penpal?
Hi I am after a penpal from New York as we are studying the city at school. I really do not want to meet anyone over the internet as I have heard of some bad incidents from other people. But I was wondering if anyone alse could suggest any ideas of how to get in contact with someone?? I am a 14 year old girl and I live in New Zealand. Maybe through a school or something i'm not sure any ideas???Does anyone living in New York know a good school I could ask???And would the school think it was weird if some random from the other side of the world just emailed them and asked for a penpal?

PS : I have already asked my teacher if she could put me on to someone but she said it was not something our school did or something like that.

2007-12-24 10:30:00 · 10 answers · asked by adg 2 in Friends

My brother has cancer. None of his old mates ever comes to see him. Now that he is out of the hospital, he spends most of the time in his room. I'm worried that he'll be sick again, because he is so low, I wish there was something I could do to cheer him up?

2007-12-24 10:20:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Now I like him and I don't know if he likes me. My friend says he might but I am unsure. Everytime he see's me he smiles at me and I do the same. I'm really unsure. I don't know if he would like me. I am a year younger and I wont be at the same school as him for another six months. BTW I just saw him a couple days ago like three times and he smiled at me, from what I could see. Please help. Thank you so much!
Also last year he asked my friend my name and said that he would make sure to remember it.
Also whenever I was in the same room as him he would always say "hey" and no one else would and I had plenty of friends near by, but he was always the first to say it!
By the way I never really see him unless there is something going on at my school seeing a family member of his still goes to my school.Do you think he would ever ask me out or should I ask him out? Also I don't really see him or his friends that often. Thanks for your time and Happy Holidays!

2007-12-24 10:08:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a wonderful husband who adores us (me and our children) He is the sort of man every woman would want to spend the rest of her life with. Our problem is that we hardly ever have sex (married 5 yrs 2 children) i tried talking to him about it but he doesnt change 3 days i had this huge blowout ..... but not even a hug, is this normal ?wat is normal ie how many times a wk ? wat shld i do? is it my fault? pls help b4 i do something we both regret and when we do have sex its not mind blowing he comes i dont!

2007-12-24 10:08:01 · 8 answers · asked by olive oil 1 in Marriage & Divorce

lol

2007-12-24 10:04:05 · 6 answers · asked by cant take heat?get the f%&k out! 4 in Singles & Dating

my ex totaly cheated on me with some ugly chick! at first i was pissed but now i realize that if he was to ask me out agian, i would say yes. i miss him and is it wrong to give him another try? that is if he wants me still.

2007-12-24 10:01:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well I was going out with this guy for a couple of weeks but then we broke it off because he said he didn't want a girlfriend...well he actually said he really likes me just can't commit right now because he's too stressed with uni & needs to finish the semester coming up before making commitments & he's sorry its hif fault. We're now friends.

When I was talking to him he asked what I was up to n I said nothing and he said what would you rather be doing?...
i replied something bout going out but can't cos have to work th next day. I asked him what would he rather be doing #7 he said
'driving back to my mansion to my gorgeous naked girlfriend.' What do you think he expected me to say or feel?

He knows I like him and we spent every minute with eachother before he asked me out, then it fizzled out cos he can't commit. He's been out with 1 girl for 2 months and has only slept with her & was his longest relationship. He still wants to meet me though

2007-12-24 09:58:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last night i got drunk, and i woke up naked in my aunts bed,
she told me we had sex and i dont even remember it,

is she lying to me, did she spike my drink and take advantage of me?

im 19 by the way and my aunt is 45

2007-12-24 09:58:34 · 11 answers · asked by Playa P'z 2 in Singles & Dating

i wa out the other night with my boyfriend and i bumped into this guy who i used to just mess around with really...we were never going out or anything
he asked me if i was going out with my boyfriend and when i said yes he said "WHAT?? you can do so much better"
I thought this was a pretty nasty thing to say but my friends said it was a compliment...what do you think?
afterwards he was all flirty with me and i think he is just trying to keep me close so he can have me whenever he likes
I dont know whether i have the wrong impression of him or am I right...what do you think??

thanks
xxxx

2007-12-24 09:58:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wrote my profile on yahoo answers and got a message back from someone who said my life was sooooo messed up. Is it really?? heres what I wrote:

about me:
My name is Jamie,
Im 22, I have a 3 year old daughter (Layla) who I see 5 times a year cause im in college and "am not mature enough"-- a quote from my parents! My boyfriends name is Kevin, he's 24, super hot. Plays bass in a band. He just got me a puppy who I named nemo. But te stupid school wont allow pets so he lives with layla until I get back.

2007-12-24 09:56:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

conversation. I am all heart but to keep your man you also need to be fun . How can I be more that way ?

2007-12-24 09:55:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

okay, i went to my best friends house last weekend. we have been friends for about 5 years. i tell her EVERYTHING!! Well... last weekend, me and her uncle, who is about 35, (im 16) had sex. I know I can't tell her because our friendship would be over and i dont think i can do that, but what should i do? i can't really talk to him about it because its never just me and him alone, and then its just really akward... i dont know... it makes me feel like a whore because other than him, i have had sex with 3 other guys. and only one of them was i in a relationship with... am i a whore?

2007-12-24 09:51:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents and my husband don't get along. Long story short..my husband and I reconciled after a short separation and my parents are still bitter about the reasons that we separated...my husband is the kind of person who if someone doesn't like him he won't subject himself to being around them...my parents are the kind of people who expect spouses to go to family events regardless of the circumstances and try to keep personal differences to oneself during the event or holiday...My husband has just informed me that he is not going to go to my parents' for Christmas dinner because he is not going to be around a bunch of people who will be nice to his face and the minute he is gone talk trash about him and how he did me wrong before the separation. He thinks that he is doing me a favor by not putting himself in their presence, but the truth is I will catch just as much crap by him not being there. What should I do?

2007-12-24 09:47:56 · 23 answers · asked by hotrodgirl1973 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so here is the deal, I kissed this guy who liked me, but I really didn't like him. Just so I could have my first kiss. I was 16 and had never been kissed, how pathetic, so I thought might as well. Is this bad? i feel really guilty that i lead him on and used him for my first kiss? What should I do?

2007-12-24 09:47:33 · 9 answers · asked by Kate♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Wrapped it with a note saying: Each of these necklaces has a meaning; And, although I picked this one because of the color of the flower, it must be a coincidence that this one stands for beauty...right?

Hope you like it;

Merry Christmas, and God bless.

I've known the girl for a long time, and I think she may like me...does the note sound weird/ stupid?

Let me clear up age...Im 19 shes 18, but neither of us have had a bf/ gf before.

I really care about her as a friend, and dont want to cross any lines i cant step back across if she isnt interested...Opinions?

2007-12-24 09:47:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who can be very outgoing and funny, but you have to get to know her first and make her comfortable around you?

2007-12-24 09:44:30 · 12 answers · asked by pepperland 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend on AIM that I've talked with since September. We talk at least once a week and we get along pretty well. Yet I have been noticing lately that I'm the one starting the conversations and doing most of the question asking. How can I get him to be the one to start the conversation, and what does it mean if he's allowing me to talk the most? Does it mean he doesn't want me chatting with him anymore? 'Cause IDK! I'm polite and all and we have some good laughs together.....but I just seem to always be the one to initiate the conversations on AIM nowadays.

2007-12-24 09:39:35 · 13 answers · asked by The Girl In Black [panic!] 5 in Friends

My sister is third youngest and wants to get married!
i feel guilty as im the eldest and if only i was normal i would have been first to get married.
She hasnt told mum shes found someone but once told me via text. I know im les and mums been pressurising me to marry and i keep saying no but why do i feel guilty.
Its not that im unattractive, or anything like that just feel like the ugly old sister at the moment as people will probably talk.
I hate being les, if i was normal i would have been first to marry. Mum is a single parent brought us up on her own although im a girl i looked after my siblings as though they were my kids sad i know, i acted like their dad. I worked hard along with mum to makesure my siblings never missed out.
I am in love with a married woman, and no i didnt fall for her she fell for me. Even she doesnt know i feel the same and i knw i should not feel the same as her but i do. My life is pointless no happiness at all.

Please advise me what too do..

thanks

2007-12-24 09:35:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i miss them alot plesae give me an answer to how stop thinking about them.

2007-12-24 09:32:58 · 9 answers · asked by nhi v 1 in Friends

Well this girl is recovering from a break-up. We became friends and discovered that we had great chemistry. She stopped talking about her ex and became really positive.So after a month I made a move. She showed me her cheek when I tried to kiss her. I texted her later asking why, then she said we indeed had great chemistry. But she wanted me only as a platonic friend who is there for her!

She said she is not ready for relationship now, but even when she is she will NOT choose me, becuase she thought i was special and will keep me as an intiamate friend. She said she wants intimacy from me and wants me to be there for her everyday but does not want anything physical with me ever.

I feel completely used and hurt. What she said was equivalent to a guy saying, I want physcal relationship with u but nothing emotional, but in this case it was the reverse. There is no way I can take her offer. But what do other girls and guys think? Is this a test of some kind or is she using me?

2007-12-24 09:32:25 · 22 answers · asked by yes 5 in Singles & Dating

So there is this guy who I like but he is going out with another girl.
My friends have asked him if he would ever go out with me and he said yes but after his girlfriend if they broke up.What do I do?
Do I wait or move on?

2007-12-24 09:31:37 · 10 answers · asked by Sidney. 2 in Singles & Dating

i really want a certain girl 2 go out with me how can i make that happen

2007-12-24 09:31:06 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating