okay, i went to my best friends house last weekend. we have been friends for about 5 years. i tell her EVERYTHING!! Well... last weekend, me and her uncle, who is about 35, (im 16) had sex. I know I can't tell her because our friendship would be over and i dont think i can do that, but what should i do? i can't really talk to him about it because its never just me and him alone, and then its just really akward... i dont know... it makes me feel like a whore because other than him, i have had sex with 3 other guys. and only one of them was i in a relationship with... am i a whore?
2007-12-24 09:51:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not a whore. You need to tell an adult about this 35 year old pedophile that took advantage of you!!
Even if you think that you initiated the sexual contact, it was his responsibility to tell you "no" and help guide you in a way that would help you instead of help him get sexually satisfied.
Please tell a responsible adult and contact a counselor to help you understand why you feel the need to have sex to feel loved.
Have a Merry Christmas and pray to God that He can give you help in doing the right things from this moment forward!
2007-12-24 09:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, something is very wrong here, no 16 year old should have sex with a man 35, that is against the law, did you know that?
Did this man talk you into it in any way? Did he rape you?
At 16 if you have had sex with 3 others before this one, something is very wrong. I suggest you get some counseling at school or a private counselor to talk about why this keeps happening. You really need to ask youself too, what is going on here? Be honest with yourself and then change that to protect yourself and have respect for who you are. Know that if you are being talked into this by grown men or they are actually forcing themselves on you, they must be reported before they hurt someone else.
From now on, I strongly suggest you not let anyone get past a kiss, you are way too young to have sex.
2007-12-24 17:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes u Are! Ur 16 and Had Sex with people who u didnt really know! U and a 35 year old had Sex! WOWwwWWWW
2007-12-24 17:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes hun
You are a whore if you had sex that much.
And you're 16?
Just be careful of STDs and becoming pregnant. You're not ready for all that.
2007-12-24 17:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
sorry but yes u need to slow down b4 AIDS finds u I'm not trying to be mean but u really should slow down!
to Jo: Ur an @ss telling this young girl people make mistakes! she likes it and it not a mistake she needs an intervention and the man i lost my virginity to is now my husband so call me Mrs. moral code thanks............And she should call the cops that is rape!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-24 17:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Alexis D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whore thats what u r but tell her cause it is better tocome out of your mouth than some one elses
2007-12-24 17:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♥lauri babii♥ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, your not. I really don't like those goody two shoe "Mr and Mrs Moral codes" that get on her acting like they don't makes mistakes.
Whatever people get over yourselves.
2007-12-24 17:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
naw i did it with a dude that was marrried! and it was kool! dont listin 2 other ppl
2007-12-24 17:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by sad_girl_corinne 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋