my ex totaly cheated on me with some ugly chick! at first i was pissed but now i realize that if he was to ask me out agian, i would say yes. i miss him and is it wrong to give him another try? that is if he wants me still.
2007-12-24 10:01:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he still wants you? he should still want you. and if he doesnt it is his loss. If he were to ask you back, only say yes if he seems sincere, if he doesnt treat you well just gather the strength to let him know that he hurt you, and you won't stand for it. Be confident, that is the most attractive quality, and act like you dont need him even if it is the opposite. If he doesn't still want you then its his loss and you need to find a noncheating boyfriend that deserves you.
2007-12-24 10:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong, unless you enjoy being hurt. Now that he has demonstrated that he doesn't care about you enough to not betray you (and with an ugly chick at that) why would you believe that he wouldn't do so again?
It's easy to say no to people like this - just say the word, even if you don't want to. You will be doing yourself a favour. You could always say "yes" if you so choose, but then you forfeit any right to be pissed at him if he cheats on you again. For all intents and purposes, you have allowed him that right by acknowledging that this is something he does and choose to accept him anyway.
2007-12-24 10:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Was she ugly? Are you prettier than she is? Are you that superior? The fact that you add that judgmental detail shows that you're really immature in the way you're approaching this. He cheated on you, and you wonder if he still wants you. How sad, honey. You act like a little puppy, whimpering back to the person who just beat her. Grow some ovaries, girl, and get some pride. He cheats; you walk. I know I'm being hard on you, but you asked if you're wrong, and I have to say that you are. Why would you want a cheater back in your life? Be bigger than that and aim higher than that for your future.
2007-12-24 10:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by rb29440 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does the chick being ugly have to do with this?
.. Also, that's your decision. Generally speaking men who cheat will do it again, and honestly if he's cheating with someone who isn't attractive, he's probably not doing it to replace you with something better?
Though there's always the possibility that you're doing something to push him away- being needy, being a *****, etc, will generally do that.
If you're under 18, I suggest you just simply stop trying to have a relationship- it's not true luvz, and you're really probably not going to be together forever. The chances of that happening are slim to none.. so just cut your losses and join a sport, or something.
2007-12-24 10:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by A§IA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know whether he did it under unique circumstances or whether he is just the kind of guy to do it whenever. How old is he? How mature is he? Why did he do it? Will he do it again? Did he and you have a specific, explicit understanding about the nature of your relationship? Are you risking infection? You can't get over some people, but you can move on.
2007-12-24 10:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him again after he cheated on u? If he wants to...? Do u not have any self worth. Personally I am a very proud person and I would never go out with him again, but if you really feel that you like him and you find yourself constantly thinking about then you should get back together.Otherwise, save yourself the headache and move on.
2007-12-24 10:06:58 · answer #6 · answered by ElieZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex couldn't be considered cheating since you kicked him to the curb. You shouldn't be pisst because you gave him his walking papers. But now you are having second thoughs.
Move on girl friend. There's a whole world full of men ... sure some will be jerks but there are also those who aren't jerks too.
Don't give him second helpings. There was a reason you divorced him. Don't delve on it.
2007-12-24 10:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by David T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you chances are he did not want you in the first place. You are better off knowing now and taking a journey to find that person who will want you for everything you are.
Life is too short and you are too special to worry whether you did something wrong or whether there is something wrong with you.
You WILL find the right guy and he will be loyal to your heart forever. I guarantee it.
2007-12-24 10:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by Apathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm... let me see...YES. It would be wrong to give him another chance. In my opinion, I don't think a cheater deserves a second chance. If he could easily block you out while cheating on you once, he can and will easily do it again.
Not worth it, hun. Just remember the hurt you went through when you found out and had to deal with it. Use that as your crutch.
2007-12-24 10:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by BumblebeeQueen84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, its wrong to give him another try. you sound like one of my friends. she went out with a guy four times before she finally realized that he was a jerk. he cheated on her numerous times, but she would just prove to him time and time again that it didnt matter how many times he cheated on her; shed always be back.
dont let him take advantage of you. if you come back after hes cheated once, hes going to think he can do it again. you guys sound young. there are LOTS of guys out there that wont cheat on you. you dont deserve that crap. i realize you might miss him, and thats totally normal. but you dont need someone who cant even stay faithful to you. move on. hes not worth it.
2007-12-24 10:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋